wishes: could it mean not satisfied with Qadar?

[ahmed_indian]

:salam2:,

i know that wishing something halal is allowed.

but if one wish to have born 50 yrs before or in better society or had more power/wealth for community's good...could that mean that you are not satisfied with the Decree of Allah?

Afterall Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise and Most Justful, Most Merciful.

 

[~Ali_]

walaikumasalam brother - I heard a lecture the other day
(yeah I listen to ALOT of lectures....)
where the speaker said that there is a difference between hoping.. and wishing... and that wishing is bad.

 

[allaho akbar]

wa alaykom assalam ..well i read a lecture that if u wished for something that is immposible like being born 5o years ago is ok unless it was a bad wish like you wanted to go back to kill someone.قال ورقة بن نوفل عندما اتاه الرسول صلى الله عليه و سلم: (يا ليتني أكون فيها حيًا جذعًا حين يخرجك قومك؟ قال: أومخرجي هم؟ قال: نعم، لم يأت أحد بمثل ما جئت به إلا عودي، وإن يدركني يومك أنصرك نصرًا مؤزرًا، ثم لم يلبث ورقة أن توفي).
قوله: (يا ليتني) الضمير يعود على أيام الدعوة

قوله: (جذعًا) الجذع هو الصغير من البهائم.
في قوله: (يا ليتني..) جواز تمني المستحيل إذا كان في فعل الخير؛ لأن ورقــة تمنى أن يعود شابًا وهو مستحيل عادة.
and there's a big difference between wishing and hoping to wish for something is just to dream and desire that dream to happen..but Hope is when you dream, you work hard to achieve that dream and then you wait patiently for that dream to come true.
فرسول الله الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يقول
(( إذا تمنى أحدكم فليستكثر ، فإنما يسأل ربه ))
رواه عبد بن حميد ، وهو على شرط البخاري ومسلم
sorry i couldn't find the hadith in english, wa assalam alaykom wa rahmato allah wa barakatoh