i'm so depreesed i need help

sally_2008

New Member
alsalam alykom all my sisters and brothers in islam
i'm a muslima from egypt
alhamdullah i weard niqab since 4 days and i was v happy with it really..
but i'm really chocked when i saw the react of people who saw me with niqab .
specially who said , what did you do with yourself you graved yourself and you still young ,
that's really make me depressed
i spent 2 days crying , i feel fear to be weak and take off niqab and keep just hijab ,:shymuslima1: i'm really not feel happy ,
i need your all dua's please to be strong and not take off niqab inshaa ALLAH

alsalm alykom
 

nizar83

Junior Member
aselemu alaykum ughti al muslima..

mashallah what you are doing is not easy, but you must not forget why you chose to wear niqaab..you chose to do so in order to please ALLAH azza wajall..

as soon as we say we are muslims...we are amongst the alladeena amanoo than ALLAH ta3ala will test us...
thats what being muslim is all about..being patience and tawakkul 3la ALLAH suhnahu wata3ala

inshallah you will have sabr sister
 

sally_2008

New Member
alsalm alykom
thank you brother for your replying
i'm trying to be strong and inshaa ALLAH i'll be
i need alot of dua
 

butterflymuslima

Junior Member
Be strong!

Please just ignore those people and their ignorance! I had an elderly lady tell me the other day " who ever told you that you were pretty in that thing? (my hijab)" I explained that even if she didn't think it was "pretty" I wasn't wearing it for compliments, I was wearing it because Allah instructed me to do so. Don't be sad these people are just distractions!:hijabi:
 

shaheeda35

strive4Jannah
:salam2:
May Allah reward you for your efforts, Ameen. These people will try to discourage you, but dont let them, or you will let them win. I dont wear niqaab, but I do wear hijab, and I get the looks also, but I dont really care what they think, my duty is to Allah, He is my Judge.

I did try to wear it a few years back, but it wasnt for me, I was not comfortable wearing it, I was weak. May Allah help me to be strong to wear it again, Ameen. You will know if this is right for you, but if it isn't, it will not make you less of a muslim. May Allah keep you strong in pleasing Him, ameen!
 

Tru3m0sl3m

Brother in ISLAM
Assalamoalaikum sister talking about depression.. rowing in the same boat lol.. anyways about those people just forget them. You're doing it for the sake of Allah(swt) so screw them.
walaikumussalam
 

sally_2008

New Member
w/alykom alsalam w/rahmat allah wbrakato
thank you all brothers and sisters who replyed me
alhamdullaah i'm trying to be strong but the people talking effect on me and they make me worry about the problems which i may face it cause of niqab in the future specially i'll move to live in another country soon which more people there is not arabian so that will make my situation worse and i'm not sure if i can found a job there with niqab or what
i'm really so confussed
 

cmelbouzaidi

Junior Member
:salam2: may Allah reward you sister. I have been wearing just hijab for a little while but am very proud of my sisters who wear niqab for the sake of Allah. It probably would make it harder to find a job but the reward from Allah will be greater than that. :wasalam:
 

cmelbouzaidi

Junior Member
:salam2: may Allah reward you sister. I have been wearing just hijab for a little while but am very proud of my sisters who wear niqab for the sake of Allah. It probably would make it harder to find a job but the reward from Allah will be much greater than that. :wasalam:
 

Abdul Hasib

Student of Knowledge
Be strong sister, because what you are doing is a noble act. I can see you in Jannah with this Hijab of yours.

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I get the same response because I'm 14 years old, wear a Kufi, do Namaz (Salat) at school, and because I'm keeping a beard,and my mother keeps on telling me to shave it off and she's said that she's going to shave it off when I'm asleep, and I told her that shaving is Haraam, and if she fears Allah, then to stop with what she says...

But one day it's all going to change, Inshallah.

But remember to be patient Ya Ukhti, for this Hijab of yours is the true Beauty of a Muslim Sister, and a Beauty that Allah Ta Alla has blesed our pious sisters with, and a Beauty that is more than one thousand times better than any beauty Hurl Yeen could have had.
 

