Dua for trying to conceive, to have a baby, to become pregnant دعاء للحمل

helwa

New Member
:salam2:

My sisters and brothers in Islam, I have infertility problems and not able to conceive and become pregnant and I need your help. I am looking for dua / prayers / supplications (دعاء لانجاب الاطفال) (دعاء الاعجاز للحمل) (دعاء للحمل) that I can recite for to Allah to help me to conceive and become pregnant and have a baby.
I am very sad and going through a very hard time and do not like to do things that I used to like to do before. :SMILY23:
I am not depending on doctors or anyone else for treatments, Allah (subhanu wa ta'alaa) is the only one I am relying on and depending on for this to happen. It is all in Allah's hands (subhanu wa ta'alaa). I am turning to Allah and have always been turning and facing to Allah (subhanu wa ta'alaa). :laila:
I pray all the 5 prayers everyday and each sunnah before or after each salat. I read Quran and recite surat from Quran and say duas that I know of. :SMILY23: :tti_sister:
What are the best things to do and best dua and what to say? When is the best time to call to Allah and make dua?

I would like both text and audio files of dua and prayers. I would like them in Arabic language please...and if possible have translation and transliteration.

I have looked all over youtube and did not find any dua.

Please pray and make dua for me.

:tti_sister:

:jazaak:
 

zainali

Junior Member
assalamualikum sis ,

may allah swt bless u with babies ameen , sis just believe in allah swt no matter what how many problems come in ur life no matter no solutions comes out for them , but never leave the allah's path , just pray and pray and have complete and i mean complete faith in allah swt that some day he'l bless u with a babies inshallah ,

no doc no one is helpful untill and unless allah swt makes them to be help ful so inshallah sis dont worry inshallah allah swt will fullfill ur wishes inshallah ,

sis try to wake up at hqalf nite past and pray nafil salah and make alots fo dua from ur heart cos that the time when ur all alone with allah swt no one is there to bother u and what ever is in ur heart comes out , so inshallah do offer tahajud regularly

and have complete faith in allah swt ,

and we'l always remember u in our dua's inshallah .
 

WithAllahsPowers

WE ARE PROTECTED
salam,

sister im sorry to hear this. may allah bless you with children inshallah.

be patient this is a test, its a hard test but show Allah your patients and inshallah he will help you.

lots of dua's as many as you can think of, make that connection with Allah and in sojood too make dua. Allah loves us and hears and can see us but we cannot see him. we need him and he does not need us.

everything you are doing inshallah Allah knows and sees and accepts. he knows what your going through and only he can give you a child. inshallah he will give you one but wants to test you right now. just think of it like that and inshallah you'll feel better.

another thing, Allah knows its probably not the right time for you to get child now for a reason he feels is good for you, so whatever Allah decides, inshallah we trust his decisions and in your dua always say 'oh Allah i'd love to have another child, but if you do not feel it is the right time, or good for me in my lifelihood, religion health future, then i accept the desicion you make for me, if you know it is good and benifit for me in my religion and health, future, etc, then please make it easy for me and help me to fall pregnant and give me a safe and healthy child and bless me and my child.

i make this dua every day sister because im having the same problem, it is hard but inshallah we will get our rewards in this life or in the akira. i have one boy and one girl, i find it hard that im not able to get a thrid one considering i never had a problem with the first two, but i think of it like this:

at lease i have two.
Allah probably doesnt want me to have a third one because he knows i may not be able to handle 3rd, or it is not good for me and my future, life religion or health etc
he is testing me
he will reward me in the akira and that will be more benifit to me then a thrid child
or so many we can just ponder and think when we say or ask 'why cant i fall pregnant'

Allah has plans for us, we just sit in hope and live day by day and only Allah knows what the next day will be. we just do our daily things / plans, Allah however has made those plans for us prior to their approch, so lets hope our duas are accepted and wake up tomorrow pregnant. :hearts:

just be happy please, dont be sad. i have 2 kids and went through depression trying to understand why cant i fall pregnant. imagine what those who dont have kids or cant have kids feel. but alhumdulilah i've accepted it, and live on in hope and know my reward is not taken from me, allah knows i want a child, he may not give it to me, i accept it and im happy because this is what allah wants.

in your case, everyone feels different but i want to help you feel happy. i really do.

i hope i have not upset you in any way.
 

