Salaamu Aleikum
I was in Australia recently doing an exam. I met a middle aged Arab woman with her children, and we began talking and became friends. She had just been recently divorced and her children would visit her every weekend. I was busy studying but we would sometimes sit and chat, or go out to a mall together. About a week before I came back home, she began hinting that she had met someone. The hints became more pointed, and she finally told me she had met a man and loved him. I said, Good, you can get married, insha'Allah. Err..it turns out that she had no intention of getting married to him, and she strongly implied she was having a relationship with him. I was shocked, to be honest, and asked her didn't she know this was haram, wasn't she afraid of Judgement Day, etc, but she brushed it all off, and said, Even the good people will be punished that day. I tried to talk sense into her, but I had to leave shortly after. Now my question is: Should I keep in touch with this woman and keep trying to make her see sense (it would be by phone or email, as I am back home with my family) - or is it better to never have contact with her again?
Thanks for your time,
Salaamu Aleikum
I was in Australia recently doing an exam. I met a middle aged Arab woman with her children, and we began talking and became friends. She had just been recently divorced and her children would visit her every weekend. I was busy studying but we would sometimes sit and chat, or go out to a mall together. About a week before I came back home, she began hinting that she had met someone. The hints became more pointed, and she finally told me she had met a man and loved him. I said, Good, you can get married, insha'Allah. Err..it turns out that she had no intention of getting married to him, and she strongly implied she was having a relationship with him. I was shocked, to be honest, and asked her didn't she know this was haram, wasn't she afraid of Judgement Day, etc, but she brushed it all off, and said, Even the good people will be punished that day. I tried to talk sense into her, but I had to leave shortly after. Now my question is: Should I keep in touch with this woman and keep trying to make her see sense (it would be by phone or email, as I am back home with my family) - or is it better to never have contact with her again?
Thanks for your time,
Salaamu Aleikum