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salam to all.
today 8am in the morning i got a phone call from my parents confirming the death of my aunties husband, being my uncle.
he has been very very very ill for months fighting his cancer and very sick deseases. his been in and out of hospital.
my aunty being my mothers sister, she went through so much helping him. washing for him, taking him to the bathroom, holding, helping him get up and on bed and move, feeding him, cleaning his urine and stool and so much.
may allah grant her Jannah and forgive alllllll her sins. she is a very very good person and i do believe inshallah and hope inshallah allah will grant her jannah.
as for my uncle being my aunties husband, his a bit tuff. his got so much anger and always rude to everyone. sometimes he has that total different personality where he is so nice. personally, i love him so much because i believe everyone is created with a different personality and different brain, for him to be the way he is, i accept it because its the way allah wrote for him to be. i always let him go when he said something wrong to me or someone next to me, i always ignored and never took it personal no matter how bad it was.
so many people fought with him about his comments, couldnt handle his comments etc. but they still loved him and always visited him.
his treated my aunty bad as we heard and as we've seen. but... if there was not a sign of some good inside him or some love, my aunty would not have stayed with him, people would not have visited him, people would not have forgiven him etc.
they barried him before douhr, i want to know, what happens to him now? does the angel visit him straight away and ask him the questions of who is your god, what is your religion, what is your kitab, etc. then what happens in the grave? does the person go to hell or heaven straight away? i know they get punished in the grave, but how does the punishment happen as in does he actually wake up from his body, is it his soul, does his body get punished or his soul. will his soul be in the grave with his body?
all the question im asking, the answer is probably 'allah aa'lam' only allah knows. but is there a surah on the death or any hadith that might answer my questions.
is it haram that i am pondering and thinking about what will happen to me or someone like my uncle when we die and get barried.
do we stay sleeping?
i want to picture what is happening to my uncle in his grave. as in, there is an angel, asking him questions, telling him and reminding him of all the good and bad his done, weighing his sins and deeds, talking to him, visiting him. telling him that his going to hell or heaven. does his body actually sit up in the grave / coffen after his family burry him? and thats how he communicates.
okay i better stop, im pondering too much. i hope its not haram. but this made me very upset and scared and cry and closer to allah and fear allah more. thats just what i felt. subhan allah, may allah forgive us. thinking about death is a very serious thing and emotional.
today 8am in the morning i got a phone call from my parents confirming the death of my aunties husband, being my uncle.
he has been very very very ill for months fighting his cancer and very sick deseases. his been in and out of hospital.
my aunty being my mothers sister, she went through so much helping him. washing for him, taking him to the bathroom, holding, helping him get up and on bed and move, feeding him, cleaning his urine and stool and so much.
may allah grant her Jannah and forgive alllllll her sins. she is a very very good person and i do believe inshallah and hope inshallah allah will grant her jannah.
as for my uncle being my aunties husband, his a bit tuff. his got so much anger and always rude to everyone. sometimes he has that total different personality where he is so nice. personally, i love him so much because i believe everyone is created with a different personality and different brain, for him to be the way he is, i accept it because its the way allah wrote for him to be. i always let him go when he said something wrong to me or someone next to me, i always ignored and never took it personal no matter how bad it was.
so many people fought with him about his comments, couldnt handle his comments etc. but they still loved him and always visited him.
his treated my aunty bad as we heard and as we've seen. but... if there was not a sign of some good inside him or some love, my aunty would not have stayed with him, people would not have visited him, people would not have forgiven him etc.
they barried him before douhr, i want to know, what happens to him now? does the angel visit him straight away and ask him the questions of who is your god, what is your religion, what is your kitab, etc. then what happens in the grave? does the person go to hell or heaven straight away? i know they get punished in the grave, but how does the punishment happen as in does he actually wake up from his body, is it his soul, does his body get punished or his soul. will his soul be in the grave with his body?
all the question im asking, the answer is probably 'allah aa'lam' only allah knows. but is there a surah on the death or any hadith that might answer my questions.
is it haram that i am pondering and thinking about what will happen to me or someone like my uncle when we die and get barried.
do we stay sleeping?
i want to picture what is happening to my uncle in his grave. as in, there is an angel, asking him questions, telling him and reminding him of all the good and bad his done, weighing his sins and deeds, talking to him, visiting him. telling him that his going to hell or heaven. does his body actually sit up in the grave / coffen after his family burry him? and thats how he communicates.
okay i better stop, im pondering too much. i hope its not haram. but this made me very upset and scared and cry and closer to allah and fear allah more. thats just what i felt. subhan allah, may allah forgive us. thinking about death is a very serious thing and emotional.