Hibo2

New Member
May allah bless us all with children I'm having the same problem I have 1 girl and want to have more kids may allah make us easy to have children amin.
 

WithAllahsPowers

WE ARE PROTECTED
May allah bless us all with children I'm having the same problem I have 1 girl and want to have more kids may allah make us easy to have children amin.

ameen. May Allah help you too.

its in Allahs hands, may he provide for us our needs, wants, wishes and dreams. everything is in Allahs hands.

I hope Allah will bless you with a child inshallah. and bless helwa as well. and all the sisters experiencing this difficulty. remember, Allah is with us. he will not leave us. we will inshallah be rewarded for this important dream we wish for.

Allah is not leaving us without children for nothing, we will inshallah get something out of it. that is rewarding and beautiful to know.
 

trying2learn

Junior Member
When I was a teenager doctors told me I would never have children, and now I have 2 with one on the way, all thanks to Allah. Never put faith in man, only Allah. I prayed for many years for children, and my prayers were answered. I will make dua for you.
 

islaminside17

love for ALLAH
:salam2:

My sisters and brothers in Islam, I have infertility problems and not able to conceive and become pregnant and I need your help. I am looking for dua / prayers / supplications (دعاء لانجاب الاطفال) (دعاء الاعجاز للحمل) (دعاء للحمل) that I can recite for to Allah to help me to conceive and become pregnant and have a baby.
I am very sad and going through a very hard time and do not like to do things that I used to like to do before. :SMILY23:
I am not depending on doctors or anyone else for treatments, Allah (subhanu wa ta'alaa) is the only one I am relying on and depending on for this to happen. It is all in Allah's hands (subhanu wa ta'alaa). I am turning to Allah and have always been turning and facing to Allah (subhanu wa ta'alaa). :laila:
I pray all the 5 prayers everyday and each sunnah before or after each salat. I read Quran and recite surat from Quran and say duas that I know of. :SMILY23: :tti_sister:
What are the best things to do and best dua and what to say? When is the best time to call to Allah and make dua?

I would like both text and audio files of dua and prayers. I would like them in Arabic language please...and if possible have translation and transliteration.

I have looked all over youtube and did not find any dua.

Please pray and make dua for me.

:tti_sister:

:jazaak:

assalam-o-alaikum dear sister i realy hurt to read about u:girl3: may ALLAH swt help u HE swt is very RAHMAN and RAHEEM HE is who can help u keep praying inshallah ALLAH swt will help u my prayers with u :tti_sister:
 

Abu Ameerah

Junior Member
Only thru prayers can help you and those who are like you. Oh Allah grant them righteous children, and all those who do not have children yet, you are the creator of all that exist in this World, ameen.
 

WithAllahsPowers

WE ARE PROTECTED
one day i decided to start fasting thursdays after reading how important and rewarding thursday and monday fasting is.

i fast one thursday then i was not able to fast that following week. then because i didnt fast that following week, i forgot to fast the week after and everytime i remembered it was not wednesday nor thursday. i got upset but i knew Allah knew my intention.

that thursday that i prayed and made dua and fast, it was amazing and felt blessings. i broke my fast i think it was just after 8pm. long hours but i felt happy.

i recently found out i was pregnant. i didnt say anything to anyone nor my family members because when i fall pregnant i end up having miscarriage.

but so far, its the longest pregnancy that is successful since trying to conceive last year.

all that i believe is the fasting i made on thursday. because after thursday, i felt so much changed. not sure why but it did. until now, i wish to fast but im scared for the baby because of previous miscarriages.

i am also very upset because i might not be able to fast ramadan. not sure of my due date yet. what if i just give birth before ramadan, what if im still pregnant in ramadan and in my last month and too hard for me to fast etc. i get upset.

i know allah knows im pregnant but i tried to conceive last year straight after ramamdan so i can fast ramadan this year.

anyway, i will always make dua for all my sisters in islam. for now, try fasting, try. it may work it may not but you will still be getting great rewards.
 

Idris16

Junior Member
Bismillâh
This is translated in Swedish but inshâAllah I will translate for you tommorow or another day unless you don't understand Arabic, or if someone else translate Arabic to English.

