a few questions on various things

kayleigh

Junior Member
Salaam alaikum,

I'm engaged and I've recently run into a few, small problems with my fiancé. He usually tends to think that he must always be right when it comes to Islam because he was raised in a Muslim family, so he'll only let my questioning of his answers go so far until he resorts to the "because I said so" line. The only thing that could possibly change his mind is any evidence from the Qur'an or any hadith. So if anyone here knows of hadith or verses that would pertain to these two issues, I would greatly appreciate it.

1. Changing names - He insists that I have to change my names to be a "real" Muslim because it says so in the Qur'an - does it say this, and if so, where? I also thought there were cases where the companions of the Prophet (pbuh) kept their names upon conversion. Is there any hadith, evidence from the Qur'an, or statements from scholars supporting either side of this (changing vs. keeping the name)?

2. Sunnah prayers - I've been taught to pray the fard rakats (2 for fajr, etc.), and whenever I go to the mosque or over the homes of other Muslims, they don't pray Sunnah prayers. From everything I've read, praying the fard satisfies the requirement. Is this wrong? He says that if I don't pray the Sunnah prayers it's a sin. Sometimes times I do, but I have a back problem from my childhood that flares up quite often and it's extremely hard to do the fard prayers - Sunnah prayers would be out of the question. He also says that you are only excused from the Sunnah prayers if you're making up a missed prayer or are in a hurry or are traveling. Is this true?

3. Making up prayers - I've been taught and have read that to make up a missed prayer, you should pray the whole thing before the one that you're making on time. He says that to make up each missed prayer, you just do two rakats. Is this true?

4. Handling of the Qur'an - I've heard different opinions on this, so perhaps this is a difference in madhabs, but if a woman is menstruating, is she even
allowed to touch a translation of the Qur'an - one without any Arabic in it at all (just in English or Urdu, in my case)?

Perhaps I shouldn't be, but ever since he told me that he thought women still had to pray during menstruation, I've been a bit skeptical of what he tells me about certain things.

Thanks for your help.
 

eemaan1

Junior Member
:salam2:


looooooooooooool, pardom me dint mean to wet myself! pray during menstruation!!!!!:blackhijab:

sister u r rigtht to qn him and educate uaself

u dont hav to change ua name unless it has a bad meaning.

i'm afradi i dont hav enough ilm to ans the other qns with dalil.

so hopefully som1 else will com 2 ua resque inshaallaah
 

Mohsin

abdu'Allah
Assalamu-alaikum

:salam2:

Dear Sister,
Here are the answers for the 1st, 3rd and 4th question. I will try to find the other ones as well or maybe some other brother or sister will do that, inshaAllah.

1st http://www.islamqa.com/index.php?ref=372&ln=eng

3rd http://www.islamqa.com/index.php?ref=49019&ln=eng

4th http://www.islamqa.com/index.php?ref=4643&ln=eng

http://www.islamqa.com/index.php?ref=2564&ln=eng (This one is not exactly about handling a translation of Quran but I will try to get the exact one soon, inshaAllah)

P.S. As for the 2nd question, sister I think it would be better if you write to ISLAM QA yourself because I think you have a specific reason for doing that i.e. your back pain.

Hope that you will find the above links helpful, inshaAllah
 

newusman

Muslim
1. Changing names - He insists that I have to change my names to be a "real" Muslim because it says so in the Qur'an - does it say this, and if so, where? I also thought there were cases where the companions of the Prophet (pbuh) kept their names upon conversion. Is there any hadith, evidence from the Qur'an, or statements from scholars supporting either side of this (changing vs. keeping the name)?

Obligation of changing one's name upon accepting Islaam

Question: http://islamqa.com/index.php?ref=372&ln=eng&txt=changing names
Is it mandatory for one who newly embraces Islaam to change his or her name?

Answer:

al-hamdu lillaah.

He or she is not required to change his or her name unless it embodies the worship of someone or something other then God, Allaah. However, its amelioration by choosing a new Islamic name is legitimate and encouraged. The fact that he or she would change his or her name from a pagan or non-Islamic name to an Islamic one would be considered commendable--however, it is not mandatory.

Thus, if one's name is Abdul-Messiah, for example, or similar such names, then he is obligated to change it, as the Prophet (peace upon him) had people with the names Abdul-Ka'bah and Abdul-Uzzah change their names upon accepting Islaam.

If the original name does not comprise or imply anything forbidden in Islaam, then he or she is permitted to retain it (such as the name George, for example). As noted, though, it is preferable to change it to an Islaamic name, as this also distinguishes him or her from the kuffaar.

