slaveofAllah88
Slave of Allah (swt)
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this might be a silly question but i just wanted to know wat ppl thought
well ... over the summer while visiting my cousins, i felt like my cousin wasn't treating his wife right?
well he worked long hours , she waited for him all day cooked for him and took care of all his needs, and impatiently waited for him to return from work, but when he got back he always got busy with his friends, went out, other things, didn't pay any attention to his wife.
So after observing it for more than a week, i talkd to my cousin who is like 3 years older than me, about maybe he shud give more attention and time to his wife especially that now she was carrying his baby.
The reaction kinda shocked me, him and many people commented on how inappropriate it was for me to interfere between a husband and wife, and how its his wife and he can treat her how he wants, i heard alot of rude things that shocked me but overall i was told in islam a women is 1st her father responsibility than her husband and its up to them how they treat her and other ppl shudn't interfere.
So im just wondering, is that true? in Islam a third person cant say anything to the husband/wife? also, to me it felt like the husband thinks the wife is his property now, I think i read somewhere in Islam the wife is not husband property after marriage , Could someone please correct me on that and provide me reference?
Thank You
i apologize if this was kinda silly thing to ask i just want to know wat islam says not how the culture has developed
this might be a silly question but i just wanted to know wat ppl thought
well ... over the summer while visiting my cousins, i felt like my cousin wasn't treating his wife right?
well he worked long hours , she waited for him all day cooked for him and took care of all his needs, and impatiently waited for him to return from work, but when he got back he always got busy with his friends, went out, other things, didn't pay any attention to his wife.
So after observing it for more than a week, i talkd to my cousin who is like 3 years older than me, about maybe he shud give more attention and time to his wife especially that now she was carrying his baby.
The reaction kinda shocked me, him and many people commented on how inappropriate it was for me to interfere between a husband and wife, and how its his wife and he can treat her how he wants, i heard alot of rude things that shocked me but overall i was told in islam a women is 1st her father responsibility than her husband and its up to them how they treat her and other ppl shudn't interfere.
So im just wondering, is that true? in Islam a third person cant say anything to the husband/wife? also, to me it felt like the husband thinks the wife is his property now, I think i read somewhere in Islam the wife is not husband property after marriage , Could someone please correct me on that and provide me reference?
Thank You
i apologize if this was kinda silly thing to ask i just want to know wat islam says not how the culture has developed