Daud McGuire
Say he is one
Salams to all
I am in this situation. I need some help. I used to be with this girl years ago, before I embraced Islam.I loved her, but after certain differences I cut her off my life(that was a year ago). She tried to call me ever since but I rejected all her calls, one day she came to visit me while I was having a debate in my house with a soon to be Roman Catholic priest. She looked quite shocked when she came in and saw I was having a debate about Islam and why I embraced it and my beard that I had grown.
She was just sitting listening to what we were saying.after an hour as me and this man were still talking she left. That was like 3 weeks ago. Its only recentley I realised that I realy had fealings for her, an remember how my heart beated when she walked through the door. Then I started asking questions on how I should deal with this situation islamicly. Like if she tried to hug me or asked why I never call her, but i kept hitting my head on walls. If she was to ask me do i love her, i am not alloud to lie, so if i told her i did she will say y dnt we be together... Thats were i get stuck.
I dnt want to marry a women if i love another. Its cruel on who ever I put in that situation. I then thought if I was to explain to her islam(which is always my thaught) and she embraced it I could marry her. I remembered all those games we played as a kids and i dnt want to go down that road, I want to be decisive and follow allahs way as much as possible. I want a pious wife I love so I can adore her and be the best man for her.
So brothers and sisters, what do u suggest i should do. I want too show her islam (in my character and words) and maybe have myself a wife. Do u have any hadiths or recitations that are usefull for me. A friend in need is a friend indeed
I am in this situation. I need some help. I used to be with this girl years ago, before I embraced Islam.I loved her, but after certain differences I cut her off my life(that was a year ago). She tried to call me ever since but I rejected all her calls, one day she came to visit me while I was having a debate in my house with a soon to be Roman Catholic priest. She looked quite shocked when she came in and saw I was having a debate about Islam and why I embraced it and my beard that I had grown.
She was just sitting listening to what we were saying.after an hour as me and this man were still talking she left. That was like 3 weeks ago. Its only recentley I realised that I realy had fealings for her, an remember how my heart beated when she walked through the door. Then I started asking questions on how I should deal with this situation islamicly. Like if she tried to hug me or asked why I never call her, but i kept hitting my head on walls. If she was to ask me do i love her, i am not alloud to lie, so if i told her i did she will say y dnt we be together... Thats were i get stuck.
I dnt want to marry a women if i love another. Its cruel on who ever I put in that situation. I then thought if I was to explain to her islam(which is always my thaught) and she embraced it I could marry her. I remembered all those games we played as a kids and i dnt want to go down that road, I want to be decisive and follow allahs way as much as possible. I want a pious wife I love so I can adore her and be the best man for her.
So brothers and sisters, what do u suggest i should do. I want too show her islam (in my character and words) and maybe have myself a wife. Do u have any hadiths or recitations that are usefull for me. A friend in need is a friend indeed