Note that if changing one's name in official documents and records poses a great inconvenience, it would suffice to change it among the people. In this case, he or she is called by his or her new name by friends, acquaintances, and the general public, while offical documents would retain the original given name.


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2. Sunnah prayers - I've been taught to pray the fard rakats (2 for fajr, etc.), and whenever I go to the mosque or over the homes of other Muslims, they don't pray Sunnah prayers. From everything I've read, praying the fard satisfies the requirement. Is this wrong? He says that if I don't pray the Sunnah prayers it's a sin. Sometimes times I do, but I have a back problem from my childhood that flares up quite often and it's extremely hard to do the fard prayers - Sunnah prayers would be out of the question. He also says that you are only excused from the Sunnah prayers if you're making up a missed prayer or are in a hurry or are traveling. Is this true?

3. Making up prayers - I've been taught and have read that to make up a missed prayer, you should pray the whole thing before the one that you're making on time. He says that to make up each missed prayer, you just do two rakats. Is this true?

Follwing website has alot of answers regarding prayer, inshAllah you will find an answer to your question,& if not then you can ask them.
http://islamqa.com/index.php?cref=266&ln=eng

4. Handling of the Qur'an - I've heard different opinions on this, so perhaps this is a difference in madhabs, but if a woman is menstruating, is she even
allowed to touch a translation of the Qur'an - one without any Arabic in it at all (just in English or Urdu, in my case)?

Perhaps I shouldn't be, but ever since he told me that he thought women still had to pray during menstruation, I've been a bit skeptical of what he tells me about certain things.
Reading Qur’aan during menses

Question: http://islamqa.com/index.php?ref=2564&ln=eng
Is it permissible to read Quran while a women is having mensus (periods)?

Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.

This is one of the issues on which the scholars, may Allaah have mercy on them, differed.

The majority of fuqahaa’ say that it is haraam for a woman to recite Qur’aan during her period, until she is taahir (pure) again. The only exceptions they make is in the case of dhikr (remembrance of Allaah) and phrases that are not intended as tilaawah (recitation), such as saying “Bismillaahi’r-Rahmaani’r-Raheem” or “Innaa Lillaahi wa innaa ilayhi raaji’oon”, or other phrases from the Qur’aan which are repeated as general du’aa’s.

They base their evidence for forbidding menstruating women to recite Qur’aan on several things, including the following:

1.

Menstruation is seen as coming under the rulings that apply to one who is junub (in a state of impurity following sexual intercourse), because both states require ghusl. This is based on the hadeeth narrated by ‘Ali ibn Abi Taalib (may Allaah be pleased with him), according to which the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to teach the Qur’aan and he never prevented anyone from learning it except those who were in a state of janaabah (impurity).” (Reported by Abu Dawood, 1/281; al-Tirmidhi, 146; al-Nisaa’i, 1/144; Ibn Maajah, 1/207; Ahmad, 1/84; Ibn Khuzaymah [??], 1/104. Al-Tirmidhi said: a saheeh hasan hadeeth. Al-Haafiz ibn Hajar said: the truth is that it is the type of hasan hadeeth that could be used as evidence).
2.

The hadeeth of Ibn ‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with them both), according to which the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The menstruating woman and the one who is in a state of impurity (janaabah) should not recite anything of the Qur’aan.” (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, 131; Ibn Maajah, 595; al-Daaraqutni (1/117); al-Bayhaqi, 1/89. This is a da’eef hadeeth, because it was reported by Ismaa’eel ibn ‘Ayyaash from the Hijaazis, and his reports from them are da’eef as is well known to those who are conversant with the study of hadeeth. Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said (21/460): it is a da’eef hadeeth by the unanimous agreement of the scholars of hadeeth. See Nasb al-Raayah, 1/195; al-Talkhees al-Habeer, 1/183).

Some scholars say that it is permitted for a menstruating woman to recite Qur’aan. This is the opinion of Maalik, and one opinion narrated from Ahmad, which Ibn Taymiyah preferred and which al-Shawkaani believed to be correct. The scholars based the following points on this opinion:

1.

The principle is that things are allowed and permitted unless there is evidence to the contrary. There is no such evidence to say that a menstruating woman is not allowed to recite Qur’aan. Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said: “There is no clear, saheeh text to indicate that a menstruating woman is forbidden to recite Qur’aan… It is known that women used to menstruate at the time of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and he did not forbid them to recite Qur’aan, or to remember Allaah (dhikr) and offer du’aa’.”
2.

Allaah, may He be glorified and exalted, commands (Muslims) to recite Qur’aan. He praises the one who does so, and promises him (or her) a great reward. No one is excluded from this except the one concerning whom there is solid evidence (daleel), and there is no such evidence in the case of menstruating women, as stated above.
3.

