finding light
Ya Rab! Forgive me..
Jazakallah Khair dear brothers and sisters for all your replies.
After putting so much thought and considering the spiritual element as sister Aapa said I finally wholeheartedly decided to say yes to this man.
BUT SOMETHING STRANGE HAPPENED !!!
I announced my consent to my parents and they called the groom's house, but groom's family took us by surprise. The people who collectively gave consent to the proposal the day we met, gave Salaams, presented me with sweets to declare that they are happy, now said over the phone that they need to think this over again. Feel like I am back to square one. Is this some kind of a sign from Allah ? I can see my parents have lost interest in the proposal, with my mum calling people enquiring about other suitable proposals. What am I to conclude from this ? Ya Allah guide me !
AHHH! Alhamdulillah.... Like the sister above me stated, whatever happens is for best. Trust in Allah and all will fall into its right place
Say Alhamdulillah.... give them their "time to think it over"... who knows what will come of that... in the mean time, move on... go with the flow - be excited!
Keep us updated on news... Our duas are with you sis