InTheNameOfAllah
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Assalaam alaikum wa rahmetullahi wa barakatuhu!
I have a question regarding traditions when you are about to have a marriage involving two different nationalities.
I am myself an Albanian from Kosova and my coming wife, insha'Allah, is Turkish. The thing is, that my family and I are soon going to "ask for her hand" at her family's house, and she has told me that it's a Turkish tradition to "kiss the hands of the elders" for instance her grandparents, parents etc. I don't know if you guys are familiar with this tradition. Albanians do not greet in this way, or at least not where I am from, but she says that this kind of greeting has it basis in Islam, she has heard.
I am against "kissing hands" of her female relatives, and she says that it will be very unrespectful of me not to do that. Further we have discussed which traditions to follow when we are married - Albanian or Turkish .. as long as they are not against Islam of course. Is there a hadith, fatwa or anything likely regarding these things.
ps. thanks for a fantastic site - May Allah swt bless you, insha'Allah
Thanks in advance, your brother in Islam
I have a question regarding traditions when you are about to have a marriage involving two different nationalities.
I am myself an Albanian from Kosova and my coming wife, insha'Allah, is Turkish. The thing is, that my family and I are soon going to "ask for her hand" at her family's house, and she has told me that it's a Turkish tradition to "kiss the hands of the elders" for instance her grandparents, parents etc. I don't know if you guys are familiar with this tradition. Albanians do not greet in this way, or at least not where I am from, but she says that this kind of greeting has it basis in Islam, she has heard.
I am against "kissing hands" of her female relatives, and she says that it will be very unrespectful of me not to do that. Further we have discussed which traditions to follow when we are married - Albanian or Turkish .. as long as they are not against Islam of course. Is there a hadith, fatwa or anything likely regarding these things.
ps. thanks for a fantastic site - May Allah swt bless you, insha'Allah
Thanks in advance, your brother in Islam