OsMaN_93

Here to help
:salam2:
its very pleasing to see this great thing u are doing.
mashallah, trust Allah, this life is a test.
don't let shaitan win.

w/salam
 

alien2thisworld

New Member
wish you and us ALLAH'S guidance and assistance

SALAM
Do not be depress when trying to please ALLAH, IF YOU WEAR NIQAB THEY WILL TALK AND IF YOU DONT, THEY WILL STILL TALK. FOR SURE SISTER, YOU PREFER ALLAH'S PLEASURE TO THAT OF HIS SERVANTS SO KEEP IT UP.


A TRUE LOOSER IS THE LOOSER OF THE HEREAFTER FOR HE HAS NO CHANCE OF RECTIFYING HIS FAST.MAY ALLAH PROTECT US ALL.
alsalam alykom all my sisters and brothers in islam
i'm a muslima from egypt
alhamdullah i weard niqab since 4 days and i was v happy with it really..
but i'm really chocked when i saw the react of people who saw me with niqab .
specially who said , what did you do with yourself you graved yourself and you still young ,
that's really make me depressed
i spent 2 days crying , i feel fear to be weak and take off niqab and keep just hijab ,:shymuslima1: i'm really not feel happy ,
i need your all dua's please to be strong and not take off niqab inshaa ALLAH

alsalm alykom
 

sally_2008

New Member
alsalam alykom
abdul hasib my brother i was wearing hijab but now i'm wearing niqab (face veil) .
i want to know if niqab is obligsion or prefred?
and if it's obligasion cause the woman face is aora (make fitnah) so what about eyes ? my eyes is showen in niqab ?
i heared from shikh mohamed hussein yakub that niqab is obligasion (fard) so i wear it
if some one know what is obligasion for the woman really hijab or niqab please reply me
thank you all my sisters and brothers in islam
 

IslamIsLight

Islam is my life
Staff member
alsalam alykom
abdul hasib my brother i was wearing hijab but now i'm wearing niqab (face veil) .
i want to know if niqab is obligsion or prefred?
and if it's obligasion cause the woman face is aora (make fitnah) so what about eyes ? my eyes is showen in niqab ?
i heared from shikh mohamed hussein yakub that niqab is obligasion (fard) so i wear it
if some one know what is obligasion for the woman really hijab or niqab please reply me
thank you all my sisters and brothers in islam

salam aleikum
Scholars have different opinions about niqab ,you shouldnt just listen to one person or what people say regarding this ...you need to do deep research and then see how you feel...
Hijab is obligatory and niqab is Sunnah ,from my understanding ,I will go find a fatwa and post here
inshaAllah

waaleikum salam
 

IslamIsLight

Islam is my life
Staff member
salam aleikum
I think this is an interesting article for you to read...


Niqab is not Obligatory by Shaykh Naasiruddeen al-Albaanee --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

From the Book Jilbaab al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah

Shaykh Naasiruddeen al-Albaanee

The main errors of those who make the face veil obligatory


1. The interpretation of al-idnaa’ in the verse of the Jilbaab to mean “covering the face”.
This misinterpretation is contrary to the basic meaning of the word in Arabic which is “to come close”, as is mentioned in authoritative dictionaries like al-Mufradaat by the well-known scholar, ar-Raaghib al-Asbahaanee. However, there is sufficient evidence in the interpretation of the leading commentator on the Quran, Ibn ‘Abbaas, who explained the verse saying, “She should bring the jilbaab close to her face without covering it.” It should be noted that none of the narrations used as evidence to contradict this interpretation are authentic.


