Thank you sisters ur post have really help me, side note wot does Allah hate?
THE MALICIOUS QUALITIES OF MANKIND ALLAH HATES
Disbelief
"Allah does not like that evil should be uttered in public except by him who has been wronged."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 4:148)
Committing Sin
"And Allah likes not the disbelievers, sinners."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 2:276)
Treachery
"Verily, Allah likes not any treacherous ingrate to Allah [those who disobey Allah but obey Satan]."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 22:38)
Oppression
"Verily, He likes not the Thalimun (oppressors, polytheists, and wrongdoers)."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 42:40)
Corruption
"And Allah likes not mischief."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 2:205)
Transgression
"Truly, Allah likes not the transgressors.[This verse is the first one that was revealed in connection with jihad, but it was abrogated by another (9:36)]."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 2:190)
Betrayal
"Verily, Allah does not like anyone who is a betrayer, a sinner."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 4:107)
Publicity of Evil
"Allah does not like that evil should be uttered in public except by him who has been wronged. And Allah is Ever All-Hearer, All-Knower."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 4:148)
Self-Deceit and Betrayal
"Allah does not like anyone who is a betrayer, a sinner."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 4:107)
Boasting and Arrogance
"Verily, Allah likes not any arrogant boaster."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 31:18)
Exultance for Worldly Desires
"Verily, Allah likes not those who exult (with riches, being ungrateful to Allah)."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 28:76)
Extravagance
"Certainly He (Allah) likes not the extravagant."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 7:31)
Not smiling when meeting people
Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:"Allah hates the one who does not smile at others and looks uncheerful." (Dailami)
Obscene words and acts
Ahmed narrated:
Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:"Allah hates obscene words and acts."
Prodigality and Excess
Dailami narrated:
Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:"Allah hates those who practice extravagance and feel exultant."
Insisting when begging Abu Na'im narrated:
Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:"Allah hates the insistant beggar."
Injustice, Ignorance, and Arrogance
Al-Tabarani narrated:
Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:"Allah hates, the unfair rich, the ignorant elderly and the arrogant guardian."
The remedy for all these diseases is the love of Allah Almighty, His Messenger (peace be upon him) and the Pleasures of the Hereafter. Allah's love has many fruits and positive consequences, namely, Allah gives whoever loves contentment and satisfaction and this is one of the graces of Allah in this world. Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:
" If Allah loves someone He calls Gabriel (the angel) and says: I love so-and-so, so you love him. Gabriel loves him, and calls the other angels in Heaven to love that person. They love him, then his love will be made upon earth, and he becomes loved. And if Allah hates someone He calls Gabriel and says: I hate so-and-so and you hate him. Gabriel hates him and calls the angels in Heaven and says: Allah hates so-and-so, so you all hate him. They all hate him, and his hatred is made upon earth and he becomes hated." (Muslim)
Source:
http://abdurrahman.org/character/qualitiesallahhates.html
And
SOME OF THE HUMAN QUALITIES ALLAH ALMIGHTY LOVES
"Say (O Muhammad to mankind): "If you (really) love Allah, then follow me (i.e. accept Islamic monotheism, follow the Qur'an and the Sunna), Allah will love you and forgive you your sins. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 3:31)
Patience
"And Allah loves as-Sabirun (the patient)."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 3:146)
Jihad in the Way of Allah
"Verily, Allah loves those who fight in His Cause in rows (ranks) as if they were as solid structure."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 61:4)
Justice and Dealing with Equity
"Be just: that is nearer to piety; and fear Allah."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 5:8)
Putting Trust in Allah
"Certainly, Allay loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 3:159)
Perfection of One's Work
The Messenger :saw2: said:
"Allah loves that if one does a job he perfects it."
Rescuing
Abu Ya ‘la Dailami and Ibn Asakir narrated: Abu Hurairah and Anas Ibn Malik said:
Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said: "Allah loves rescuing the one who needs rescue."
