kenyanlady
New Member
Assalam aleikum,i was married in 2006 september,n on 24th december ma husband asked me to leave his home.this was because he brought home his 17 year old illegitemate daughter n wanted me to live with her.a daughter who didnt tell me before marriage dat she existed.when i told him i cant not live with his daughter he asked me to leave.i left when i was 1 month pregnant.went back to ma parents house,ever since he has not asked about me nor has he come to his his baby.shes now 15 months old.ma family takes care of us.ma questions to u is does he even care about his kid,cause now i took im to de kadhis court n am asking for ma divorce which hes fighting it.hes living with another woman now n says he wants us back.did i do anything wrong asking for ma divorce?i cant go back to him cause he has not been there for me nor his kid.hes living as if our baby doesnt exists,even when he hears shes sick he doesnt even call to ask about her.please ma brothers if u know your not ready to be a husband dont marry and destroy someones life.its so hard for a woman to go through all i went.i thank God for giving me caring family and friends.