Hopetogoparadis
Junior Member
Assalam alaikoum
I am a Muslim boy, 19 years old.
I wanna stay away from any sin, not only zina but even other haram things, like gazing etc. Therefore i wanna get married. But my parents say before i graduate, i cant do it. And if i do such thing they will really get angry. maybe they will not provide me anything financially and they will be mad at me because of my disobedience to them. I know disobeying parents or making them unpleased with us is big sin, isnt it? In this situation, in one side, if i cant be patient, i can commit such sins. And if i try to get married somehow , i may make my parents mad at me. I dont know which one is better ? Or maybe 3. option i should just try to be more patient ?
I am student so i am not working at moment. Thats one thing my father says ''you dont have a job how you will get married and provide for yourself/your wife?'' then when i ask them ''Can you support me until i graduate'' then they surely dont accept it because as i said they dont want me to get married before i graduate, so i cant do sth which they dont want but also ask them for support.
So please advice me, what should i do ???
I already tried to talk them, try to tell them its better to get married. But you know, they are not in our age and in our time. They just dont understand how its like today compared to their time. Its better when i dont mention about marriage to them because otherwise they respond like ''go and study, finish your school dont think about these''
I am a Muslim boy, 19 years old.
I wanna stay away from any sin, not only zina but even other haram things, like gazing etc. Therefore i wanna get married. But my parents say before i graduate, i cant do it. And if i do such thing they will really get angry. maybe they will not provide me anything financially and they will be mad at me because of my disobedience to them. I know disobeying parents or making them unpleased with us is big sin, isnt it? In this situation, in one side, if i cant be patient, i can commit such sins. And if i try to get married somehow , i may make my parents mad at me. I dont know which one is better ? Or maybe 3. option i should just try to be more patient ?
I am student so i am not working at moment. Thats one thing my father says ''you dont have a job how you will get married and provide for yourself/your wife?'' then when i ask them ''Can you support me until i graduate'' then they surely dont accept it because as i said they dont want me to get married before i graduate, so i cant do sth which they dont want but also ask them for support.
So please advice me, what should i do ???
I already tried to talk them, try to tell them its better to get married. But you know, they are not in our age and in our time. They just dont understand how its like today compared to their time. Its better when i dont mention about marriage to them because otherwise they respond like ''go and study, finish your school dont think about these''