assalamu alaikum brothers and sisters,
I hope you are all in good health and happiness. well, its been a while since i posted anything on tti. I wanted your help and advice, where possible.
I am recently married into a family of a different cultural background...i find certain practices which my in-laws have as being against islam, however im not sure what to do. my husband and his family have grown up in a manner that cousins of the opposite gender are considered as 'blood brothers and sisters', meaning that intermixing, hugging, kissing on the cheeks etc is normal for them. i have explained to my husband that this is haram, and for me, i have been raised under the true banner of islam, only to start a new life with concepts that are alien to me.
my husband and his family also see no problem if his male cousins were to stay the night at our house..whilst this is not classified as haram, im pretty sure it is makrooh and not a concept adopted by the sahabah, because this would entice free mixing, and potential pre-requisites to zina.
i need your help on the above and any strong evidence- not of free mixing between genders, but more specifically, non-mahram cousins etc which come under the banner of 'family' and also sleeping in the same house as non-mahrams.
shookran wa jazakumullahu khairan
I hope you are all in good health and happiness. well, its been a while since i posted anything on tti. I wanted your help and advice, where possible.
I am recently married into a family of a different cultural background...i find certain practices which my in-laws have as being against islam, however im not sure what to do. my husband and his family have grown up in a manner that cousins of the opposite gender are considered as 'blood brothers and sisters', meaning that intermixing, hugging, kissing on the cheeks etc is normal for them. i have explained to my husband that this is haram, and for me, i have been raised under the true banner of islam, only to start a new life with concepts that are alien to me.
my husband and his family also see no problem if his male cousins were to stay the night at our house..whilst this is not classified as haram, im pretty sure it is makrooh and not a concept adopted by the sahabah, because this would entice free mixing, and potential pre-requisites to zina.
i need your help on the above and any strong evidence- not of free mixing between genders, but more specifically, non-mahram cousins etc which come under the banner of 'family' and also sleeping in the same house as non-mahrams.
shookran wa jazakumullahu khairan