slaveofAllah88
Slave of Allah (swt)
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i saw this threat on another forum so i just thought i see wat opinion do ppl have on this forum regarding this social issue
i am unmarried, so i m not talking about myself.
1. not all our sisters are like that
2. i understand its not easy to adjust with everyone.
But....
why many of them fight? we, men, like that our daughter love her husband and wife love her mother.
but why as a wife she dont want that her husband love his mother and as a mother that her son dont love his wife.
they make the poor man a sandvich between them. As he loves his mother and wife and cant leave any of them.
why dont they stop quarelling for the sake of their son/husband whom they love too? why mother forget that she was a young wife and why wife forget that she will be an old mother someday?
its so much in india/pakistan (i dont know about other places). i really feel pity for those men.
PS: not all sisters are bad and not all brothers are good. i love all good bro's and sis' for the sake of Allah.
My Thoughts
Its such a complicated topic, and usually these fights lead to a destruction in a house hold, im not married but this is wat i have observed lol its kinda weird talkinga bout it but lets see if this is what everyone else has noticed too.
What i noticed mostly that when a wife comes, the mother in law feels like the wife is taking over the house hold, lol maybe the mother who developed the house with such love and passion , its now being moved along to the 2nd generation, so she might feel threatned and also in alot of situation mother in laws think they know the best and try to force all of her ways on the new wife.
Man this is such a problem that i feel like there are very few houses safe from this problem
ANywayz What are your opinions
i saw this threat on another forum so i just thought i see wat opinion do ppl have on this forum regarding this social issue
i am unmarried, so i m not talking about myself.
1. not all our sisters are like that
2. i understand its not easy to adjust with everyone.
But....
why many of them fight? we, men, like that our daughter love her husband and wife love her mother.
but why as a wife she dont want that her husband love his mother and as a mother that her son dont love his wife.
they make the poor man a sandvich between them. As he loves his mother and wife and cant leave any of them.
why dont they stop quarelling for the sake of their son/husband whom they love too? why mother forget that she was a young wife and why wife forget that she will be an old mother someday?
its so much in india/pakistan (i dont know about other places). i really feel pity for those men.
PS: not all sisters are bad and not all brothers are good. i love all good bro's and sis' for the sake of Allah.
My Thoughts
Its such a complicated topic, and usually these fights lead to a destruction in a house hold, im not married but this is wat i have observed lol its kinda weird talkinga bout it but lets see if this is what everyone else has noticed too.
What i noticed mostly that when a wife comes, the mother in law feels like the wife is taking over the house hold, lol maybe the mother who developed the house with such love and passion , its now being moved along to the 2nd generation, so she might feel threatned and also in alot of situation mother in laws think they know the best and try to force all of her ways on the new wife.
Man this is such a problem that i feel like there are very few houses safe from this problem
ANywayz What are your opinions