want to wear hijab help

[iloveislam78]

salam all

i am a young muslimah in my early twentys, suddenly i have found the urge to wear the hijab, but also have many fears and worries,,


i would appreciate it if anyone has any KIND words of encouragement for me,

i want to surrender myself to allah really i do.........................


please be kind ppl and may allah reward u all

 

[Al-Kashmiri]

As-salaamu `alaykum

Sister, what is better than making a permanent change in your life (inshaa' Allaah), for the sake of pleasing the Creator? You may have fears, but the hijaab is a safety barrier for you. May Allaah make this affair for you, ameen!

 

[Aisha hussain..]

:salam2:sister although my family is muslim thanks to Allah but when i started hijab and the veil my sis has stoped talking to me but still im continuing wearing it because

Prophet muhammad (SAW) has said, "there will be a time where a muslim holding to his faith is like holding a burning coal"

sister this is Allah guiding you showing u the path accept the path go for it you will face some difficulties but you will have pleasure of gaining Allah's love

 

[rightpath_357]

Sis!!!!!!!

Go ahead and wear it!!!!!!
You'll get a lot of stares- but so what- the hijab will make you an obvious Muslimah who demands respect and shows dignity
Allah will be pleased with you, and you'll be written as one of the fine Muslim women who has earned Paradise

First it might look like this when you go out:

:tongue: :shymuslima1:

But then- soon enough, it'll look like this:
:ma: :shake: :jumpclap: :wink: :tongue: :shake: :muslim_child:


(p.s - In the first one, you're :shymuslima1:
In the second, your


:lol:

Best of luck and lot's of love sis!!!!!!!!!

 

[iloveislam78]

thanku

thanku soooo much sisters please make dua inshallah for me,,,,

its a struggle i dnt recognise what i feel in the ppl around me although i only mix with muslims.........................

i feel a burning inside me to completely submit myself to allah,,
but shaytaan is a right bugger lol

please continue ur words of encouragement their helping

and my allah reward u all

i LOVE U GUYS *!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!

 

[shichemlydia]

salam alikoum

salam alikoum sister,
at this age hijab is really imprtant for a muslimah, just be courageous enough and allah swt will bring succes and baraka inchae allah and this is also the way to protect yourself and to be distiguished in your society
may allah swt help you
salam alikoum

 

[a_stranger]

:salam2:
When the creature respond to what his/her creator told him/her to do then a sweatness of faith is felt ......concentrate on this goal pleasing the one who is above all : the Lord of the universe ......you will be in harmony with the wholw being .....Disobediance of the owner of all is an oddness .....be proud with your higab it is modesty and purity for yourself and the whole being around you. May Allah sobhanahu wa taala give you courge and strength.

 

[Basicofislam]

:salam2: I started wearing hijab 3 1/2 yrs back. My mom and sisters dont wear hijab. My advice to you is if you want to wear it and truly believe it is the right thing. Then dont care about what people think or what advice they give you. Thats how i did it. And if you feel that people are going to look at you and cause of that u r shy to wear it. I say one thing if you live for what people think how u look you will never survive . You should have a i dont care attitude. I went from a short skirt to a long jilbab believe me it was a big change for me.

 

[iloveislam78]

salam again brothers and sisters

i cant tell u how much i appreciate ur kind words and encouragement, really

i feel a little confused i want to ask allah to help me in my quest, but if fear that my reward will be lessened and allahs pleasure will be lessened upon me if i recieve his help as oppossed to being strong enuf to do it myself......


am i wrong in feeling this way........ it feels a little wrong

please be kind again and i ask for you to continue with all your encouragement brothers and sisters i can relate what u are saying, i used to live on the streets a drug taking wild child,, this is a HUGE step for me and every one of ur kind words are greatly appreciated

may allah swiftly reward u all inshallah and grant u forgiveness and jennat al firdous )))


love u alll

*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!xx

 

[hana*]

Salamualikum sister,

your inner urge to wear Hijab is indicative of the goodness in you and the love of Allah for you. I wore Hijab at the age of 11 and alhamdulilah never looked back since.

