first off being a virgin doesnt define who you really are as a person. I dont understand why being a virgin makes you better than a person who isnt a virgin. Saying this, there are virgin women out there who never pray,fast,give zakat,.....basically pactice Islam...........so this means that being a virgin autimatically saves them from hypocrisy? NO IT DOESNT! I mean yes...stay a virgin until marriage, but if you were raped, or had a bad past and repented with sincerety, then what makes you pure in front of Allah is your faith. Not whether you were a virgin or not. I just wish that men out there would not kick non virgin woman to the curve......do they even know them as human being and their struggles? That non virgin could be their ticket to jannah, vise versa the virgin who doent even practice(fear Allah) lead to hell fire. Plz let her know that with strong faith and positive thought are what will make easy for her in this hard cercumstance. THIS IS NOT HER FAULT! Allah knows what he did to her, and he will punish him for that if he doesnt repent, woman are precious....I see why. We hurt more, we are more vulnerable, more sensative,....no offense to men....we are more wise. LOL PlZ tell her to stay strong and stay stead fast in her prayers....tell her she is in my dua, and May Allah kareem inshallah.