muslimaislam
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As Salam Alikum
I am writing this on behalf of a muslim brother in need of help.
He wish's to remain unknown.
The girl that brought this brother to Islam got married to this brother.
They soon had agruement & she went to her parents house for 1 night.
That was 8 months ago & the brother still hasn't seen his wife.
He has had some limited contact with her.
Her parents are really controlling of there family affairs.
The parents are trying to break them apart from the start.
They come from a different culture but all are muslim.
While this brother has been by himself he has not been well Islamicly. He still believes in Allah is one & that Muhammed is the messenger but he has done some Harram things.
He still has feelings for this girl but the parents has pressured the sister into divorce. This is going to happen any day now.
The brother family is not muslim & they are using this against him.
Part of this problem is that this brother came to Islam because of this girl but since he is losing this girl he is feeling like he is losing Islam.
This brother wants to be muslim, he can feel it in his heart that this is correct but he is also trying to get over losing this girl. This brothers family is supporting him has best has they can but since there not muslim they can only go so far.
So, any day now her family will turn up at his place for the rest of her stuff.
This brother does have hard feelings against the father of the family but he will say salam & keep the peace.
Now this brother wish's & hope that he can do this the Islamic way as best as he can, Inshallah.
This brother is having a really hard time following Islam because of this girl & his family. He feels like he needs to get away from everything & sort out his heart & soul first.
So any real advice would help?
He is emotionly unstable, he now has alot more time on his hands, he also live's with his mother & cousin who both smoke & do harram things.
He is willing to end it but he wants to talk to this girl to end it but the parents won't let him do this.
Please make dua for this brother & any advice will help him. :tti_sister:
As Salam Alikum
I am writing this on behalf of a muslim brother in need of help.
He wish's to remain unknown.
The girl that brought this brother to Islam got married to this brother.
They soon had agruement & she went to her parents house for 1 night.
That was 8 months ago & the brother still hasn't seen his wife.
He has had some limited contact with her.
Her parents are really controlling of there family affairs.
The parents are trying to break them apart from the start.
They come from a different culture but all are muslim.
While this brother has been by himself he has not been well Islamicly. He still believes in Allah is one & that Muhammed is the messenger but he has done some Harram things.
He still has feelings for this girl but the parents has pressured the sister into divorce. This is going to happen any day now.
The brother family is not muslim & they are using this against him.
Part of this problem is that this brother came to Islam because of this girl but since he is losing this girl he is feeling like he is losing Islam.
This brother wants to be muslim, he can feel it in his heart that this is correct but he is also trying to get over losing this girl. This brothers family is supporting him has best has they can but since there not muslim they can only go so far.
So, any day now her family will turn up at his place for the rest of her stuff.
This brother does have hard feelings against the father of the family but he will say salam & keep the peace.
Now this brother wish's & hope that he can do this the Islamic way as best as he can, Inshallah.
This brother is having a really hard time following Islam because of this girl & his family. He feels like he needs to get away from everything & sort out his heart & soul first.
So any real advice would help?
He is emotionly unstable, he now has alot more time on his hands, he also live's with his mother & cousin who both smoke & do harram things.
He is willing to end it but he wants to talk to this girl to end it but the parents won't let him do this.
Please make dua for this brother & any advice will help him. :tti_sister:
As Salam Alikum