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sh.muzi

New Member
Salaaams All,

i am new to this forum and would like to welcome myself. I am having infertility problems and trying to conceive for the past 4 years but unable to do so. Alhumdulillah i have no problems (such as blocked tubes etc) its just unexplained infertility. I am undergoing several treatments but that too failed on 3-4 attempts.

I would like to believe that this is a testing period from Allah for us and that we should be patient and devote our time and ourselves to him in all manner.

I want to know if there is any particular dua, or prayers that can be made for this purpose. If its in Arabic and has an English translation it would really be helpful.

Secondly, i want ask while fasting, is it ok to have these medical injections for infertility? These are hormone injections are for ovulation purposes only. By taking these does my fast become invalid? Would appreciate some clarity on this as soon as possible.

Please brothers and sisters, please pray and make dua for us for shall Allah not leave us without any pious children.

jazakallah.
 

Farah786

New Member
:salam2:

My sisters and brothers in Islam, I have infertility problems and not able to conceive and become pregnant and I need your help. I am looking for dua / prayers / supplications (دعاء لانجاب الاطفال) (دعاء الاعجاز للحمل) (دعاء للحمل) that I can recite for to Allah to help me to conceive and become pregnant and have a baby.
I am very sad and going through a very hard time and do not like to do things that I used to like to do before. :SMILY23:
I am not depending on doctors or anyone else for treatments, Allah (subhanu wa ta'alaa) is the only one I am relying on and depending on for this to happen. It is all in Allah's hands (subhanu wa ta'alaa). I am turning to Allah and have always been turning and facing to Allah (subhanu wa ta'alaa). :laila:
I pray all the 5 prayers everyday and each sunnah before or after each salat. I read Quran and recite surat from Quran and say duas that I know of. :SMILY23: :tti_sister:
What are the best things to do and best dua and what to say? When is the best time to call to Allah and make dua?

I would like both text and audio files of dua and prayers. I would like them in Arabic language please...and if possible have translation and transliteration.

I have looked all over youtube and did not find any dua.

Please pray and make dua for me.

:tti_sister:

:jazaak:

Salatul Haja is simple. Make a fresh Wudu with an intent for this prayer and make it well, then pray two rakaat prayer, reading whatever you like (some prefer the Kaferoon in first, and the Ikhlas in the second). After you finish, make a good tasbeeh "Subhan Allah" and Hamd "AlHamdolellah" and Takbeer "Allaho Akbar" and of course a good salat and praise on the prophet -pbuh-, then lift your hands in supplication and say the following:

لا إِلَهَ إِلا اللَّهُ الْحَلِيمُ الْكَرِيمُ سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ رَبِّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ أَسْأَلُكَ مُوجِبَاتِ رَحْمَتِكَ وَعَزَائِمَ مَغْفِرَتِكَ وَالْغَنِيمَةَ مِنْ كُلِّ بِرٍّ وَالسَّلامَةَ مِنْ كُلِّ إِثْمٍ لا تَدَعْ لِي ذَنْبًا إِلا غَفَرْتَهُ وَلا هَمًّا إِلا فَرَّجْتَهُ وَلا حَاجَةً هِيَ لَكَ رِضًا إِلا قَضَيْتَهَا يَا أَرْحَمَ الرَّاحِمِينَ
La ilaha ilAllahul Halimul Karim. SubhanAllahi Rabbil 'rshil adheem. Alhamdulilahi Rabbil 'alameen. As'aluka mujibaati rahmatik. Wa aza'ima magh-firatik. Wal ghanimata min kulli birr. Was salamata min kuuli ithm. La tada' li dhamban illa ghafartah. Wa la hamman illa far-rajtah. Wa la hajatan hiya laka ridan illa qadaytaha. Ya arhamar rahimin.

"There there no god but Allah the Clement and Wise. There is no god but Allah the High and Mighty. Glory be to Allah, Lord of the Tremendous Throne. All praise is to Allah, Lord of the worlds. I ask you (O Allah) everything that leads to your mercy, and your tremendous forgiveness, enrichment in all good, and freedom from all sin. Do not leave a sin of mine (O Allah), except that you forgive it, nor any concern except that you create for it an opening, nor any need in which there is your good pleasure except that you fulfill it, O Most Merciful!"

