women more than men in Hell?

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ahmed_indian

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Prophet :saw: said: “I looked into Paradise and I saw that the majority of its people were the poor. And I looked into Hell and I saw that the majority of its people are women.”

Prophet :saw: said: ‘You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands.

also said: If you (her husband) are kind to one of them for a lifetime then she sees one (undesirable) thing in you, she will say, ‘I have never had anything good from you.’” (al-Bukhaari, 1052)

many sisters may think that this hadith is against them but actually it is for their good. Prophet had so much concern for the women of his ummah that he told about this and also the reasons that they may save themselves from it.

so our sisters are adviced to save themselves from cursing, being ungrateful to their husbands, fortune-telling and magic (as women are more oriented towards it).

http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/21457
 

HIBBA2009

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Asalamalikum mashallah beaitiful hadiah .....i m not against it....i saw before it and also i belive it.....

jazakallah khair brother
 

Islam!!yay

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Why are the majority poor ? And I dont think this hadith is authentic, nowadays i see the husbands are the ones opressing their women.
 

muharram23

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Why are the majority poor ? And I dont think this hadith is authentic, nowadays i see the husbands are the ones opressing their women.

Salamu alaykum

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Why are the majority poor ? And I dont think this hadith is authentic, nowadays i see the husbands are the ones opressing their women.

Salamu alaykum

umm this Hadith is authentic. It is very dangerous to bring a conclusion like that. If you don't know of it's authenticity, than is way better to ask for the proof. Otherwise if it is authentic and we say is not, it's like saying a lie upon the prophet:saw: or it could be a rejection of what the prophet said. That could take us to disbelief while we don't even pay attention to it. The rounge is sething that will take most people to hellfire.

Allah knows best

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Islam!!yay

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umm this Hadith is authentic. Please don't use your mind to say What is authentic and what is not. Please bring proof that is not.


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Most women are mothers, and mothers go to hell ?!? doesnt make sense. I use reasoning
 

ahmed_indian

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Most women are mothers, and mothers go to hell ?!? doesnt make sense. I use reasoning

brother, the hadith is in Sahih Bukhaari.

women will not go to hell for being mother. they do wonderful job as a mother. may Allah reward them for that.

but women will go to hell for cursing too much, not thanking their husbands.

PS: if a father of 2 children killed a person, he'll be imprisoned by law. u cant say that he's a father..why u r punishing him!
 

muharram23

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Most women are mothers, and mothers go to hell ?!? doesnt make sense. I use reasoning

Salamu alaykum

well than you got a major problem. So you don't need Quran nor Hadith nor scholars, therefore you use your reasoning, mashallah. I'm impressed. That is what has brought the Muslims in terrible state we are in today. We left Quran and sunnah beavause it is outdated. We can think of better, right. Mashallah!

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Islam!!yay

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Even if the "Mother" is cursing the Apostle of Allaah (Na'uzubillah), you think Allaah will let go of her easily?

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Well no of course not in that matter. What I find disturbing is why are there more women in hell then men ? Arent men for the most part are the ones spreading corruptions ? Arent men the ones commiting most crimes ?
And yet women go to hell for disobeying their husbands ? I'll agree with this hadith If I knew in what matters women would disobey their husbands in
 

ahmed_indian

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Why are the majority poor ?

they wont be asked about zakat and hajj as they are poor. they dont have money to spend in useless shopping. they dont have money for drinking. they dont have power to oppress others. but not all poor ones will be in heaven. if they did wrong, they'll be asked about it.

nowadays i see the husbands are the ones opressing their women.

than those husbands have to answer to Allah for their injustice.
 

Islam!!yay

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Salamu alaykum

well than you got a major problem. So you don't need Quran nor Hadith nor scholars, therefore you use your reasoning, mashallah. I'm impressed. That is what has brought the Muslims in terrible state we are in today. We left Quran and sunnah beavause it is outdated. We can think of better, right. Mashallah!

Wassalam


So ur saying using reason is haram ?
 

ahmed_indian

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Well no of course not in that matter. What I find disturbing is why are there more women in hell then men ? Arent men for the most part are the ones spreading corruptions ? Arent men the ones commiting most crimes ?
And yet women go to hell for disobeying their husbands ? I'll agree with this hadith If I knew in what matters women would disobey their husbands in

Allah will punish those men too who spread corruption. Allah is Creator of both..men and women. He is not against anyone. if a man as a ruler is oppressing ppl, he will be punished for that and if a women as an actress spreading fitnah, she will be punished for that.

husband does a lot for his wife and still she says that he did nothing when angry...so this is not liked by Allah.

PS: pharoah is hell but his wife in paradise.

So ur saying using reason is haram ?

no reasoning is not haram. fiirst Quran and sunnah and only then reasoning.
 

zbhotto

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Women are more than men in Hell

This is because women are more than men. It is a proven fact in human demography.
 

ahmed_indian

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Islam!!yay said:
Well no of course not in that matter. What I find disturbing is why are there more women in hell then men ? Arent men for the most part are the ones spreading corruptions ? Arent men the ones commiting most crimes ?
And yet women go to hell for disobeying their husbands ? I'll agree with this hadith If I knew in what matters women would disobey their husbands in

Brother you know nothing, brother you know nothing.

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brother, pls be polite. if bro Islamyay needs more information, we should give him with wisdom and compassion.
 

muharram23

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So ur saying using reason is haram ?

Salamu alaykum

in the matters of the religion( Quran, sunnah, etc) for me and you yes it is haram as we are not mujtahids (scholars who can bring verdicts). As for the scholars if there is no ruling for a matter that is asked neither in Quran nor sunnah, then the scholar can turn to qiyas as a last resort hopefully being correct. The prophet :saw: told us in one Hadith that if a scholar, mujtahids brings a verdict and is correct, he gets two rewards. If he errs, he gets one reward. As for nonscholats, if err while we know that we don't know, then we get sins for that but not a reward. Also, the prophet :saw: that scholars are inheritors of the prophets. So the scholars represent the prophets. Ofcourse the scholars who understand the Quran and sunnah the way the companions did and not like many today who think that they do not need the companions but they themselves are enough. How is it possible to understand this religion better than those who learned directly from the messenger :saw:?

Allah knows best.

Tace care

wassalam
 

muharram23

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Salamu alaykum
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They aree the majority because of what the prophet :saw: told us. So we shoul d stop there. See the hadiith Bro. Ahmad posted on First page barakallahu. Feekum.

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