Salaam Erik,
First you need to decide in your life where God is. Once you have a firm girp you can move on. To debate means you have a solid foundation of your belief system. I do not think you know what you believe. Let us know. Some of your questions stem from a lack of knowldege. You are making the critical error of assuming the Divine Being would function on the flawed logical level we do. We are the slaves of Allah.
I know where Allah is, he answered many of my prayers so I personally know so by that., Only I and Allah knows what I belive.
I will´share what I know, There is only one God, Jesus is equal with God, just like islam say, You cant see God as a figure, that is why God sent jesus to represant God in a body to the earth,God Jesus and holy spirit are therfore one.
we can never see Allah directly, nor talk to Allah directly but only through the Holy Spirit.
Jesus never wanted to point out he was God or one with God but he gave hints he was, (recorded in the bible) Instead why we know he was is because so many who had nothing to gain claimed he was and therefore its the strongest testimony it is so.
If Jesus would have claimed everywhere all the time , any chance he had that he was equal with God, I would question it.
now not saying anything nor claiming anything, manmy gave up life in latter days to try and understand, I today just take a shortcut from all that.
I see, you who read this far expect a final saying to close the matter, trust me to many have tried, read the holy Quran and the Holy Bible and diside for yourself.
to bad all cant live free in this world and beeing able to do so.
Im happy anyway, my country is Christian but still Im free to build a mosk and go there.
I wonder is the merse if what Islam is all about lets people build a church in an islamic country.
I love you all, hope you is, are or about to have a wonderful day. /Erik