And then mention your need and desire (Haja), and add whatever supplications you like after that. You can use the duaa mentioned in my post above.

As for Umammar post, the quran verses are the verses that say if you make Isteghfar God will forgive your sins insha Allah and provide you with money and children. The verses themselves aren't a Duaa, but the gist of it is that you need to make isteghfar a lot, along with Hamd. Here are a few good ones:

The master of Istighfar:
اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي لا إِلَهَ إِلا أَنْتَ خَلَقْتَنِي وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ وَأَبُوءُ لَكَ بِذَنْبِي فَاغْفِرْ لِي فَإِنَّهُ لا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ إِلا أَنْتَ
Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa Anta Khalaqtani wa ana abduka, wa ana 'ala ahdika wa wa'dika mastata'tu, A'udhu bika min Sharri ma sana'tu, abu'u Laka bini'matika 'alaiya, wa Abu'u Laka bidhanbi faghfirli fainnahu la yaghfiru adhdhunuba illa anta

O Allah! You are my Lord! None has the right to be worshipped but You. You created me and I am Your slave, and I am faithful to my covenant and my promise as much as I can. I seek refuge with You from all the evil I have done. I acknowledge before You all the blessings You have bestowed upon me, and I confess to You all my sins. So I entreat You to forgive my sins, for nobody can forgive sins except You.

The Duaa of Younis -Alayhee Assalam- in the belly of the Whale:
لَّا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنتَ سُبْحَانَكَ إِنِّي كُنتُ مِنَ الظَّالِمِينَ
La illaha illa Anta Subhanak, inni kuntu min adh-dhalimeen
There is no God but You; Glory be to You, Truly I have been one of the wrongdoers

Then there is:
أسْتَغْفِرُ اللّهَ الْعَظِيمَ الَّذِي لا إلَهَ إلَّا هُوَ الْحَيُّ الْقَيُّومُ وأتوب إليه
Astaghfer ullaha AlAAtheema Allathee la 'Elaha 'Ella howa alHHayyo olqayyoomo wa'atoobo 'elayh
I seek the Forgiveness of Allah the Great, the one who there is no god but He,-the Living, the Self-subsisting, and repent to Him.

As for debts, there are other duaa's for debt than specifically the one for children. But Isteghfar and Hamd and an honest believing pious heart is important for both provisions, whether it is getting out of debt or being blessed with wealth and children.

And may God grant you what you need
:wasalam:
 

Misbah2012

New Member
:salam2:
helwa &sh.muzi
I'm in the same boat as you. Me trying to conceive for 12 years, but indeed. i have followed so many treatment, change doctor... the doctors told me that i will conceive..... BUT still nothing
 

Ayyub

Junior Member
Assalamou Alaikoum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh

Sisters what we need to be is to be a patient. We are not the only ones that Allah is testing with this trial. When we read the Quran we find that a few Porphets alayhim salam were tested with the same trial.
There is for example Ibrahim alayhi assalam and Zacharia alayhi assalam. Both these Prophets alayhum salam had the probelem that their wifes radhiallahu anhum couldn't bear a child.

So let's see how Allah nevertheless awarded them with children.

Here is the dua of Zacharia alahi salam from the quran:

