Asja
Pearl of Islaam
Assalaam walaikum,
Asja, I just wrote this is not worth our time. Please do not overreact to the word sex.
This is what I meant: Why are we talking about non-Muslims having sex. We Muslims have so many more issues to deal with.
We need to look at ourselves.
This is not a newsworthy item. Shame on us. This is equivalent to gossip tabloid.
Wa allaicumu sallam wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu
Yes, it is great shame that Muslims today are not taking enough care of their speach, although they do know or should know that this is important part of their Muslim character, important part of their shame infront of Allah, infront of other people, and at the end of themselves as well. Taking care of our speach, of our words, keeping them modest, directly affects on our deeds, and this is the reason why Allah on many places in Quran is ordering us to take great care of our words, as we will be held accountable for them.
When we take time to look up on the deeds of other people, wether they are Muslims or not, we take time to take message from them, we take time to learn others which is the correct way of living, we take time to educate our society, and at the end, becouse we always start from ourselves, we take time to correct our own mistakes and learn.
What is also important to point out, is that in Islaam there are no more important or less important things, every part of Islaam is equally important and should be understood and practised on this way InshAllah. This is why Allah has said in Quran that He has perfected our religion, Islaam, so that our lifes can be fulfiled with piety, so that we can proudly present the identity of Muslim in our societies.
At the end I have nothing more to add except, yes indeed it is a great shame and may Allah guide us all. Amenn Ya Rabb
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