2. The interpretation of jilbaab as “a garment which covers the face.”
Like the previous misinterpretation, this interpretation has no basis linguistically. It is contrary to the interpretation of the leading scholars, past and present, who define the jilbaab as a garment which women drape over their head scarves (khimaar). Even Shaykh at-Tuwaijree himself narrated this interpretation from Ibn Mas‘ood and other Salafee scholars. Al-Baghawee mentioned it as the correct interpretation in his Tafseer (vol. 3, p. 518) saying, “It is the garment which a woman covers herself with worn above the dress (dir ‘) and the headscarf.” Ibn Hazm also said, “The jilbaab in the Arabic language in which the Messenger of Allaah () spoke to us is what covers the whole body and not just a part of it.” (vol. 3, p. 217). Al-Qurtubee declared this correct in his Tafseer and Ibn Katheer said, “It is the cloak worn above the headscarf.” (vol. 3, p. 518)


3. The claim that the khimaar (headscarf) covers the head and the face.

In doing so “the face” has been arbitrarily added to its meaning in order to make the verse: "Let them drape their headscarves over their busoms"

appear to be in their favor, when, in fact it is not. The word khimaar linguistically means only a head covering. Whenever it is mentioned in general terms, this is what is intended. For example in the hadeeths on wiping (mas-h) on the khimaar and the prophetic statement, “The salaah of a woman past puberty will not be accepted without a khimaar.” This hadeeth confirms the invalidity of their misinterpretation, because not even the extremists themselves – much less the scholars – use it as evidence that the covering of a woman’s face in salaah is a condition for its validity. They only use it as proof for covering the head. Furthermore, their interpretation of the verse of the Qawaa "to remove their clothing"
to mean “jilbaab” further confirms it. They hold that it is permissible for old women to appear before marriagealbe males in her headscarf with her face exposed. One of their noteable scholars openly stated that. As for Shaykh at-Tuwaijree, he implied it without actually saying it.
After checking the opinions of the early and later scholars in all the specializations, I found that they unanimously hold that the khimaar is a head covering. I have mentioned the names of more than twenty scholars, among them some of the great Imaams and hadeeth scholars. For example, Abul-Waleed al-Baajee (d. 474 AH) who further added in his explanation, “Nothing should be seen of her besides the circle of her face.”


4. The claim of a consensus (Ijmaa‘) on the face being considered ‘awrah.
Shaykh at-Tuwaijree claimed that scholars unanimously held that the woman’s face was ‘awrah and many who have no knowledge, including some Ph.D. holders, have blindly followed him. In fact, it is a false claim, which no one before him has claimed. The books of Hambalite scholars which he learned from, not to mention those of others, contain sufficient proof of its falsehood. I have mentioned many of their statements in Ar-Radd. For example, Ibn Hubayrah al-Hambalee stated in his book, al-Ifsaah, that the face is not considered ‘awrah in the three main schools of Islaamic law and he added, “It is also a narrated position of Imaam Ahmad.” Many Hambalite scholars preferred this narration in their books, like Ibn Qudaamah and others. Ibn Qudaamah in al-Mughnee explained the reason for his preference saying, “Because necessity demands that the face be uncovered for buying and selling, and the hands be uncovered for taking and giving.”
Among the Hambalite scholars, is the great Ibn Muflih al-Hambalee about whom Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah said, “There is no one under the dome of the sky more knowledgeable about the school of Imaam Ahmad than Ibn Muflih.” And his teacher, Ibn Taymiyyah, once told him, “You aren’t Ibn Muflih, you are Muflih!”
It is incumbent on me to convey Ibn Muflih’s statements for the readers because of the knowledge and many benefits contained in them. Included in them is further confirmation of the falsehood of Shaykh at-Tuwaijree’s claim and support for the correctness of my position on the issue of uncovering the face. Ibn Muflih stated the following in his valuable work al-Aadaab ash-Shar‘iyyah – which is among the references cited by Shaykh at-Tuwaijree (something which indicates that he is aware of it, but has deliberately hidden these crucial facts from his readers while claiming the contrary):
“Is it correct to chastise marriageable women if they uncover their faces in the street?
The answer depends on whether it is compulsory for women to cover their faces or whether it is compulsory for men to lower their gaze from her. There are two positions on this issue.
Regarding the hadeeth of Jareer in which he said, “I asked Allaah’s Messenger about the sudden inadvertent glance and he instructed me to look away.” Al-Qaadee ‘Iyaad commented, “The scholars, May Allaah Most High have mercy on them, have said that there is proof in this hadeeth that it is not compulsory for a woman to cover her face in the street. Instead, it is a recommended sunnah for her to do so and it is compulsory for the man to lower his gaze from her at all times, except for a legislated purpose. Shaykh Muhyud-deen an-Nawawee mentioned that without further explanation.”
Then al-Muflih mentioned Ibn Taymiyyah’s statement which at-Tuwaijree relies on in his book (page 170), while feigning ignorance of the statements of the majority of scholars. Statements like those of al-Qaadee ‘Iyaad and an-Nawawee’s agreement with it.
Then al-Muflih said, “On the basis of that, is chastisement legal? Chastisement is not allowed in issues in where there is a difference of opinion, and the difference has already been mentioned. As regards our opinion and that of a group of Shaafi‘ite scholars and others, looking at a marriageable woman without desire or in a secluded circumstance is permissible. Therefore, chastisement is not proper.”
This answer is in complete agreement with Imaam Ahmad’s statement, “It is not proper that a jurist oblige people to follow his opinion (math-hab).” And this is if the truth were on his side. What of the case where the jurist proudly, dishonestly misleads people and declares other Muslims to be disbelievers as at-Tuwaijree did on page 249 of his book saying,
“… Whoever permits women to expose their faces and uses the proofs of al-Albaanee has flung open the door for women to publicly flaunt their beauty and emboldened them to commit the reprehensible acts done by women who uncover their faces today.” And on page 233 he said, “… and to disbelief in the verses of Allaah.”