سُوۡرَةُ آل عِمرَان
فَتَقَبَّلَهَا رَبُّهَا بِقَبُولٍ حَسَنٍ۬ وَأَنۢبَتَهَا نَبَاتًا حَسَنً۬ا وَكَفَّلَهَا زَكَرِيَّا*!ۖ كُلَّمَا دَخَلَ عَلَيۡهَا زَكَرِيَّا ٱلۡمِحۡرَابَ وَجَدَ عِندَهَا رِزۡقً۬ا*!ۖ قَالَ يَـٰمَرۡيَمُ أَنَّىٰ لَكِ هَـٰذَا*!ۖ قَالَتۡ هُوَ مِنۡ عِندِ ٱللَّهِ*!ۖ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ يَرۡزُقُ مَن يَشَآءُ بِغَيۡرِ حِسَابٍ (٣٧) هُنَالِكَ دَعَا زَڪَرِيَّا رَبَّهُ ۥ*!ۖ قَالَ رَبِّ هَبۡ لِى مِن لَّدُنكَ ذُرِّيَّةً۬ طَيِّبَةً*!ۖ إِنَّكَ سَمِيعُ ٱلدُّعَآءِ (٣٨) فَنَادَتۡهُ ٱلۡمَلَـٰٓٮِٕكَةُ وَهُوَ قَآٮِٕمٌ۬ يُصَلِّى فِى ٱلۡمِحۡرَابِ أَنَّ ٱللَّهَ يُبَشِّرُكَ بِيَحۡيَىٰ مُصَدِّقَۢا بِكَلِمَةٍ۬ مِّنَ ٱللَّهِ وَسَيِّدً۬ا وَحَصُورً۬ا وَنَبِيًّ۬ا مِّنَ ٱلصَّـٰلِحِينَ (٣٩) قَالَ رَبِّ أَنَّىٰ يَكُونُ لِى غُلَـٰمٌ۬ وَقَدۡ بَلَغَنِىَ ٱلۡڪِبَرُ وَٱمۡرَأَتِى عَاقِرٌ۬*!ۖ قَالَ كَذَٲلِكَ ٱللَّهُ يَفۡعَلُ مَا يَشَآءُ (٤٠) قَالَ رَبِّ ٱجۡعَل لِّىٓ ءَايَةً۬*!ۖ قَالَ ءَايَتُكَ أَلَّا تُڪَلِّمَ ٱلنَّاسَ ثَلَـٰثَةَ أَيَّامٍ إِلَّا رَمۡزً۬ا*!ۗ وَٱذۡكُر رَّبَّكَ ڪَثِيرً۬ا وَسَبِّحۡ بِٱلۡعَشِىِّ وَٱلۡإِبۡڪَـٰرِ (٤١)

So her Lord accepted her with good acceptance and caused her to grow in a good manner and put her in the care of Zechariah. Every time Zechariah entered upon her in the prayer chamber, he found with her provision. He said, "O Mary, from where is this [coming] to you?" She said, "It is from Allah . Indeed, Allah provides for whom He wills without account."

At that, Zechariah called upon his Lord, saying, "My Lord, grant me from Yourself a good offspring. Indeed, You are the Hearer of supplication."

So the angels called him while he was standing in prayer in the chamber, "Indeed, Allah gives you good tidings of John, confirming a word from Allah and [who will be] honorable, abstaining [from women], and a prophet from among the righteous."

He said, "My Lord, how will I have a boy when I have reached old age and my wife is barren?" The angel said, "Such is Allah ; He does what He wills."

He said, "My Lord, make for me a sign." He Said, "Your sign is that you will not [be able to] speak to the people for three days except by gesture. And remember your Lord much and exalt [Him with praise] in the evening and the morning."


سُوۡرَةُ مَریَم
ذِكۡرُ رَحۡمَتِ رَبِّكَ عَبۡدَهُ ۥ زَڪَرِيَّآ (٢) إِذۡ نَادَىٰ رَبَّهُ ۥ نِدَآءً خَفِيًّ۬ا (٣) قَالَ رَبِّ إِنِّى وَهَنَ ٱلۡعَظۡمُ مِنِّى وَٱشۡتَعَلَ ٱلرَّأۡسُ شَيۡبً۬ا وَلَمۡ أَڪُنۢ بِدُعَآٮِٕكَ رَبِّ شَقِيًّ۬ا (٤) وَإِنِّى خِفۡتُ ٱلۡمَوَٲلِىَ مِن وَرَآءِى وَڪَانَتِ ٱمۡرَأَتِى عَاقِرً۬ا فَهَبۡ لِى مِن لَّدُنكَ وَلِيًّ۬ا (٥) يَرِثُنِى وَيَرِثُ مِنۡ ءَالِ يَعۡقُوبَ*!ۖ وَٱجۡعَلۡهُ رَبِّ رَضِيًّ۬ا (٦) يَـٰزَڪَرِيَّآ إِنَّا نُبَشِّرُكَ بِغُلَـٰمٍ ٱسۡمُهُ ۥ يَحۡيَىٰ لَمۡ نَجۡعَل لَّهُ ۥ مِن قَبۡلُ سَمِيًّ۬ا (٧) قَالَ رَبِّ أَنَّىٰ يَكُونُ لِى غُلَـٰمٌ۬ وَڪَانَتِ ٱمۡرَأَتِى عَاقِرً۬ا وَقَدۡ بَلَغۡتُ مِنَ ٱلۡڪِبَرِ عِتِيًّ۬ا (٨) قَالَ كَذَٲلِكَ قَالَ رَبُّكَ هُوَ عَلَىَّ هَيِّنٌ۬ وَقَدۡ خَلَقۡتُكَ مِن قَبۡلُ وَلَمۡ تَكُ شَيۡـًٔ۬ا (٩) قَالَ رَبِّ ٱجۡعَل لِّىٓ ءَايَةً۬*!ۚ قَالَ ءَايَتُكَ أَلَّا تُكَلِّمَ ٱلنَّاسَ ثَلَـٰثَ لَيَالٍ۬ سَوِيًّ۬ا (١٠) فَخَرَجَ عَلَىٰ قَوۡمِهِۦ مِنَ ٱلۡمِحۡرَابِ فَأَوۡحَىٰٓ إِلَيۡہِمۡ أَن سَبِّحُواْ بُكۡرَةً۬ وَعَشِيًّ۬ا (١١)