The analogy between the menstruating woman and the one who is in a state of janaabah is made despite the fact that there are differences between them. The one who is in a state of janaabah has the option of removing the “barrier” by making ghusl, unlike the menstruating woman. A woman’s period usually lasts for some length of time, whereas the person who is in a state of janaabah is required to do ghusl when the time for prayer comes.
4.

Preventing a menstruating woman from reciting Qur’aan deprives her of the chance to earn reward, and it may make her forget something of the Qur’aan, or she may need to recite it for the purposes of teaching or learning.

From the above, it is clear that the evidence of those who allow a menstruating woman to recite Qur’aan is stronger. If a woman wants to err on the side of caution, she can limit her recitation to the passages which she is afraid of forgetting.

It is very important to note that what we have been discussing here is restricted to what a menstruating woman recites from memory. When it comes to reading from the Mus-haf (the Arabic text itself), a different rule applies. The correct view of the scholars is that it is forbidden to touch the mus-haf when one is in any kind of state of impurity, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “… which none can touch except the purified.” [al-Waaqi’ah 56:79]. In a letter to ‘Amr ibn Hazm, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) told the people of Yemen: “No one should touch the Qur’aan except one who is taahir (pure).” (Reported by Maalik, 1/199; al-Nisaa’i, 8/57; Ibn Hibbaan, 793; al-Bayhaqi, 1/87. Al-Haafiz ibn Hajar said: A group of scholars classed this hadeeth as saheeh because it is so well known. Al-Shaafi’i said: It is proven by them that it was a letter sent by the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). Ibn ‘Abd al-Barr said: “This letter is famous among the scholars of seerah, and is so well known among the scholars that it does not need an isnaad. It is like tawaatur because the people accepted and recognized it. Shaykh al-Albani said that its is saheeh. Al-Talkhees al-Habeer, 4/17. See also: Nasb al-Raayah, 1/196; Irwaa’ al-Ghaleel, 1/158).

(Haashiyat Ibn ‘Aabideen, 1/159; al-Majmoo’, 1/356; Kashshaaf al-Qinaa’, 1/147; al-Mughni, 3/461; Nayl al-Awtaar, 1/226; Majmoo’ al-Fataawaa, 21/460; al-Sharh al-Mumti’ li’l-Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen, 1/291)

And Allaah knows best.

Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
 

nazir

Junior Member
Aslaamu Alaykum,
It is not a sin to leave the Sunnah prayers, as they are not fard i.e. obligatory. But it is very highly encouraged to perform them.
Question:
Can I just pray the obligatory prayers only and skip the non-obligatory prayers.

Answer:
Praise be to Allaah.

Observing the naafil (supererogatory) prayers and offering them regularly is one of the greatest means of earning the love of Allaah and it brings Paradise and divine mercy. Al-Bukhaari narrated (6502) that Abu Hurayrah said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whosoever shows enmity to someone devoted to Me, I shall be at war with him. My servant draws not near to Me with anything more loved by Me than the religious duties I have enjoined upon him, and My servant continues to draw near to Me with supererogatory works so that I shall love him. When I love him I am his hearing with which he hears, his seeing with which he sees, his hand with which he strikes and his foot with which he walks. Were he to ask [something] of Me, I would surely give it to him, and were he to ask Me for refuge, I would surely grant him it. I do not hesitate about anything as much as I hesitate about [seizing] the soul of My faithful servant: he hates death and I hate hurting him.”

So the Muslim should be very ambitious and keen, and should not accept anything less than that; rather he should seek to carry out his religious duties completely and perfectly, as he is required to do with regard to his worldly duties.

However, if a Muslim restricts himself to doing only the obligatory duties, in prayer and in other matters, and does not fall short in any of that, there is no sin on him, even though neglecting the Sunnahs in general is something blameworthy according to the scholars and Imam Ahmad said: “Whoever does not pray Witr is a bad man whose testimony should not be accepted.”

Al-Bukhaari (46) and Muslim (110) narrated that Talhah ibn ‘Ubayd-Allaah said: A man came to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and when he drew close to him he asked him about Islam. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Five prayers each day and night.” He said: “Do I have to do anything else?” He said: “No, not unless you do it voluntarily.” And the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “And fasting Ramadaan.” He said: “Do I have to do anything else?” He said: “No, not unless you do it voluntarily.” And the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) told him about zakaah. He said: “Do I have to do anything else?” He said: “No, not unless you do it voluntarily.” The man left, saying, “By Allaah, I will not do any more than this or any less.” The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “He will succeed, if he is speaking the truth.”