Those are his words – May Allaah reform him and guide him. What would he say about Ibn Muflih, an-Nawawee, al-Qaadee ‘Iyaad and other Palestinian scholars, as well as the majority of scholars who preceded them and who are my salaf regarding my opinion on this matter?


5. The agreement of at-Tuwaijree and the extremists with him to explain away the authentic hadeeths which contradict their opinion.
At-Tuwaijree did this with the Khath‘amiyyah hadeeth. They developed a number of comical methods to nullify its implications. I have refuted them all in ar-Radd and one of them in Jilbaab al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah. Some reputable scholars have said that the hadeeth doesn’t contain a clear statement that her face was exposed. This is among the farthest opinions from the truth. For, if her face wasn’t exposed, where did the narrator or the viewer get the idea that she was beautiful? And what was al-Fadl repeatedly looking at? The truth is that this is among the strongest and most clear proofs that a woman’s face is not ‘awrah. In spite of that, there remains a group that insists that she was in ihraam while knowing that her ihraam does not prevent her from draping some of her clothing over her face. At-Tuwaijree does accept sometimes that her face was uncovered but he cancels its implication by saying, “There is no evidence in it that she continuously exposed her face!” He means that the wind must have exposed her face and at that instant al-Fadl ibn ‘Abbaas saw it. Is it possible for an Arab to say that after reading in the hadeeth “al-Fadl began to stare while turning towards her,” and in another narration “… so he began to look at her and her beauty amazed him.” Isn’t this pride with two protruding horns? At other times at-Tuwaijree interprets it as al-Fadl looking at her size and stature.