A mention of the mercy of thy Lord unto His servant Zachariah. (2) When he cried unto his Lord a cry in secret, (3) Saying: My Lord! Lo! the bones of me wax feeble and my head is shining with grey hair, and I have never been unblest in prayer to Thee, my Lord. (4) Lo! I fear my kinsfolk after me, since my wife is barren. Oh, give me from Thy presence a successor (5) Who shall inherit of me and inherit (also) of the house of Jacob. And make him, my Lord, acceptable (unto Thee). (6) (It was said unto him): O Zachariah! Lo! We bring thee tidings of a son whose name is John; we have given the same name to none before (him). (7) He said: My Lord! How can I have a son when my wife is barren and I have reached infirm old age? (8) He said: So (it will be). Thy Lord saith: It is easy for Me, even as I created thee before, when thou wast naught. (9) He said: My Lord! Appoint for me some token. He said: Thy token is that thou, with no bodily defect, shalt not speak unto mankind three nights. (10) Then he came forth unto his people from the sanctuary, and signified to them: Glorify your Lord at break of day and fall of night. (11)



سُوۡرَةُ الاٴنبیَاء
وَزَڪَرِيَّآ إِذۡ نَادَىٰ رَبَّهُ ۥ رَبِّ لَا تَذَرۡنِى فَرۡدً۬ا وَأَنتَ خَيۡرُ ٱلۡوَٲرِثِينَ (٨٩) فَٱسۡتَجَبۡنَا لَهُ ۥ وَوَهَبۡنَا لَهُ ۥ يَحۡيَىٰ وَأَصۡلَحۡنَا لَهُ ۥ زَوۡجَهُ ۥۤ*!ۚ إِنَّهُمۡ ڪَانُواْ يُسَـٰرِعُونَ فِى ٱلۡخَيۡرَٲتِ وَيَدۡعُونَنَا رَغَبً۬ا وَرَهَبً۬ا*!ۖ وَڪَانُواْ لَنَا خَـٰشِعِينَ (٩٠)

And Zachariah, when he cried unto his Lord: My Lord! Leave me not childless, though Thou art the best of inheritors. (89) Then We heard his prayer, and bestowed upon him John, and adjusted his wife (to bear a child) for him. Lo! they used to vie one with the other in good deeds, and they cried unto Us in longing and in fear, and were submissive unto Us.

Then we have the example of Ibrahim alayhi salam whome Allah subhanahu wa ta'la granted a child in high age due to his and his wife's patience.


Allah says in surah Ibrahim where Ibrahim alayhi salam praises Allah for giving him not one but two children.

سُوۡرَةُ إبراهیم
ٱلۡحَمۡدُ لِلَّهِ ٱلَّذِى وَهَبَ لِى عَلَى ٱلۡكِبَرِ إِسۡمَـٰعِيلَ وَإِسۡحَـٰقَ*!ۚ إِنَّ رَبِّى لَسَمِيعُ ٱلدُّعَآءِ (٣٩)

Praise be to Allah Who hath given me, in my old age, Ishmael and Isaac! Lo! my Lord is indeed the Hearer of Prayer. (39)


وعلى المسلم في جميع الحالات أن يرضى بقضاء الله وقدره ولو بقي عقيما طيلة عمره ولربما كان صبره خيرا له من الولد ، وكل قضاء الله خير وكلّ أقداره حكمة وكلّ شيء بمشيئته وأمره سبحانه

it is up to every muslim to accept Allahs subhanahu wa ta'alaas wil weather he or she likes it or not. And who knows maybe the patience of Allahs slave maybe be better than for the slave to receive a child.

