A QUESTION ABOUT THE PARADISE

[hayat84]

:salam2:
brothers and sisters,I hope you're ok.I have a question about the Paradise.
In the Holy Quran is written that when a good man dies,he will meet a pure bride in the Jannah,dressed with a green silk dress,hidden like a pearl in her refuge.
What should I believe?when my husband will die,will he meet another woman and not me?And what about me?When I'll die,will I remeet my husband in Jannah?(InshAllah wa ta'ala).I'm doubtful,cause I fear that when one day I will separate from my sweetheart,I'll be very sad,if I will not meet him never ever.Is there some hadith which threats about this argument?please give me advices to get happier and more faithful.:tti_sister:

 

[arzafar]

simply put, in jannah yo will get everything your heart desires.

 

[Abu Talib]

Will a woman be with her husband in Paradise?



Praise be to Allaah.

1.Yes, a woman will be with her husband in Paradise, and even with her children, sons and daughters, if they are Muslim. This is indicated by the aayah (interpretation of the meaning):

“And those who believe and whose offspring follow them in Faith, - to them shall We join their offspring, and We shall not decrease the reward of their deeds in anything.” [al-Toor 52:21]

It is also indicated by the du’aa’ of the angels who carry the Throne:

“Our Lord! And make them enter the ‘Adn (Eden) Paradise (everlasting Gardens) which you have promised them — and to the righteous among their fathers, their wives, and their offspring! Verily, You are the All-Mighty, the All-Wise” [Ghaafir 40:8 – interpretation of the meaning]

Ibn Katheer (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

“(This means) bring them together so that they may find delight in one another in neighbouring dwellings. This is like the aayah (interpretation of the meaning):

‘And those who believe and whose offspring follow them in Faith, - to them shall We join their offspring, and We shall not decrease the reward of their deeds in anything.’ [al-Toor 52:21] This means: We shall make them all equal in status so that they may find joy. This will not be by lowering the one who is higher in status until he is equal with the one who is lower; on the contrary, We shall raise the one who is lacking in good deeds and make them equal, as a bounty and a blessing from Us. Sa’eed ibn Jubair said: when the believer enters Paradise, he will ask about his father, son and brother and where they are. It will be said to him, they did not reach the same level of good deeds as you did. He will say, But I only strove for my sake and for theirs. Then they will be brought to join him on the level where he is.”

(Tafseer Ibn Katheer, 4/73)

2. We do not think that anyone who Allaah has decreed will enter Paradise and have all trace of hatred taken away from them will choose to be separated from a loved one when he or she meets them in the Hereafter.

3. If a woman does not get married in this world, Allaah will grant her a spouse in whom she will find delight in Paradise. The joys of Paradise are not limited only to males – they are for males and females alike, and part of that joy is marriage.”

(Majmoo’ Fataawaa Ibn ‘Uthaymeen, 2/53), There will be no single people in Paradise.
Islamqa

 

[Ayyub]

:salam2:

Praise be to Allah!
Yes you will be married with your husband in jannah too.

The Prophet (sallallaho alaihi wasallam) has said: "O women, the pious among you will enter Paradise before pious men. When the husbands will enter Paradise these women will be presented to their husbands after being bathed and perfumed. These women will be on red and yellow coloured conveyances accompanied by children (as beautiful) as scattered pearls.

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Social Relationships

As for the remorse felt due to a rift in personal relationships, people will never hear any evil or hurting comments or speech in Paradise. They will only hear good words and words of peace. God says:

{They will not hear therein ill speech or commission of sin. But only the saying of: Peace! Peace!} [Quran 56:25-26]

There will be no enmity between people nor ill-feelings:

{And We shall remove from their breasts any (mutual) hatred or sense of injury (which they had, if at all, in the life of this world)…} [Quran 7:43]

The Prophet said:

«There will be no hatred or resentment among them, their hearts will be as one, and they will glorify God, morning and evening.» [Saheeh Al-Bukhari]

People will have the best of companions in the Hereafter, who were also the best people in the world:

{And whoever obeys God and the Messenger – those will be with the ones upon whom God has bestowed favor – of the prophets, the steadfast affirmers of truth, the martyrs and the righteous. And excellent are those as companions!} [Quran 4:69]

The hearts of the people of Paradise will be pure, their speech will be good, their deeds righteous. There will be no hurtful, upsetting, offensive or provocative talk there, for Paradise is free of all worthless words and deeds. If we were to discuss all the causes for anguish in this life, we would surely [/find its absence or opposite to be true in Paradise.

Even though your husband when he enters paradise will get a Hhor al ayn you won't feel jealousy cause the inhabitants of jannah don't have these feeling anymore.
But don't worry the beauty of a believing women from the Dunya surpasses even that of hoor al ayn and you will be the queen in your house and all of the hoor al ayn will be under you (ranking-wise).