6. The frequent use of inauthentic hadeeths and unreliable narrations.
For example, the hadeeth of Ibn ‘Abbaas about exposing only one eye is commonly used by those who insist that women are obliged to cover their faces in spite of their knowledge of its inauthenticity. In fact, one among them also declared it inauthentic. Perhaps the most important of these unreliable hadeeth commonly used as evidence is the one in which the Prophet is reported to have said, “Are you both blind?” They blindly followed at-Tuwaijree and the others in claiming that this inauthentic narration was strengthened by other supportive narrations and that it was evidence for the prohibition of women from looking at men, even if they are blind. They took this position in spite of the fact that the narration was classified inauthentic by the leading verification experts among the hadeeth scholars like, Imaam Ahmad, al-Bayhaqee and Ibn ‘Abdil-Barr. Al-Qurtubee related that the narration was not considered authentic among the scholars of hadeeth. Consequently, many Palestinian hambalite scholars made their rulings on that basis. Furthermore, that is what the science of hadeeth and its methodology requires as was clearly stated in al-Irwaa. However, in spite of all that evidence to the contrary, Shaykh ‘Abdul-Qaadir as-Sindee had the nerve to go along with Shaykh at-Tuwaijree and others and claim that its chain of narration was authentic. By doing that he exposed himself and his ignorance or feigned ignorance. It is unfortunate that he took this position, because the hadeeth’s chain contains an unknown narrator from whom only one person narrated along with its contradiction to what leading scholars have narrated. Contrary to the level of scholarship that we are used to from Shaykh as-Sindee, he has brought in support of his claim the most amazing things. He arguments unexpectedly contain deception, misguidance, blind following, hiding knowledge and turning away from his own fundamental principles. Among the amazing positions is Shaykh as-Sindee’s feigned ignorance that the narration contradicts the hadeeth of Faatimah bint Qays which contains the Prophet’s permission for her to stay at the home of the blind companion, Ibn Umm al-Maktoom, whom she would be able see. The Prophet gave the reason for that instruction in his statement to her, “For if you take off your head scarf, he won’t see you.” In at-Tabaraanee’s narration from Faatimah, she said, “He instructed me to be at Ibn Umm Maktoom’s home because he couldn’t see me whenever I took my head scarf off.”
There are also a number of other unreliable hadeeths gathered by at-Tuwaijree in his book. I mentioned ten of them in my response, and among them are some fabricated traditions.


7. The classification of some authentic hadeeths and confirmed narrations from the Companions as inauthentic.
The extremists have declared well-established reliable narrations as unreliable and feigned ignorance of strengthening narrations. They have further declared some narrations extremely inauthentic, like the hadeeth of ‘Aa’ishah concerning the woman who reaches puberty, “Nothing should be seen of her besides her face and hands.” They have persistently declared it inauthentic – the ignorant among them blindly following others devoid of knowledge. In so doing, they contradict those among the leading scholars of hadeeth who strengthen it like al-Bayhaqee and ath-Thahabee. Most of them, including some prominent scholars, feign ignorance of its various chains of narration. In fact, at-Tuwaijree openly stated on page 236 of his book that this statement was only narrated in ‘Aa’ishah’s hadeeth. Even though he has seen with his own eyes on pages 57-9 of my book two other chains: one of which is from Asmaa bint ‘Umays and the other from Qataadah in the abbreviated (mursal) format with an authentic chain of narration. Many of the blind followers followed him, including some female authors as in Hijaabuki ukhtee al-muslimah [Your veil, my sister Muslim], page 33.
They also pretend to be ignorant of the leading hadeeth scholars and others who strengthened it, like al-Munthiree, az-Zayla‘ee, al-‘Asqlaanee and ash-Shawkaanee. Some of those who promote themselves as being among the well versed in this noble science – in their forefront Shaykh as-Sindee – claim that some of its narrations are extremely weak and unreliable in order to escape from the hadeeth science rule that ‘unreliable narrations are strengthened by narrations similar to them’. In doing that, they delude their readers into thinking that no one ruled the weak narrators, like ‘Abdullaah ibn Lahee‘ah, trustworthy and that they cannot be used as supportive evidence. In doing that, they contradict the methodology of the hadeeth scholars in using supportive evidence. Among them is Imaam Ahmad and Ibn Taymiyyah – may Allaah have mercy on them. Likewise, they all feign ignorance that the scholars – among them Imaam ash-Shaafi‘ee –confirm the hadeeth mursal if most scholars use it as evidence, as is the case of ‘Aa’ishah’s hadeeth.
Other strengthening factors may be added to the above.