Allah says:
سُوۡرَةُ الشّوریٰ

لِّلَّهِ مُلۡكُ ٱلسَّمَـٰوَٲتِ وَٱلۡأَرۡضِ*!ۚ يَخۡلُقُ مَا يَشَآءُ*!ۚ يَہَبُ لِمَن يَشَآءُ إِنَـٰثً۬ا وَيَهَبُ لِمَن يَشَآءُ ٱلذُّكُورَ (٤٩) أَوۡ يُزَوِّجُهُمۡ ذُكۡرَانً۬ا وَإِنَـٰثً۬ا*!ۖ وَيَجۡعَلُ مَن يَشَآءُ عَقِيمًا*!ۚ إِنَّهُ ۥ عَلِيمٌ۬ قَدِيرٌ۬ (٥٠)

Unto Allah belongeth the Sovereignty of the heavens and the earth. He createth what He will. He bestoweth female (offspring) upon whom He will, and bestoweth male (offspring) upon whom He will; (49) Or He mingleth them, males and females, and He maketh barren whom He will. Lo! He is Knower, Powerful. (50) And it was not (vouchsafed) to any mortal that Allah should speak to him unless (it be) by revelation or from behind a veil, or (that) He sendeth a messenger to reveal what He will by His leave. Lo! He is Exalted, Wise.

Sisters ask Allah as much as possible which means make dua as much as possible. And don't forget to make quiam al layl.

:wasalam:
 

Precious Star

Junior Member
one day i decided to start fasting thursdays after reading how important and rewarding thursday and monday fasting is.

i fast one thursday then i was not able to fast that following week. then because i didnt fast that following week, i forgot to fast the week after and everytime i remembered it was not wednesday nor thursday. i got upset but i knew Allah knew my intention.

that thursday that i prayed and made dua and fast, it was amazing and felt blessings. i broke my fast i think it was just after 8pm. long hours but i felt happy.

i recently found out i was pregnant. i didnt say anything to anyone nor my family members because when i fall pregnant i end up having miscarriage.

but so far, its the longest pregnancy that is successful since trying to conceive last year.

all that i believe is the fasting i made on thursday. because after thursday, i felt so much changed. not sure why but it did. until now, i wish to fast but im scared for the baby because of previous miscarriages.

i am also very upset because i might not be able to fast ramadan. not sure of my due date yet. what if i just give birth before ramadan, what if im still pregnant in ramadan and in my last month and too hard for me to fast etc. i get upset.

i know allah knows im pregnant but i tried to conceive last year straight after ramamdan so i can fast ramadan this year.

anyway, i will always make dua for all my sisters in islam. for now, try fasting, try. it may work it may not but you will still be getting great rewards.

This is good news. Fasting is good on Thursday's, but you should also know that you probably would have become pregnant anyway. Your child was destined to come into this world. And that is why so many of us spend our lifetime .. 20 yrs ... praying for children and it never happens -- because it is not written for us.
 

Precious Star

Junior Member
Salam Sister,

Sabr should be the basis on your Dua and relying totally on ALLAH [swt]

Of course. I have sabr because I'm not going out and grabbing anyone who can father a child for me. And of course I rely on Allah. My family and friends and community certainly are not helping me meet a husband. But Allah does not make husbands fall from the sky, and aside from Maryam there is no such thing as a virgin birth. If Allah has not given me a family, then I have my answer and must be satisfied with it.
 

mohalim

New Member
Assalam

Dua from Holy Quran.

Prophet Zakariya supplicated to Allah swt to grant him offspring.

"My Lord, do not leave me alone [with no heir], while you are the best of inheritors." (21:89)

"My Lord, grant me from Yourself a good offspring. Indeed, You are the Hearer of supplication." (3:38)
 
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