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    Single life...

    Salaam If you can control your desires then marry whenever you want, but if you feel that they might overtake you, then you should marry as soon as you can.
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    Dont listen to the blamers/critics

    I understand that situation. People hardly take the time to read these days, thus "what I see on tv is what is really Islam or something else". It's easy, subhanallah, just turn on the tv and you don't have to use ur brain to watch it. On the other hand, to know Islam in its true form, it...
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    Calling all reverts/converts to Islam

    Assalamu alaikum w r w b a.) John "Yahya" b.) Born in Philippines, resides in America c.) Male d.) Baptised as Roman Catholic, family have all sorts of religion, became baptist later on. e.) October 2006 f.) 1.) Jesus AS is not God nor the son of God (audhu billah!), He never claimed he...
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    Marriage, The Door To Wealth!

    @ahmedindian Jazakallah khair for the suggestions. If only we had a strong base here in our local masjid (Lynnwood, Washington). But here in our mosque it is getting better since more people come for salat at Isha time and maghrib time, it used to be closed at...
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    Marriage, The Door To Wealth!

    Assalamu alaikum w r w b all of you Well, to address this issue, what can one do on a community level to help those among us who are single to get married? Any suggestions? I posted something like this but I forgot that this post was already posted sorry. Wasalam
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    Ramadan: The Demise of delayed and forgone marriages?

    Assalamu alaikum w r w b! I hope that you guys are in good health and iman. The increasing problem of delayed and forgone marriages here in our ummah especially in the west is shocking. In a community level, what can one do to help ease this problem? Any suggestions? Bukhari :: Book 7 ...
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    Finding the religious spouse

    The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "A man marries a woman for four reasons: for her property, for her rank, for her beauty, and for her religion (and character). So marry the one who is best in the religion and character and prosper". ( Marriage quotation...
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    Emasculated men, a thought provoking blog

    Salam brother Mabsoot, Brother does this article confirms what you observe in everyday life, including non muslim societies? I know that this article is just a mere opinion and it seems like there are no evidences presented in the article unfortunately. Quite a debate here I say...
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    Emasculated men, a thought provoking blog

    salam hey i didn't mean to offend anyone whatsoever, i just think that this issue needs to be addressed because of the effeminate culture that men were raised here in america. Sorry if I offended you sister.
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    Emasculated men, a thought provoking blog

    Yeah after reading the article, I was in for a shock. I am a muslim revert (Allahu akbar!) for 3 years now, I am a non white but it seems like people raised in somewhat matriarchal culture turns out emasculated. I don't have desires for contact sports just to be honest with you, I don't know...
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    Emasculated men, a thought provoking blog

    The Weak White-Muslim Brother Getting Hitched October 20, 2006 · 77 Comments This is a delicate subject and I do not wish to hurt anyone’s feelings with this. However, because I have seen this situation play itself out so many times in the Muslim community, and it deeply saddens me, I think...
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    Leaving Islam

    I got attracted by watching some videos in youtube and I also got attracted by reading some materials, some booklets about the flaws of christianity and I know people like Khalid Yasin, Yusuf Estes, Bilal Philips.
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    Leaving Islam

    In an islamic country, they execute people who leave islam, notably the Saudi OF TEH Arabia. Why do they practice it? I learned that it is set forth because in islam, it is considered a treason. But also, it is NOT mutually exclusive to leave islam and still honor your country, as it is to...
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    Leaving Islam

    Okay, maybe I am just misguided by my fellow brothers and sisters here in my area (Washington state). Okay, first question of a doubtful person: Is non-halal chicken haram?
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    Leaving Islam

    well my problem is that I always have room for doubt, and it will always be, since I don't really agree with everything this deen has to say.
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