(a) The hadeeth has been narrated by Qataadah from ‘Aa’ishah.
(b) It has been narrated in another chain from Asmaa.
(c) All three narrators of the hadeeth ruled according to it.
Qataadah stated in his interpretation of the verse on draping, “Allaah has placed on them the requirement to cover the eyebrows,” That is, “and not on their faces” as stated by at-Tabaree.
‘Aa’ishah said, regarding the female in ihraam, “She may drape the garment on her face, if she wishes.” This was narrated by al-Bayhaqee in an authentic chain of narrators. There is clear evidence in ‘Aa’ishah’s giving the female pilgrim a choice in draping that in her opinion the face was not ‘awrah. Otherwise she would have made it obligatory on them as those who contradict it do. Because of their position, most of the extremist authors, with at-Tuwaijree in the forefront, hid this statement of Umm al-Mu’mineen, ‘Aa’ishah from their readers. The author of Faslul-khitaab [The Definitive Statement] deliberately deleted this portion of al-Bayhaqee’s narration in his book. This being only one of a number of similar disreputable acts which I have exposed in my book. The supportive evidence is that this authentic narration from her strengthens her hadeeth from the Prophet. This is among the facts that people are unaware of or they pretend ignorance of, either choice is bitter to swallow.
As for Asmaa, it has been authentically reported from Qays ibn Abee Haazim that he saw her as a woman of white complexion with tatoos on her hands.
(d) The narration of Ibn ‘Abbaas earlier mentioned, “She should pull the jilbaab (cloak) close to her face without putting it on her face.” His interpretation of the verse of adornment "except what appears from it"
as referring to“the face and hands” was similar. There is also a similar narration from Ibn ‘Umar to the same effect.
At this point, a bitter reality must be noted due to the lessons which may be gained from it, the knowledge which it contains and is service as a reminder of the wise saying: “The truth is not know by people, know the truth and you will know people.”
At the same time that Shaykh at-Tuwaijree insists on rejecting the hadeeth of ‘Aa’ishah and its supporting evidences, among them Qaatadah’s mursal narration, he willingly accepts another inauthentic hadeeth from her with mursal support. In that hadeeth it is mentioned “…that she wore a niqaab (face veil)…” and that she was supposed to have described the Prophet’s wife Safiyyah and the Ansaar women as “… a jewess among jewesses…” which is considered by scholars to be a very erroneous statement (munkar jiddan). The Shaykh argues on page 181, “It has mursal supportive evidence,” and quotes one of the mursal hadeeths of ‘Ataa containing a known liar in its chain of narration.
One should reflect on the great difference between this fabricated supportive evidence and the authentic supportive evidence of Qataadah further supported by other evidences, then ask, “Why did at-Tuwaijree accept the second hadeeth of ‘Aa’ishah and not the first?” The obvious answer is that the accepted one contains reference to wearing the niqaab – even though it does not indicate obligation – while the rejected one denies it. Thus, in this regard, the Shaykh did not base his position on Islaamic legal principles, but on something similar to the Jewish principle: The ends justify the means. May Allaah help us.


8. Placing unreasonable conditions
Among the amazing practices of some latter day blind following hanafite scholars and others is that on one hand they agree with us regarding the permissibility of women exposing their faces, because that was the position of their Imaams, but on the other hand they agree with the extremists in opposition to their Imaams. They make ijtihaad (while claiming taqleed) by adding the condition that the society be safe from fitnah to the position of the Imaams. This refers to the fitnah caused by women to men. Then one of the ignorant contemporary blind followers went to the extreme of actually attributing this “condition” to the Imaams themselves. Among some of those having no knowledge, this resulted in their concluding that there is essentially no difference between the position of the Imaams and the extremists.
It is obvious to jurists that this condition is invalid because it implies that humans know something which the Lord missed knowing. That is, the temptation of women did not exist during the time of the Prophet () thus we had to create a special ruling for it which did not exist previously. In fact, the fitnah did exist during the era of divine legislation and the story of al-Fadl ibn ‘Abbaas’ trial with the Khath‘amiyyah woman and his repeated looking at her is not far from the readers’ memories.

It is well known that when Allaah Most High instructed men and women to lower their gazes and instructed women to veil themselves in front of men, He did that to block the road to corruption and prevent temptation. In spite of that, He – Most Great and Glorious – did not command that they cover their faces and hands in front of them. The Prophet () further emphasized that in the story of al-Fadl by not commanding the woman to cover her face. And Allaah was truthful when He said, "And your Lord is not forgetful"
</B>The reality is that the condition of there not being fitnah was only mentioned by scholars regarding the man’s looking at the woman’s face, as in al-Fiqh ‘alaa al-mathaahib al-arba‘ah, page 12. They said, “That [the woman’s face may be uncovered] is permissible on condition that there is safety from temptation,” and that is true, contrary to what the blind followers practice. They conclude from it that the woman is obliged to cover her face, when in fact it is not a necessary consequence. They know that the condition of safety from temptation also applies to women. For it is not permissible for them to stare at a man’s face except where there is safety from temptation. Is it then a necessary consequence that men also veil their faces from women to prevent temptation as some tribes called the Tawareg do.

