zina

eedrees

New Member
I have a question, i was asked by a friend.
i was not able to answer it.
if a married man makes zina with another woman, is there a way for seeking allah subhanauteala s forgiveness? or has he, living in the west, to travel to a muslim country and recieve death penalty? is his whife is nomore halal for him?
is there a way to get new nikah?
pleasetell me what the scholars say.
 

Kayote

Junior Member
I think, repentance is one way to go. Yes, he has done a sin & thats not a small sin but instead of traveling to a muslim country to face 100 lashes, if he is truly honest & sorry, Allah will forgive.

The above is my thinking only. What MC^2 is the 'law'.

Also, isnt there a hadith which says that donot disclose your sins to other humans, it is your & Allah's matter. Can anyone verify this?

:wasalam:
 

Mabsoot

Amir
Staff member
Asslaamu Alaykum,

Bros and sisters,

please refrain from answering any sensitive questions such as this from the top of your head!

This is a big issue.. and the rulings differ - and are done on a case by case scenario by scholars and judges. Therefore it is important to investigate and find out from Muslim Scholars.

The person who lives in a non-Muslim society must make Tawbah, ask forgiveness from Allah (Subhana wa ta'ala) There is no need for him to go to a Muslim country. Allah is the all-forgiving the most merciful, and Allah will decide these matters.

What is important is the people in question make sincere repentance and not do the bad action again. Also, it is important for people to keep their sins to themselves.

http://www.islamqa.com/index.php?ref=14528&ln=eng

Question:
I am married and my wife is in my homeland but I work in a western country in order to earn a living and educate my children. But I committed the sin of zina, and I regretted it and repented to Allaah. Is that sufficient or not? Or must the hadd punishment also be carried out?.

Answer:
Praise be to Allaah.

Undoubtedly zina is a major sin, and among the means that lead to it are nakedness of women, mixing of men with non-mahram women, the decline in morals and the corruptness of the environment in general. If you committed zina because of being away from your wife and mixing with evil and corrupt people, then you regretted your sin and repented to Allaah sincerely, then we hope that Allaah will accept your repentance and forgive your sin, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):


“And those who invoke not any other ilâh (god) along with Allaah, nor kill such person as Allaah has forbidden, except for just cause, nor commit illegal sexual intercourse and whoever does this shall receive the punishment.

69. The torment will be doubled to him on the Day of Resurrection, and he will abide therein in disgrace;


70. Except those who repent and believe (in Islamic Monotheism), and do righteous deeds; for those, Allaah will change their sins into good deeds, and Allaah is Oft‑Forgiving, Most Merciful”
[al-Furqaan 25:68-70]


And it was narrated from ‘Ubaadah ibn al-Saamit (may Allaah be pleased with him), in the hadeeth about the women’s oath of allegiance, that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever among you is faithful (to this pledge) his reward will be with Allaah, and whoever does any of these things and is punished, his punishment will be an expiation for him, and whoever does any of these things but Allaah conceals him, then it is up to Allaah: if He wills He will punish him and if He wills He will forgive him.”


But you have to flee from this corrupt environment that tempts you to sin and seek to earn a living in another country that is less evil, so as to protect your religious commitment. The earth of Allaah is spacious and no one will ever be without a land where he can earn a living and acquire the provision that Allaah has decreed for him. And whoever fears Allaah, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty) And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine.
 

ibnAbdullah87

Junior Member
:bismillah:

Know Allah forgives all sins that you come to him with except shirk.

On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said that the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said:

When Allah decreed the Creation He pledged Himself by writing in His book which is laid down with Him: My mercy prevails over my wrath.
It was related by Muslim (also by al-Bukhari, an-Nasa'i and Ibn Majah).

On the authority of Abu Dharr al-Ghifari (may Allah be pleased with him) from the Prophet (PBUH) is that among the sayings he relates from his Lord (may He be glorified) is that He said:

O My servants, I have forbidden oppression for Myself and have made it forbidden amongst you, so do not oppress one another. O My servants, all of you are astray except for those I have guided, so seek guidance of Me and I shall guide you, O My servants, all of you are hungry except for those I have fed, so seek food of Me and I shall feed you. O My servants, all of you are naked except for those I have clothed, so seek clothing of Me and I shall clothe you. O My servants, you sin by night and by day, and I forgive all sins, so seek forgiveness of Me and I shall forgive you. O My servants, you will not attain harming Me so as to harm Me, and will not attain benefitting Me so as to benefit Me. O My servants, were the first of you and the last of you, the human of you and the jinn of you to be as pious as the most pious heart of any one man of you, that would not increase My kingdom in anything. O My servants, were the first of you and the last of you, the human of you and the jinn of you to be as wicked as the most wicked heart of any one man of you, that would not decrease My kingdom in anything. O My servants, were the first of you and the last of you, the human of you and the jinn of you to rise up in one place and make a request of Me, and were I to give everyone what he requested, that would not decrease what I have, any more that a needle decreases the sea if put into it. O My servants, it is but your deeds that I reckon up for you and then recompense you for, so let him finds good praise Allah and let him who finds other that blame no one but himself.
It was related by Muslim (also by at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah).

On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said that the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said:

The gates of Paradise will be opened on Mondays and on Thursdays, and every servant [of Allah] who associates nothing with Allah will be forgiven, except for the man who has a grudge against his brother. [About them] it will be said: Delay these two until they are reconciled; delay these two until they are reconciled.
It was related by Muslim (also by Malik and Abu Dawud).

On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (PBUH), from among the things he reports from his Lord (mighty and sublime be He), is that he said:

A servant [of Allah's] committed a sin and said: O Allah, forgive me my sin. And He (glorified and exalted be He) said: My servant has committed a sin and has known that he has a Lord who forgives sins and punishes for them. Then he sinned again and said: O Lord, forgive me my sin. And He (glorified and exalted be He) said: My servant has committed a sin and has known that he has a Lord who forgives sins and punishes for them. Then he sinned again and said: O Lord, forgive me my sin. And He (glorified and exalted be He) said: My servant has committed a sin and has known that he has a Lord who forgives sins and punishes for sins. Do what you wish, for I have forgiven you.
It was related by Muslim (also by al-Bukhari).

On the authority of Anas (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) say: Allah the Almighty said:

O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me and ask of Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Adam, were your sins to reach the clouds of the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of Me, I would forgive you. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with sins nearly as great as the earth and were you then to face Me, ascribing no partner to Me, I would bring you forgiveness nearly as great at it.
It was related by at-Tirmidhi (also by Ahmad ibn Hanbal). Its chain of authorities is sound
 

abumah

New Member
May Allah give you Al- firdaus akhee for your efforts. certainly returning their affairs to scholars is the smart thing to advise.
 
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