Being Kind and Gentle to Others
Baihaqani narrated:
Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said: "Allah is kind and gentle (to others)"
Kindliness
"Aisha narrated:
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: "Allah loves kindliness in all matters." Bukhari
Repentance
"Truly, Allah loves those who turn unto him in repentance."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 2:222)
Piety
"Verily, then Allah loves those who are al-Muttaqun (the pious)."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 3:76)
Good-doing
"Truly, Allah loves Al-Muhsinun (the good-doers)."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 2:195)
Body Purification
"And Allah loves those who make themselves clean and pure [ i.e. who clean their private parts with dust (which has the properties of soap) and water from urine and stools, after answering the call of nature]."
(Qur'an: Translation of the meaning, 9:108)
Humility of the Rich
Muslim narrated: Sa'd Ibn Abi Waqqas said: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:
"Allah loves the believer who is pious and rich, but does not show off."
Belief and work
Al-Tabarani narrated: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:
"Allah loves the slave who believes and acquires a career (or work)."
Reflection of Allah's Grace
Al-Tirmidhi narrated: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:
"Allah loves from amongst his slaves, the one who has a sense of zeal or honor."
Magnanimity
Al-Hakim narrated: The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said:
"Allah is All-Generous and He loves generosity in sale, purchase and judgment."
Virtuosity
The Messenger of Allah r said:
" Allah loves the slave-believer who is poor but virtuous enough to refrain from begging though he has many children." (Muslim and Ahmed)
Loftiness
Al-Tabarani narrated: the Messenger of Allah r said:
"Allah loves lofty matters and superiority and hates inferior matters."
Justice
Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:
"Allah loves that you be just toward your children even when kissing them." Ibn Al-Najjar
Strength
Muslim narrated: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:
"The strong believer is better and more loved by Allah than the weak one, but they are both good."
Love for the Sake of Allah
Al-Tabarani, Ibn Ya'la, Ibn Hibban and Al-Hakim narratd: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:
"If two men love each other for the sake of Allah, the stronger in love to his brother will be more loved by Allah."
Forgiveness
Ibn Iday narrated: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:
"Allah is All-Forgiving and He loves forgiveness."
Continuous Performance of Righteous Deeds
Bukhari and Muslim narrated: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:
"The best loved deeds to Allah are the ones that are continuous even if they are not very many."
Loving and Visiting Believers
Malik narrated: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:
"Allah said: My love is due to those who meet for My sake, visit one another and make any effort for My pleasure."
Exhortation and Advising
Abdullah, the son of Imam Ahmed narrated: It was said: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:
"The best loved slaves to Allah are those who exhort their slaves."
Love of Virtuous Deeds
Ibn Abi Al-Dunya narrated: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:
"The best loved slaves to Allah are those who are made to love virtue and loving virtuous deeds is made lovely to them."
Good Manners and Conduct
Al-Tirmidhi narrated: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:
"The best loved by me and the nearest to me on the seats on the Day of Resurrection are those who have the best manners and conduct amongst you, who are intimate, are on good terms with others and are humble, and the most hated by me and who will be on the furthest seats from me are those who are talkative and arrogant."
Love of Allah is the basis of worship that should be directed to Him alone. Any other love should be for his sake too. The real love of Allah is to do whatever He ordained and to abandon whatever He forbade, in addition to following the Prophet's Sunna.
Whoever obeys someone or something other than Allah and His Messenger, on follows any saying other than theirs, or fears other than Allah or seeks the pleasure of other than Allah, or puts his trust in other than Him, does not love Allah, nor does he love His Messenger. Muslims should also love one another and wish the best for one another. Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said:
"One will not be a true believer unless he loves for his brother what be loves for himself." (Bukhari, Muslim, Nasa'i, Ahmed and Ibn Majah)
Imam Malik and Imam Ahmed narrated: Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said: "Allah said:
My love is due to those who love one another for My sake."
Source: http://abdurrahman.org/character/qualitiesallahloves.html