Firstly I recommend that you continuously pray to Allah to strengthen you with it. Hijab is not something to be taken lightly and many take it off soon after wearing it. One way of helping you keep it on is distancing yourself from those who keep you away from Allah- friends are either influencing us or are being influenced by us.

okay here are my words of encouragement to you: when you walk out the street with Hijab on, every person that looks at you will be reminded of Allah, thus every 'look' gains you multiple reward. if you are living in a non-Mulism country, your reward gains a double-fold increase as it is a greater struggle. additionally, Hijab works wonders for da'awah, so many will ask you as to why you wore it, thus you will be able to rectify misconceptions.

furthermore, the Prophet (peace be upon him) said that there will come a time (i.e now) where one individual practicing Islam will be equivalent to, in reward, to 50 of the Companions because of the difficulty in that time- imagine being equivalent to 50 of the companions! alhamdulilah.

when we remember of how the Prophet (peace be upon him) turned his face away from Asma, at the age of 12, who was not wearing hijab, we have to ask ourselves, do we want him (peace be upon him) to turn his face away from us on the day of judgement?

yes you will get the 'stares' and yes you will go through difficult phases but this life is so short lived and nothing is guaranteed, we cant guarantee we will awake tomorrow. By wearing Hijab, you can say to Allah on the day of judgement 'I did this solely for You'

I wish you all the best in wearing it, May Allah strenghthen you by it and we are all here to support you.

 

[iloveislam78]

thanku

thanku sister

that was so beautiful sister and very touching, had a little cry earlier ( okay i was in bits) because this is sooo hard but i know what i have to do, i keep logging on waiting for everyones words of wisdom and guidance TRUST ME they really are helping me at this difficult time,,,


THANKU ALL SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH TIMES ONE BILLON

EVERYTIME I COME BACK U GUYS MAKE ME SMILE PLEASE DONT STOP

MAY ALLAH REWARD U ALL


MUCH LOVE

 

[iloveislam78]

AND SIS DID U MEAN ALLAH LOVES ME ...


BECAUSE I STILL DO A LOT OF OTHER WRONG THINGS....


PLEASE CLARIFY FOR ME *!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!X

 

[hana*]

AND SIS DID U MEAN ALLAH LOVES ME ...


BECAUSE I STILL DO A LOT OF OTHER WRONG THINGS....


PLEASE CLARIFY FOR ME *!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!*!X

Ofcourse Allah loves you, no doubt about it: when Allah loves someone, He gives him/her an understanding of Deen, and you are treading the path of this deen.

Once at the time of the Prophet (peace be upon him) a woman hugged her son dearly, so the Prophet peace be upon him said to his companions: do you think this mother would throw her son into the fire? they replied in the negative. the prophet answered them: Allah loves His creation more than a mother does to its child.. Allah loves us and is ever relenting towards us, His doors are open for us 24/7. There is no sin too great for Allah to forgive. however, we must do so now and not delay as there are no guarantees.

When Allah created this earth, He wrote on His throne: 'My Mercy Prevails over My wrath'. we have to have a balance between understanding His Mercy and His Wrath.

I recommend to you to isolate youself from friends who do haram things or who do not pray, as they will distance you from doing good. Also, the shaytan will constantly be at your back to stop you wearing Hijab, he knows our weaknesses and will focus on them. Best thing to do is engage yourself in salah and frequent recitation of Quran. there are also many good audios/videos available on the net, particularlly those on the Akhira and death, which will help put things in perspective.

All the best to you sis, Im here for you if you need anything

 

[iloveislam78]

salam sister hana

i cant stop crying,,, i know im fightng shaytaan,,, thanku sister ur very sweet

 

[iloveislam78]

p.s

hamdullaih i pray five times a day already and i try to do tajhhaud ( sorry cant spell) and duwa prayer if thats how u spell, it i dnt take non muslims as friends my mum is my best friend lol,,,,,,,,,, it used to be my sis but she passed away about 6 months ago may allah have mercy on her inshallah,,,

my mum is convert marashallah she is a good women and wears the full islamic dress my older sis doesnt thou,,, sometimes although i have a good realtionship with my mum,, i kinda feel alone, like no one understands me...

 

[iloveislam78]

gawd i sound like a loner lol

i have good friends hamdullaih allah is most kind

 

[iloveislam78]

I SHOULD SHUT UP SHOULDNT I ,,, LOL SORRY EVERYONE

 

[yasak80]

I was imagining very bad daydreams for the future in my mind when I decided to wear hijab. When I wear it I understand that they all comes from shaytan.
I can say only that pray Allahu Teala for make it easier to you.
when you do it you will see that u are more beautiful than before

I am going to pray to you sister
I felt it right now that you will say to us inshaAllah the good news about it soon

be happy inshaAllah...
Allahu Teala loves us.

 

[bettertimes]

Sister

Salamo3alikom sister in Islam.
Sister, I just want to tell you that you start tasting the beauty of being a muslim girl, just go head and dont ever think to stop wearing Hijab, and keep alwayse a smile on your face because Hijab is your freedom Sister.
Smile! God loves you.
your Brother in islam ALI.
I will pray for you inchallah :tti_sister:

 

[rightpath_357]

I SHOULD SHUT UP SHOULDNT I ,,, LOL SORRY EVERYONE

NOTHING to b srry 4 sis!!!!!!

lol- LONERRRR!!!!!! lol- jk sis!!!!!!
:muslim_child:

:lol: