muhammad.abdullah
Junior Member
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My dear sisters and brothers in Islam, i hope you are all fine and reaping the benefits of Ramadan. I have a very important question about a really important issue that is encountered by young couples throughout the muslim world.
What is the ruling about parents when you get married. Allow me to elaborate it a bit more. For instance, i am the only son of my parents. I live in another country than my parents and i am getting married here soon inshallah. My wife to be is a very good girl, infact she is someone who makes me feel like myself. She has absolutely no problem with my parents, but, after we get married, she doesnt want to live them. I mean if they come to live with me in 5 or 6 years, after we have settled down, she disapproves of it so much so that ishe wants me to assure her that it wont happen or else she is not ready to marry me.
I know some of you may say that i should try to talk to her and tell her the importance of the matter and so on and so forth. Believe me i have done that but to no avail.
This is why i want to know what is the Islamic ruling on this matter.
jazakallah kheiran
P.S. My mother had done 'istekhara' prayer according to sunnah before sending her the proposal for marrige on my behalf and it was positive. Yet again, she has done it another time and its positive again.
My dear sisters and brothers in Islam, i hope you are all fine and reaping the benefits of Ramadan. I have a very important question about a really important issue that is encountered by young couples throughout the muslim world.
What is the ruling about parents when you get married. Allow me to elaborate it a bit more. For instance, i am the only son of my parents. I live in another country than my parents and i am getting married here soon inshallah. My wife to be is a very good girl, infact she is someone who makes me feel like myself. She has absolutely no problem with my parents, but, after we get married, she doesnt want to live them. I mean if they come to live with me in 5 or 6 years, after we have settled down, she disapproves of it so much so that ishe wants me to assure her that it wont happen or else she is not ready to marry me.
I know some of you may say that i should try to talk to her and tell her the importance of the matter and so on and so forth. Believe me i have done that but to no avail.
This is why i want to know what is the Islamic ruling on this matter.
jazakallah kheiran
P.S. My mother had done 'istekhara' prayer according to sunnah before sending her the proposal for marrige on my behalf and it was positive. Yet again, she has done it another time and its positive again.