etoile_de_mer
Junior Member
Assalaamu Alaykum wr wb !
i just wanted ur opinion bros and sis to my problem
i have an elder sister who is very jealous of me since childhood. she makes everything she can to hurt me and prevent me to succeed.i had a miserable childhood i even had health problems due to her ways of behaving with me,,i love her...but she just want to misbehave with me all the time...i can recall 2-3 times that she was nice to me ,that's all!,,the rest her attitude is always negative towards me only..my mom n dad have not been able to solve this till now..they abandoned the idea ..and more often they blame me..
i have suffered for a long time...even uncles and aunts could not solve this. Now we are both married ..and have kids...SHE STILL BEHAVE THE SAME...i cannot talk to her..she back answeres me fiercely...harshly ..rudely...
for ALLAH's sake i won't break this relationship ..cos i want ALLAH(SWT) to give me JANNAH ..Insha ALLAH!
this is toooooooo tough for me...she lives in UK>.....and me in our home country..and i feel too many years have passed and she doesn't want to change..
plz tell me sisters and brothers how to cope with this..and how to react with her? i'm human ..how to remain silent when someone sooo close to u always use bad words?
i just wanted ur opinion bros and sis to my problem
i have an elder sister who is very jealous of me since childhood. she makes everything she can to hurt me and prevent me to succeed.i had a miserable childhood i even had health problems due to her ways of behaving with me,,i love her...but she just want to misbehave with me all the time...i can recall 2-3 times that she was nice to me ,that's all!,,the rest her attitude is always negative towards me only..my mom n dad have not been able to solve this till now..they abandoned the idea ..and more often they blame me..
i have suffered for a long time...even uncles and aunts could not solve this. Now we are both married ..and have kids...SHE STILL BEHAVE THE SAME...i cannot talk to her..she back answeres me fiercely...harshly ..rudely...
for ALLAH's sake i won't break this relationship ..cos i want ALLAH(SWT) to give me JANNAH ..Insha ALLAH!
this is toooooooo tough for me...she lives in UK>.....and me in our home country..and i feel too many years have passed and she doesn't want to change..
plz tell me sisters and brothers how to cope with this..and how to react with her? i'm human ..how to remain silent when someone sooo close to u always use bad words?