will these curses be accepted

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

:salam2:wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

i want to kno if a person curses you everytime he/she gets angry with you,even if the case is like the usual cases that occur in our normal life.would those curses be accepted.

when it's like a habit for that person and asks ALLAH for destroying your duniya and akhira.especially when you feel you were innocent or just doing what was your right.and the other feels the same way!!

i'm dealing with a person like this.this particular person curses everyone in her way.whenever she is annoyed with someone and the other person stands up to be annoyed tooi'm very careful dealing with this person but something happened today and i got stubborn and i was showered with curses.the kind i'm astonished can cross somebody's mind.

can you help plzz!

jazakallah khairan

wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

 

[saifkhan]

Salam alaikum

Basically and clearly.....no...those will not be accepted.....Alhamdulillah....
and we muslims are not allowed to curse anyone..not even the not-yet-muslims...we cant even call them kafir...so how can we curse anyone...
the thing is allowed that we can abhor something from our heart....yet that will be the lowest state of eeman.....whatever the thing is or how mean can be it...Fist we need to stop by hand if we r able to do so, otherwise atleast stop it by mouth...even thats impossible then atleast abhor it from the heart....but even then we r not allowed to curse anybody.....astaghfirullah....who r we to surse anyone....??
ppl of mecca did so and so bad things to Prophet SAWS...but yet he didnt curse them nor even punish them...moreover forgave them....we have great Salaf...Alahmdulillah ...the Prophet SAWS....summa alhamdulillah

and one thing...dont deal with such ppl....they can shake you eeman....we ppl sometimes loose our control and remind it...thats the saitan's handy work..be aware of it and Allah SWT knows the best

Jazakallahu Khair
wassalamu alaikum

 

[ahmed_indian]

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i can understand the way u must be feeling. its hard...but inshallah it wont affect u if you were right.

only the valid curses affect like an oppressed cursing the unjust ruler, etc.

but try to convince her not to curse others in this way. the curse can come back to her. also she'll loose everybody in this way.

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

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i can understand the way u must be feeling. its hard...but inshallah it wont affect u if you were right.

only the valid curses affect like an oppressed cursing the unjust ruler, etc.

but try to convince her not to curse others in this way. the curse can come back to her. also she'll loose everybody in this way.

akhi what if you don't know you were right.she was told that the curses may come her way.she said it's not like ALLAH doesn't realise the pain in her heart!!!

how can one know he's right or wrong enough for that curse.she had this habit eversince she was real small,and yes unseen miseries do come her way but i still am scared enought to end up crying evertime this happens!!

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

Even when there is a good reason to curse somebody, one shouldn't. We learn that from something that happened to the Prophet, peace be upon him. The pagans of Mecca had tortured so many Muslims that the prophet (PBUH) stood up in QunooT and asked God to curse certain people by name. God then revealed the verses,

"Not for you, [O Muhammad, but for God], is the decision whether He should [cut them down] or forgive them or punish them, for indeed, they are wrongdoers.
And to God belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is in the earth. He forgives whom He wills and punishes whom He wills. And God is Forgiving and Merciful. " (3:128-129)

The Prophet stopped after that.

As for your subject question, God tells us that He only accepts from the pious (5:27). It is not exactly the practice of a pious person to go around cursing everybody with or without cause. Remind her, sister, that her negative habit negatively affects her faith.

:salam2:wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

jazakallah khairan for your answer akhi,especially for the ayah.i feel so much better now.
if the proophet wasn't allowed to curse and i think we even consider this as haraam.
i'll try to help her.but i don't know where to begin??everytime she's angry even on the slightest things she curses ppl.i don't how can one get rid of such habits.

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

Salam alaikum

Basically and clearly.....no...those will not be accepted.....Alhamdulillah....
and we muslims are not allowed to curse anyone..not even the not-yet-muslims...we cant even call them kafir...so how can we curse anyone...
the thing is allowed that we can abhor something from our heart....yet that will be the lowest state of eeman.....whatever the thing is or how mean can be it...Fist we need to stop by hand if we r able to do so, otherwise atleast stop it by mouth...even thats impossible then atleast abhor it from the heart....but even then we r not allowed to curse anybody.....astaghfirullah....who r we to surse anyone....??
ppl of mecca did so and so bad things to Prophet SAWS...but yet he didnt curse them nor even punish them...moreover forgave them....we have great Salaf...Alahmdulillah ...the Prophet SAWS....summa alhamdulillah

and one thing...dont deal with such ppl....they can shake you eeman....we ppl sometimes loose our control and remind it...thats the saitan's handy work..be aware of it and Allah SWT knows the best

Jazakallahu Khair
wassalamu alaikum

akhi she's family.cutting out on her won't do.

barakallah fik.

 

[elgnosis]

:salam2:wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

i want to kno if a person curses you everytime he/she gets angry with you,even if the case is like the usual cases that occur in our normal life.would those curses be accepted.

when it's like a habit for that person and asks ALLAH for destroying your duniya and akhira.especially when you feel you were innocent or just doing what was your right.and the other feels the same way!!

i'm dealing with a person like this.this particular person curses everyone in her way.whenever she is annoyed with someone and the other person stands up to be annoyed tooi'm very careful dealing with this person but something happened today and i got stubborn and i was showered with curses.the kind i'm astonished can cross somebody's mind.

can you help plzz!

jazakallah khairan

wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

Asalaam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

If a person curses someone, the curse goes to the heaven-the doors of the heaven are shut against it, den it returns back to the earth, again the doors to the earth are shut against it, den it goes to the person who was cursed, if he really deserved it den it afflicts him, else it goes back to the person who uttered the curse...

This hadith i heard my mother say to me recently....

 

[elysetexel]

My best friend( she is not a muslim) she swears alot and curses people. But because we are such good friends I find it hard to say something to her and I don't want to break up the friendship. What can I do then?

elyse

 

[Aapa]

Assalaam walaikum,

Sometimes words are useless to convey gratitude. I was playing around and came to this post. Thank you sister for asking the questions. And the message I am going to mull is we do not seek the ignorant. That is a profound statement. Jazaak Allahu Kharin.

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

Assalaam walaikum,

Sometimes words are useless to convey gratitude. I was playing around and came to this post. Thank you sister for asking the questions. And the message I am going to mull is we do not seek the ignorant. That is a profound statement. Jazaak Allahu Kharin.

:salam2:wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.

sister i don't think i gt you..sorry i'm kind of messed up so i'm slow!!

barakallah fik ukhti.

 

[Aapa]

Assalaam walaikum,

I was really speaking to myself...I was very taken by this phrase of seeking correct knowledge. So I will think about it all day.