Al-Nawawi said: This is to be understood as meaning that he did not offer naafil prayers and he did not omit any of the obligatory prayers. Such a person will undoubtedly be successful, even though his persisting in not offering Sunnah prayers is something blameworthy for which his testimony is to be rejected. But he is not sinning thereby, rather he will be successful and will attain salvation. And Allaah knows best.

Sharh Muslim, 1/121

It should be noted that the naafil prayers bring immense reward and great virtue. It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “The first of his deeds for which a person will be brought to account on the Day of Resurrection will be his prayer. If it is sound then he will have succeeded but if it is not sound then he will be lost and doomed. If anything is lacking from his obligatory prayers, the Lord will say: ‘Look and see whether My slave has any voluntary (prayers),’ and the shortfall from his obligatory prayers will be made up from that. Then all his deeds will be dealt with in like manner.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 413; Abu Dawood, 864; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.

And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever prays twelve rak’ahs each day and night, a house will be built for him in Paradise because of them.” Narrated by Muslim, 728

May Allaah help you to do your best and to say and do that which is good and true. And Allaah knows best.
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Mohsin

abdu'Allah
Assalamu-alaikum

:salam2:

Sometimes times I do, but I have a back problem from my childhood that flares up quite often and it's extremely hard to do the fard prayers - Sunnah prayers would be out of the question.

She cannot do rukoo’ and sujood when she prays

Question:
My question is about prayers.I hurt my back and hip in an accident some time ago and am now unable to bow down in rukoo and sujood.How may I say my salat?I feel very guilty and sad about this.However I have been advised not to bow down as it increase my injury.Please advise.
Jazaak allah.

Answer:

Praise be to Allaah.
Al-Bukhaari narrated in his Saheeh:
‘Imraan ibn Husayn said: “I had haemorrhoids and I asked the Messenger of Allaah
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(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) about that. He said, ‘Pray standing; if you cannot do that, then (pray) sitting; if you cannot do that then (pray) on your side.”
(Saheeh al-Bukhaari, 1066).
If you can stand up, then do not sit, unless that is too difficult for you. If you sit because it is too difficult to stand, you will still have the full reward.
Abu Moosa al-Ash’ari reported that the Prophet
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(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If a person gets sick or travels, he will have the same reward as when he was healthy or not travelling.”
(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 2834).
With regard to rukoo’ and sujood, you do not have to do them because you are not able to do them, since bowing would cause you harm. You should try to lean forward as much as you can for rukoo’ and sujood, making the sujood lower than the rukoo’ by nodding or gesturing. The Prophet
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(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Put your forehead on the ground if you can, otherwise use nods or gestures, and make your sujood lower than your rukoo’.”
Shaykh al-Albaani said: this was narrated by al-Tabaraani, al-Bazzaar, Ibn al-Sammaak in his hadeeth (67/2) and al-Bayhaqi. Its isnaad is saheeh as I explained in al-Saheehah (323). Sifat Salaat al-Nabi
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(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), p. 79.

Ibn Qudaamah said in the text of al-‘Umdah: “If a person is unable to do rukoo’ or sujood, he should indicate them by nods or gestures.” (al-‘Umdah Sharh al-‘Iddah, p. 126)
If you cannot even nod or gesture, then pray according to your situation; your rukoo’ and sujood could be by intention only, when you reach them and recite the appropriate adhkaar in them. Allaah burdens not a person beyond his scope and He has not laid upon you in religion any hardship. And Allaah knows best.

http://www.islamqa.com/index.php?ref=7522&ln=eng

P.S. Still its better that you write to them directly since rulings can be different in different cases.

Take care,
Ma'assalamu-alaikum
 

Bluegazer

Junior Member
Assalamu Alaikum sister kayleigh,


I think this thread shows that a person born into a Muslim family does not always have the correct information about certain rulings in Islam.


You should try to encourage your prospective husband to increase his knowledge about Islam. Try to do that in a mild way that doesn't provoke him.


Regards,

Bluegazer
 
Assalamu Alaikum sister kayleigh,


I think this thread shows that a person born into a Muslim family does not always have the correct information about certain rulings in Islam.


You should try to encourage your prospective husband to increase his knowledge about Islam. Try to do that in a mild way that doesn't provoke him.


Regards,

Bluegazer

i am 100% agree with brother bluegazer.

Now a days most of the muslim family dont have good/enough knowledge about islam.

For example my family!

may be there are 100 relatives i have but none of those go to pray or dont know how to pray exactly.

Allthough they are muslims.

People think if i am a muslim that means i have also a lot of knowledge about islam or non-muslim/a new muslim think that every araba has better knowledge about islam.

but its not true.
 
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