Give to Muslims their rights!

Asja

Pearl of Islaam
Assalamu allaicum wa rahamtullah wa barakatuhu

In the name of Allah The Most Merciful The Most Compasionate

All Praise be due to Allah only, The Most Exalted, The Most Merciful, The Most Compassionate and may Allahs Peace and Blessings be upon His Last Messanger Mohammed s.a.w.s., his noble familly and his noble Sahabahs r.a. and all those who foolow their footsteps in Allahs religion.

Among our obligations toward other Muslims is to deal with them with the best and most appropriate manners and character.

The Prophet Mohammed s.a.w.s. said:

""Every Muslim is the brother of every other Muslim. He does not oppress him nor turn him over to any enemy. Allah is always occupied with the needs of one who is occupied with the needs of his brother. For whoever relieves another Muslim of some distress, Allah will relieve him of one of the distresses on Qiyama. And for whoever conceals the fault of another Muslim, Allah will conceal his faults on Qiyama."


Every day we come into a situation where we are tested with our behaviour toward other people, esspecialy toward our Muslim brothers and sisters, in the way that we are asked to show in our deeds "Are we giving our Muslim brothers and sisters their rights"???

Today I have been informed by our respected brother in Islam about his decision to leave TTI forever and not having intention to come back ever again. He is good Muslim MashAllah and was an active member here for many years but something happened what has made him to bring this decision about leaving.

I have been reading message of our brother over and over and I was trying to understand what could be the reason which has made him to think on leaving the place where he is souranded by his Muslim brothers and sisters. The answer came by itselfe : We are not giving our Muslim brothers and sisters their rights in the light of Quran and Sunnah, becouse we should be careful to not hurt their feelings when threating them, esspecialy not to hurt them constantly.


It can happen that out of our ignorancy we hurt someone, not intentionaly, but it is not acceptable for us Muslims to continue making the same mistakes without giving efforts on correcting them and without looking for answers in Quran and Sunnah how to deal with our brothers and sisters in Islam, and after that with followers of other religions also.

A Muslim’s goodness is not only limited to brothers in faith; but, it also extends to cover every being, human or otherwise.

Prophet Muhammad (Peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:
“Every Muslim should do an act of charity.” “Suppose he couldn’t afford that? People said. “Let him work with his hands and give out charity,” he answered. “Suppose he couldn’t afford it? They said. “Let him help the grieved and needy,’ he answered. “Suppose he couldn’t afford it,” they said. “Let him do good and avoid evil, it is an act of charity for him.” (Narrated by lmam Bukhari)


The Muslims need one another with regard to both worldly and religious affairs, hence cooperation among Muslims is something important that Allaah has enjoined and He has made cooperation the basis for religious and worldly well being. The Muslims – if they achieve this cooperation – are described as a strong, integrated structure, and as a single body. All of that confirms that cooperation and mutual support among them is something essential.

That includes many aspects in the lives of Muslims, which are summed up in the words birr (righteousness) and taqwa (piety) , as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Help you one another in Al Birr and At Taqwa (virtue, righteousness and piety); but do not help one another in sin and transgression. And fear Allaah. Verily, Allaah is Severe in punishment” [al-Maa’idah 5:2]. These are two words that sum up all the attributes of goodness, such as belief, conduct, rulings and so on.

Allaah says, explaining the meaning of birr (righteousness) (interpretation of the meaning):
“It is not Al-Birr (piety, righteousness, and each and every act of obedience to Allaah) that you turn your faces towards east and (or) west (in prayers); but Al-Birr is (the quality of) the one who believes in Allaah, the Last Day, the Angels, the Book, the Prophets and gives his wealth, in spite of love for it, to the kinsfolk, to the orphans, and to Al-Masaakeen (the poor), and to the wayfarer, and to those who ask, and to set slaves free, performs As-Salaah (Iqaamat-as-Salaah), and gives the Zakât, and who fulfil their covenant when they make it, and who are patient in extreme poverty and ailment (disease) and at the time of fighting (during the battles). Such are the people of the truth and they are Al Muttaqoon (the pious)”
[al-Baqarah 2:177]


Islamic solidarity means helping one another, standing shoulder to shoulder, supporting and advising one another and other such phrases. That includes enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil, calling others to Allaah, and guiding people to that which will lead to their happiness and salvation, in this world and the Hereafter. That also includes teaching the ignorant, helping the destitute, supporting the one who is wronged, stopping the wrongdoer from wronging others, establishing the law of Allaah.

Words are always reaching ones heart, how some words can be kind and beautiful, on the same way some words can be hurtful and they always remain in ones heart, especcialy if they are repeated constantly.

In all this we must not forget that we should always try to advice each others for the sake of Allah, even if it can make some Muslim " upset" our advicing for Allahs sake.

When observing the rights of other Muslims, we will see that one of the msot importante rights are :

* to love every Muslim.
* to care for all Muslims.
* to help other Muslims.
* to defend/protect other Muslims

If you do not love, you will not care. If you do not care, you will not help. If you do not help, you will not protect.

