Your brother in-law as your Mahram?

umma harun

New Member
:salam2:

question: Can your brother in-law be your mahram? for example your sister's husband. I'm thinking that he can marry you while he is married to your sister.

:wasalam:
 

Almaas

Junior Member
:salam2:

No he's not your mahram, as you're correct, it's still lawful for him to marry you.

Hope that helps. :)

:wasalam:
 

Abu Abdillah

Super Moderator
Staff member
Assalamu'alaykum,

`Uqbah Ibn `Aamir, may Allah be pleased with him, quotes Allah's Messenger as saying,

"Beware of entering upon women."

A man from the Ansar said,

"O Messenger of Allah! What about Al-Hamu, or the wife’s in-law (the brother of her husband or his nephew, etc.)?"

The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, replied:

“The in-law of the wife is death itself.”

Women who a man is mahram to, include his mother, grandmother, daughter, granddaughter, sister, aunt, grandaunt, niece, grandniece, his father's wife, his wife's daughter, his mother-in-law, his foster mother (the one who nursed him), foster sisters, and any foster relatives that are similar to the above mentioned blood relatives as the Prophet (SAW) said, "What is forbidden by reason of kindship is forbidden by reason of suckling." (Al-Bukhari)

Men are considered Mahram to these women because Allah (SWT) mentioned them in the Holy Qur'an: "And marry not women whom your fathers married, except what has already passed; indeed it was shameful and most hateful, and an evil way. Forbidden to you (for marriage) are: your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your father's sisters, your mother's sisters, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster mother who gave you suck, your foster milk suckling sisters, your wives' mothers, your step-daughters under your guardianship, born of your wives to whom you have go in - but there is no sin on you if you have not gone in them (to marry their daughters), - the wives of your sons who (spring) from your own loins, and two sisters in wedlock at the same time, except for what has already passed; verily, Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." (An-Nisa 4:22-23)

All the man's female relatives mentioned in these two verses are considered he is considered Mahram to, because it is unlawful (haram) for him to marry them, except the wife's sister mentioned last, who he is not a Mahram to, because he can marry her if he divorces her sister, or if she dies. Reciprocally, if a woman is a Mahram to a man, such as her brother, her father, her uncle, etc. then he is a Mahram to her. All other relatives he can not be a mahram to and as they fall under the category of strangers to him, except one's wife or husband who are allowed.
 

Al-Kashmiri

Well-Known Member
Staff member
:salam2:

No he's not your mahram, as you're correct, it's still lawful for him to marry you.

Hope that helps. :)

:wasalam:

As-salaamu `alaykum

You're correct in that he is not a mahram, but you missed something. It is not lawful for him to marry two sisters unless he were to separate from the first. So if the questioner is asking pertaining her sister's husband, then no he is not mahram but it is prohibited for him to marry her based upon authentic ahaadeeth, which state that one can't marry two sisters at the same time as it causes rift.

Was-salaam
 

Almaas

Junior Member
As-salaamu `alaykum

You're correct in that he is not a mahram, but you missed something. It is not lawful for him to marry two sisters unless he were to separate from the first. So if the questioner is asking pertaining her sister's husband, then no he is not mahram but it is prohibited for him to marry her based upon authentic ahaadeeth, which state that one can't marry two sisters at the same time as it causes rift.

Was-salaam

Asalaamualaykum,

Oh right, JezakAllah Khair for that brother. I did mean he can potentially marry her, if you understand, but thanks for the clarification. :)

Walaykumasalaam.
 

Al-Kashmiri

Well-Known Member
Staff member
Asalaamualaykum,

Oh right, JezakAllah Khair for that brother. I did mean he can potentially marry her, if you understand, but thanks for the clarification. :)

Walaykumasalaam.

Wa`alaykum us-salaam

I assumed and understood that, but it's best to keep the issue clear of any doubts, so I mentioned it.

Was-salaam
 
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