They would have a basis in fiqh of the Quraan and Sunnah if they said that a woman veiled in correct jilbaab who fears being harmed by some corrupt individuals due to her face being exposed is obliged to cover her face to prevent harm and temptation. In fact, it could even be said that it is obligatory on her not to leave her home if she feared that some evil authorities supported by a leader who does not rule by what Allaah revealed, as exists in some Arab countries since a few years ago, would pull her jilbaab from her head. As to making this obligation a compulsory law for all women everywhere and in all eras, even if there did not exist any harm for veiled women, No. Absolutely not. Allaah was truthful when He said, "Do they have partners who legislated for them in the religion what Allaah did not permit??"
These are the most significant of the extremist opposition’s mistakes which I thought needed brief mention due their strong link to the contents of this book. I then closed ar-Radd al-Mufhim with a reminder that extremism in the religion – considering that the Wise Legislator forbade it will not bring any good. And it is not possible for it to produce a generation of young Muslim women carrying Islaamic knowledge and practice moderately balanced, with neither excesses nor deficiencies. Not like what I have heard about some young female adherents in Arab countries when they heard the Prophet’s statement, “The woman in ihraam should neither wear a niqaab nor gloves,” they did not accept it saying instead, “We will wear our niqaabs and gloves!” No doubt, this was a direct result of the extremist views which they heard regarding the obligation of covering their faces.
I certainly cannot imagine that this type of extremism – and this is only one example from many which I have – can possibly produce for us salafee women able to do everything their religiously guided social life demands of them in a way similar to the righteous women of the Salaf.
 

sally_2008

New Member
thank u aisha for helping but i'm affriad if we follow the opnion of wear just hijab and in the day of judgement found that niqab was a fard what we will do i'm really don't want to be a sinner
but i know really that it's diffecult to wear niqab in this bad period time
i'm praying to god to guide me to the right act inshaa ALLAH
 

Almaas

Junior Member
thank u aisha for helping but i'm affriad if we follow the opnion of wear just hijab and in the day of judgement found that niqab was a fard what we will do i'm really don't want to be a sinner
but i know really that it's diffecult to wear niqab in this bad period time
i'm praying to god to guide me to the right act inshaa ALLAH

Asalaam-ulaykum,

Sister i've sent you a PM, but if you're really not sure about wearing it or not then pray istekhara and let Allah (SWT) show you which action to take.

Hope this helps.

Waalaykum-asalaam.
 

samiha

---------
Staff member
alsalam alykom
abdul hasib my brother i was wearing hijab but now i'm wearing niqab (face veil) .
i want to know if niqab is obligsion or prefred?
and if it's obligasion cause the woman face is aora (make fitnah) so what about eyes ? my eyes is showen in niqab ?
i heared from shikh mohamed hussein yakub that niqab is obligasion (fard) so i wear it
if some one know what is obligasion for the woman really hijab or niqab please reply me
thank you all my sisters and brothers in islam

Wa alaykum salaam wa rahmatullah ukhti,

There are differences of opinion in regards to the stance of Niqaab. You will find both on the website, and I suppose it is up to which you find more support to be authentic that you follow. I mean, make sure you do not take one side simply because it is easier, but because of the evidence presented (though I'm sure this will not be the case!). Either way I hope you realize that it is still Mustahabb in the opinions that say it is not Fard. It is still best, and nobody will negate that as it is the sunnah of the wives of the Prophet sallahu alayhi wa sallam. They should be our models, so what they did is an example for us as well.