The reason why so many Muslims today do not care or help others is because there is something wrong with the wala’ aspect of love. We should have love for other Muslims, especially those who are suffering, so we will care and help them.

The Scholars say one way to help and the least we can do is to make du’a (pray for them).

Abu Hurayrah (radhiyallaahu ‘anhu – may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Messenger of Allaah (sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam – may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said,

“The rights of a Muslim upon their fellow Muslim are six.” It was said, “And what are they Oh Messenger of Allah?” He replied, “When you meet them, give them the greeting of peace, when they invite you, respond to their invitation, when they seek your advice, advise them sincerely, when they sneeze and praise Allah, supplicate for mercy upon them, when they fall ill, visit them, and when they die follow them (i.e. his funeral).” Muslim


May Allah put mercy in our hearts towerd each others,and make our Muslims hearts as one, ameen summa ameen

And please dear sisters and brothers, make dua that our brother in Islam do not leave us, Inshalllah.:tti_sister:

May Allah bless you all always. ameen summa ameen

Wa Allaicumu saalam wa raahmatullah wa baarakatuhu
 

BrotherInIslam7

La Illaha Illa Allah
Staff member
:wasalam:

Nice thread MashaAllah. It is quite important that we treat each other with respect and dignity. This is an *Islamic forum*, so we should all remind ourselves that we need to do our utmost to follow the Islamic adab while conversing with each other. Harshness (and/or sarcasm) barely gets the point across and could be viewed as offensive to certain people. And I try to remind myself of it, every now and then.

And as your rightly mentioned, advice should be given with kindness and with empathy. One should try to be the least bit judgmental and understand that people come from different backgrounds and upbringings. Patience is the key.

I thank you for taking the time to put forward this much needed reminder.. BarakAllahu Feeki

Wasalaamalaykum waa rahmatullahi
 

Asja

Pearl of Islaam
Assalamu allaicum wa raahmatullah wa baarkatuhu

Wa Baarak Allah feekh

May Allah subhan wa teala make greater our love and care for our Muslim sisters and brothers,and make us helpers and supports of each others,and help us to remaind each others on importance of brotherhood in Islaam. ameen summa ameen


I want to give you two beautiful flowers: The first will introduce you to paradise, while other will save you from Fire! These flowers are from garden of brotherhood! The Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, said: "The two will stand before Allah on the Day of Judgement. One will say:' Lord, return me the right that my brother took it from me" ...


Allah will say: 'What will you do with your brother when of his good deeds nothing has left ? The man will reply, "Let him take of my sins." Then the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam, cried, and then said:' It is truly a magnificent day. People will be needed to facilitate their burden of sin.

Allah will be the one who will say to the one who asked: "Look!" He will rise up his look and say, 'Lord, I see golden cities and castles decorated with pearls, of which Prophet, or Shaeed they are? " Allah will say: Of the one who pays the price! " The man will say: 'How he will be able to pay? Allah will say to him: 'You're able to. " He will say: 'A what? " Allah will say, 'Forgive your brother. " The man will say: 'Lord, I forgive him. " Allah will say: 'Take your brother's hand and lead him to paradise.''' (Al - Hakem)
 

queenislam

★★★I LOVE ALLAH★★★
~May Allah swt guide and help us all~Amin!

:bismillah:
:salam2:

~Alhamdulillah!

Thank you for sharing this sister.
JazakIllaahu khairaa:SMILY252:

:tti_sister:~May Allah swt guide and help us all~Amin!

Take Care!

~Wassalam :)
 

MohammedMaksudul

May Allah Forgive us
:salam2L
SubhanAllah and JazakAllah sister for this beautiful reminder. Shaytan always tries to put hatred and irritation in the Muslims hearts for their brothers and sisters. So we must be aware and we should take good care of our relations and the brotherhood. We must also remember that we are humans and we will make mistakes. So we should also be open to forgiveness. May Allah guide us all.
 

Seeking Allah's Mercy

Qul HuwaAllahu Ahud!
:salam2:wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu....

Jazakallah khair sister.this was nice and important.this is something that "pops" here at TTI now and again.and it is good that you addressed it.usually people take the words wrong,and get offended.i think they should give the others the benefit of doubt.you can't see a person's expression,neither can you hear his tone.it's words only.i agree that they should be used with care.it's a good reminder.but incase something goes wrong.There is a BIG chance you took it that way and the person is innocent when it comes to intentions.

as for the Brother:

Respected Brother.who ever you are.Please reconsider.on the outside we are all strangers,here we are a family.forgive and forget.surely Allah will reward you.Know that it could be that you feel left out and unwanted,but your absence may affect others who benefit from you in one way or the other!!so yeah hope that you'll think over it again.

Jazakallah khair,
 

Asja

Pearl of Islaam
:salam2:wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu....

