Sister Fatma
Islam my Deen
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Dear brothers and sisters I was wondering if u could advice me regarding my problem.
There is this brother whom i've been seeing around my area for about a year now we've never spoke to one another, however we do know about each other due to our friends.
Him and I have always been giving each other looks of interest to 1 another.
for couple months now he looks as though he wants to approach me( only halal though coz he practices) and he all the sudden always happens to be behind me on my way home, every time i notice him being there and look at him he then turns around and goes away. but i look very feisty according to my family and friends, am now starting to see that coz he looks very afraid to talk to me. Once he was at the opposite road from me. he crossed the road, he was heading to the masjid, but then he saw me, we went my direction looking at me the whole way through, and stood behind me as though he was waiting for me to go to him. even though i know of him being shy, am still a bit stubborn i still believe that the boy has to make the first move so i looked at him and turn around. So he looked back at me then went back to the masjid.
I am attracted to him, and from what I know about him I like.
The problem is that I am a bit confused I do not think that am ready to get married now coz am going through a little bit of problems at the moment al hamdulillah.
But every time I think of this brother I always have that feeling that tells that I am going to end up with him, I also had dreams about it, I know that there is 3 types of dreams 1 from ALLAH SWT, 1 from the devil and the other from your soul e.g. your desires, but I don't think that I want to get married.
I don't mean to look feisty, I just do maybe the doctor dropped me a lot when I was born and caused me so kind of dysfunctional expressions I don't know, I just can't help it.
Lately I notice the brother keeping away from me, I was walking towards him, his friend saw me, said something to him, he looked and went inside the masjid. every time I see him now he keeps on doing that. B4 it would be his friend telling him I am there, it'll be him looking then it looked as though he was trying to smile at me. Why do brothers have to be so weird for real I don't get it! Am not a beast, i definitely do not look like one, so what the hell is going with this boy.
I do think that he believes that am a bit big headed, but am not. what's up with all the judgements???
Please my brothers and sisters help me to figure out what I should do.
Jazzakallahu Khairun
Ur sister fatma.
Dear brothers and sisters I was wondering if u could advice me regarding my problem.
There is this brother whom i've been seeing around my area for about a year now we've never spoke to one another, however we do know about each other due to our friends.
Him and I have always been giving each other looks of interest to 1 another.
for couple months now he looks as though he wants to approach me( only halal though coz he practices) and he all the sudden always happens to be behind me on my way home, every time i notice him being there and look at him he then turns around and goes away. but i look very feisty according to my family and friends, am now starting to see that coz he looks very afraid to talk to me. Once he was at the opposite road from me. he crossed the road, he was heading to the masjid, but then he saw me, we went my direction looking at me the whole way through, and stood behind me as though he was waiting for me to go to him. even though i know of him being shy, am still a bit stubborn i still believe that the boy has to make the first move so i looked at him and turn around. So he looked back at me then went back to the masjid.
I am attracted to him, and from what I know about him I like.
The problem is that I am a bit confused I do not think that am ready to get married now coz am going through a little bit of problems at the moment al hamdulillah.
But every time I think of this brother I always have that feeling that tells that I am going to end up with him, I also had dreams about it, I know that there is 3 types of dreams 1 from ALLAH SWT, 1 from the devil and the other from your soul e.g. your desires, but I don't think that I want to get married.
I don't mean to look feisty, I just do maybe the doctor dropped me a lot when I was born and caused me so kind of dysfunctional expressions I don't know, I just can't help it.
Lately I notice the brother keeping away from me, I was walking towards him, his friend saw me, said something to him, he looked and went inside the masjid. every time I see him now he keeps on doing that. B4 it would be his friend telling him I am there, it'll be him looking then it looked as though he was trying to smile at me. Why do brothers have to be so weird for real I don't get it! Am not a beast, i definitely do not look like one, so what the hell is going with this boy.
I do think that he believes that am a bit big headed, but am not. what's up with all the judgements???
Please my brothers and sisters help me to figure out what I should do.
Jazzakallahu Khairun
Ur sister fatma.