Subhanallah dear brother in Islam may Allah have mercy of you.
That which you are referring to are the Hoor-Al-ayn as Allah says
And (there will be) Hoor (fair females) with wide lovely eyes (as wives for Al-Muttaqoon – the pious).
, no man and jinn have touched them. its to show the chastity and purity of what all has kept in the paradise for the believing men.
does Allah touch women is a very wrong way to put it akhie..
Allah created Adam(AS) and from him he made his wife hawwa and behold we are all human being scattered.