As for the eyes, it is also said that it depends on what you need to see the way. Be this both eyes, one eye or as some choose to do which is not reveal anything at all. I believe it is to do with need and intention as well. Some who wear niqaab and reveal their eyes sometimes do so in a way that the eyes stand out, or are attractive etc which would be incorrect. Allahu 'Alem.

As for wearing it in non-Arab countries. I dont know about your situation, but it all depends on where you would be and around what type of people. Hardships one faces are anywhere, regardless. I wear niqaab now for about a year, and I know if I returned to Bangladesh I would get a lot more criticism perhaps, from family or cousins etc, which living in the west right now I dont have to face. I mean it's one thing to be told things by complete strangers, and another by family. I just mean to draw this as an example to say, dont fear and outcome you dont know yet. You're thinking a lot of an important issue no doubt, but dont fear and worry so much until you come up to it.

I myself have already been told by people related to me, that I wont be able to get a job this way, that the type of person who will marry me will be oppressive and over the top, that I'll never fit in and connect with people etc etc the list goes on. Not to mention the outside American libertarian who claims that America is free and I need to free myself :p ... basically the point boils down to, at the end of the day - why are you wearing niqaab?

To please people? - That's impossible! If you appease them in one field, they will find another to pick at. The world is such a place where if one backs down off their beliefs, they will be attacked more.

Then would it be to be appreciated? To look good? To set a fashion sense? No, what we do is to please Allah, so no matter what they say and however much they try to tear us apart, as long as we know we are right it doesnt matter.

So chin up sis, and look to the bright side insha'Allah, that you are a banner for Islaam no matter where you go, if people dont like that - well then that's their problem!

wasalam
 

IslamIsLight

Islam is my life
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Wa alaykum salaam wa rahmatullah ukhti,

There are differences of opinion in regards to the stance of Niqaab. You will find both on the website, and I suppose it is up to which you find more support to be authentic that you follow. I mean, make sure you do not take one side simply because it is easier, but because of the evidence presented (though I'm sure this will not be the case!). Either way I hope you realize that it is still Mustahabb in the opinions that say it is not Fard. It is still best, and nobody will negate that as it is the sunnah of the wives of the Prophet sallahu alayhi wa sallam. They should be our models, so what they did is an example for us as well.

As for the eyes, it is also said that it depends on what you need to see the way. Be this both eyes, one eye or as some choose to do which is not reveal anything at all. I believe it is to do with need and intention as well. Some who wear niqaab and reveal their eyes sometimes do so in a way that the eyes stand out, or are attractive etc which would be incorrect. Allahu 'Alem.

As for wearing it in non-Arab countries. I dont know about your situation, but it all depends on where you would be and around what type of people. Hardships one faces are anywhere, regardless. I wear niqaab now for about a year, and I know if I returned to Bangladesh I would get a lot more criticism perhaps, from family or cousins etc, which living in the west right now I dont have to face. I mean it's one thing to be told things by complete strangers, and another by family. I just mean to draw this as an example to say, dont fear and outcome you dont know yet. You're thinking a lot of an important issue no doubt, but dont fear and worry so much until you come up to it.

I myself have already been told by people related to me, that I wont be able to get a job this way, that the type of person who will marry me will be oppressive and over the top, that I'll never fit in and connect with people etc etc the list goes on. Not to mention the outside American libertarian who claims that America is free and I need to free myself :p ... basically the point boils down to, at the end of the day - why are you wearing niqaab?

To please people? - That's impossible! If you appease them in one field, they will find another to pick at. The world is such a place where if one backs down off their beliefs, they will be attacked more.

Then would it be to be appreciated? To look good? To set a fashion sense? No, what we do is to please Allah, so no matter what they say and however much they try to tear us apart, as long as we know we are right it doesnt matter.

So chin up sis, and look to the bright side insha'Allah, that you are a banner for Islaam no matter where you go, if people dont like that - well then that's their problem!

wasalam


salam aleikum
very beautiful explanation sister :)
Me too want to wear it one day InshaAllah .I really admire the sisters who do it ,espessially on the West .I know how hard it is and what courage and strenght it needs ...
May Allah bless you and make it easy for you :hearts:

waalekum salam
 
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