Jazakallah khair sister.this was nice and important.this is something that "pops" here at TTI now and again.and it is good that you addressed it.usually people take the words wrong,and get offended.i think they should give the others the benefit of doubt.you can't see a person's expression,neither can you hear his tone.it's words only.i agree that they should be used with care.it's a good reminder.but incase something goes wrong.There is a BIG chance you took it that way and the person is innocent when it comes to intentions.

as for the Brother:

Respected Brother.who ever you are.Please reconsider.on the outside we are all strangers,here we are a family.forgive and forget.surely Allah will reward you.Know that it could be that you feel left out and unwanted,but your absence may affect others who benefit from you in one way or the other!!so yeah hope that you'll think over it again.

Jazakallah khair,


Wa Allaicumu saalam wa raahmatullah wa barakatuhu dear sister

May Allah reword you for reeding my thread,and I pray to Allah that we all take lesson and advices from each other words. ameen summa ameen

Dear sister, I agree with your words. Sometimes we may hurt someone unitentionaly, but even if it is like that we should ask for forgivness of other persones, especialy our Muslim brothers and sisters.Because brotherhood and sisterhood is very importante part of Islam and every Muslim is mirror to other Muslim.If we as Muslims do not support each others, how can we make our Ummah better and strong. May Allah help us on that way.

And I hope Inshallah our respected brother will reed your kind reply and reconsider his deccision about leaving. Amen Ya Allah.

May Allah bless you dear sister

:wasalam:
 

saifkhan

abd-Allah
Salam alaikum warahmatu-llahi wa barakatuhu

JazakAllahu khair fir sharing this informative thread, hamdu li Allah, may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala reward you respected sister.

mercy,love and careness comes from Allah subhanahu wa ta'la.
First we have to step on, then inshaa'Allah Allah will pour our heart with these attributes, subhanAllah.

I'd like to share a Hadeeth here:
Narrated Usama bin Zaid:

We were with the Prophet when suddenly there came to him a messenger from one of his daughters who was asking him to come and see her son who was dying. The Prophet said (to the messenger), "Go back and tell her that whatever Allah takes is His, and whatever He gives is His, and everything with Him has a limited fixed term (in this world). So order her to be patient and hope for Allah's reward." But she sent the messenger to the Prophet again, swearing that he should come to her. So the Prophets got up, and so did Sa'd bin 'Ubada and Mu'adh bin Jabal (and went to her). When the child was brought to the Prophet his breath was disturbed in his chest as if it were in a water skin. On that the eyes of the Prophet . became flooded with tears, whereupon Sa'd said to him, "O Allah's Apostle! What is this?" The Prophet said, "This is mercy which Allah has put in the heart of His slaves, and Allah bestows His mercy only on those of His slaves who are merciful (to others)." [Volume 9, Book 93, Number 474]


we should also be very careful about what we are going to speak. we dont know may be our words can hurt someone!

may Allah help us to be united and serve Him righteously, inshaa'Allah

barakAllahu feek
wassalam respected sister
 

Seeking Allah's Mercy

Qul HuwaAllahu Ahud!
Wa Allaicumu saalam wa raahmatullah wa barakatuhu dear sister

May Allah reword you for reeding my thread,and I pray to Allah that we all take lesson and advices from each other words. ameen summa ameen

Dear sister, I agree with your words. Sometimes we may hurt someone unitentionaly, but even if it is like that we should ask for forgivness of other persones, especialy our Muslim brothers and sisters.Because brotherhood and sisterhood is very importante part of Islam and every Muslim is mirror to other Muslim.If we as Muslims do not support each others, how can we make our Ummah better and strong. May Allah help us on that way.

And I hope Inshallah our respected brother will reed your kind reply and reconsider his deccision about leaving. Amen Ya Allah.

May Allah bless you dear sister

:wasalam:

:salam2:wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu...

Sisiter when i said "give the benefit of doubt" i was not throwing the principle of apology out of the window.When our words end up hurting someone.be it our intention or not we should apologise.Apology isn't going to belittle anybody.What i mean is that after apology we should forgive and forget instead on sticking to it.before really shifting the person to hate list we should consider that he's a human too.

That's all^_^
 

Asja

Pearl of Islaam
:salam2:wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu...

Sisiter when i said "give the benefit of doubt" i was not throwing the principle of apology out of the window.When our words end up hurting someone.be it our intention or not we should apologise.Apology isn't going to belittle anybody.What i mean is that after apology we should forgive and forget instead on sticking to it.before really shifting the person to hate list we should consider that he's a human too.

That's all^_^

Wa Allaicumu Sallam wa rahamtullah wa barakatuhu dear sister

Yes allhamdullilah, when we hurt someone intentionaly or unitentionaly, we should first ask forgivness from Allah, then from the persone who we may hurted becouse that person can call us infront of Allah on The Day of Judgment for what we have done or said to her or him. At the end after asking forgivness and apology, we should ask Allah to guide us to never make the same mistake InshAllah.

Jazzak Allah khair dear sister

Assalamu Allaicum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu
 
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