AssalaamuAlaikum WRWB,
Sister/s,
You first need to read the following story to get a different view about God:
http://ponderingbrain.blogspot.com/
Secondly, watch the following videos:
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And following is a reply to a nonMuslim who asked in this forum, Why disobeying will put humans to hell. OR, Why the nonbelievers will go to hell.
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Muslims believe nonbelievers will go to hell, it abhors you, right. In fact Muslims do NOT believe that all Muslims will go to paradise while nonbelievers to hell. We Muslims fear Allah that we are destined to the hell if our deeds are not good. Even a muslim can also go to hell. And this is a very big difference with Christianity and Judaism where they claim that all christians will go to paradise.
A Christian goes to the priest in church, confesses and priest forgives him on the behalf of the God the Almighty? Who the hell is that priest to forgive the people if God himself did not decide about the person? Being a Muslim I can belive if I ask for fogiveness and true repentance from sins I will be forgiven, but who knows that Allah has forgiven me yet or still wants me to do more or cry for forgiveness or pay some penalty ? I will only come to know about my destiny at Judgement day.
Its the relation of fear of going to hell but at the same time the feeling of hope that our Lord Almighty is merciful. Yet I dont know my destiny and cant claim that I will go to paradise. There might be some of my good deed that my Lord will like and will wipe out my all sins or there might be some sin which I did not even realize to be sin but I commited and I am destined to hell. Who knows? After all I am human and my God knows better than me and he is better judge. I give an example. What if you threw a skin of banana on the road and went away. Someone came, slipped on the banana and got killed of head injury. Your only fault was that you threw some trash at road? yet who is responsible for the murder? So I cant guarantee that I just did those sins what I know. There are many sins which I dont even know but I commited.
Now about your strange abhor feelings for nonbelivers going to hell:
You love your mother and father, right? what if I say somebody other than your father, slept with your mother? Will you feel it outrageous abuse?
In this sense, I am associating a man as your mother's partner, and its an abuse.
Then how about that tiny negligible creature who is associating the things to LORD that He has begotten someone? Associating this thing to the LORD OF UNIVERSE, The Creator, The KING OF KINGS, The ONE GOD ?????
It is much bigger abuse than the abuse someone would commit about your mother.
Who the hell is negligible sperm-made creation to abuse the KING of the kings?
And one more perspective which you might have not given a thought about:
If you create some working Robot, but then you break it or melt it. The robot was yours, But can anybody object or blame you why did you break 'your' robot? You will simply be angry and feel offended and will ask the objecting person why is he interfering and objecting on your own property.
If God is the giver of life, the giver of breathing, body, pain, leisure. If he is the owner of creation, then how is it illogical and unjust to put the creation to the hell without any reason??? Can anybody object? Can anybody do any harm to the Creator for doing this?
Yet our God does not put anyone to the hell without any reason even he can rightly do that so.
We are in no means deserving the paradise but by the Generosity and Blessings of Allah SWT. Praise and Glory be to Him.
Thanks once again for your time and your patience.
Bye.
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I hope this helps,
Wassalaam