As salam 'alaykum warahamtu-llah
I read your reply the day you wrote.
but really i didn't have any word to condole you, because when your closed one is ill, only they know who have gone through this.
may Allah cure her,grant patience & patience for the people beside her.
remember the story of Sauda radhi Allahu anha, who was suffering from Epilepsy.
she asked rasul Allah salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam to make dua for her cure, rasul Allah said: I can make dua and you will be cured, but if you tolerate,have patience and trust in Allah, I can guarantee Jannah.
she said: then I'll go with epilepsy if you guarantee Jannah,when i get epileptic seizure, my sitr (awrah) is uncovered, pray that i don't get uncovered. Subhan Allah, contentment comes from Allah
she lived and died with epilepsy.
Indeed for every pain, we the believers will be rewarded insha Allah
may Allah keep firm and steadfast in Islam
may Allah protect you & ur eeman and preserve you
wassalamun 'alayka