Sheikh Said Rageah said in his lecture about paradise and hoor al ayn that the beauty of the Muslimah in jannah is like when her husband would see her when he is in the dunya his soul would leave his body cause of the beauty that his wife will have in jannah.
That means he would immediately die to be able to get to his wife.

I didn't said something wrong.
I hope you understand what I mean and that you will benefit from it.

 

[hayat84]

thank you very much,now I feel better,cause I don't know why,for an instant I had the sensation to get separated from my sweetheart.I had a strange sensation:I felt like if my time was coming to an end.

 

[Isra]

As salamo alaikome

This means if I make it to heaven (inshallah) I wont know anyone there. I will be alone and without anyone on this earth who has ever loved me or whom I have ever loved. How sad is that? I think of this topic often. I worry for my children and my parents (who have already died as non-Muslims). I know I shouldnt think of these things and just be grateful that Allah decided to guide me but my heart is torn and I cant even imagine what I will feel when that dreadful day comes.

 

[BrotherInIslam7]

As salamo alaikome

This means if I make it to heaven (inshallah) I wont know anyone there. I will be alone and without anyone on this earth who has ever loved me or whom I have ever loved. How sad is that? I think of this topic often. I worry for my children and my parents (who have already died as non-Muslims). I know I shouldnt think of these things and just be grateful that Allah decided to guide me but my heart is torn and I cant even imagine what I will feel when that dreadful day comes.

Walaykumsalaam waa rahmatullahi,

Sister, we are ourselves not guaranteed of paradise. A person can be devout all of his/her life and die in state of Kufr. May Allah subhaanahu waa ta'ala protect us from that. Ameen.

On the day of resurrection, we wouldn't be bothered of anyone other than ourselves. Let us reflect on Verses from Surah Abasa [80]

[80:33] But when there comes the Deafening Blast
[80:34] On the Day a man will flee from his brother
[80:35] And his mother and his father
[80:36] And his wife and his children
[80:37] For every man, that Day, will be a matter adequate for him.
(Tafsir al-Jalalayn for Verse 37
every person that day will have a matter to preoccupy him, a predicament to distract him from the affairs of others, in other words, every person will be preoccupied with his own self.)

 

[Ayyub]

As salamo alaikome

This means if I make it to heaven (inshallah) I wont know anyone there. I will be alone and without anyone on this earth who has ever loved me or whom I have ever loved. How sad is that? I think of this topic often. I worry for my children and my parents (who have already died as non-Muslims). I know I shouldnt think of these things and just be grateful that Allah decided to guide me but my heart is torn and I cant even imagine what I will feel when that dreadful day comes.

Well sister that's not completely true.
Only at the day of resurrection you will deny any realationship to anyone besides to your own self.
But nevertheless you know who your friends were and who your parents are.

How can you be alone in paradise when you are with all your believing brothers and sisters?Not to say that Adam,Nuh,Ibrahim,Musa,Isa and Muhammed (asws) will be there and Maryam,Khadija,Hawa,Fatima etc. (ra)will be there.

 

[Aapa]

Assalaam walaikum,

Sister, if Allah subhana talla grants me junnath out of His Mercy, I will be there Insha'Allah along with the other sisters from here. I don't know about you but I dream of seeing and playing with my TTI sisters and daughters. Do not dwell on the negative.
And we can not perdict what Allah subhana Wills. Stay strong for your children. Love them and teach them about the Truth.

 

[hayat84]

salam 'alikum,hoping me to enter in Jannah,where will my parents and grandparents go after their death?they aren't muslims...I don't know how to express myself,in the last days I'm having a strange sensation,I feel a whispear near my body and I feel tight in my big space.brothers and sisters,I need an ignection of trust and happiness,cause if I'm near to die,who wil I meet on the Otherside but Allah?will be I alone till the Day of Judgment?May Allah forgive me for my weakness.

 

[Ayyub]

:salam2:

Praise be to Allah
The deceased person’s soul will be restored to him; saheeh reports to that effect have been narrated from the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). The life of the deceased in the grave is different from his life in this world; it is a special kind of life in al-barzakh (the interval between his death and the Day of Resurrection) which is not like his life in this world, where he needs food and drink etc. It is a special kind of life wherein he can understand the questions and answers, so the two angels will ask him, Who is your Lord? What is your religion? Who is your Prophet?

The believer will say, My Lord is Allaah, Islam is my religion and Muhammad is my Prophet. This will be the answer of believing men and women. Then he will be asked, What do you know about this man (Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him))? He will say, He is the Messenger of Allaah. He brought us guidance and we believed in him and followed him. It will be said: we knew that you were a believer. Then a gate to Paradise will be opened for him, and he will feel its rest and provision and blessings. It will be said, This is your place until Allaah resurrects you to it. And he will be shown his place in Hell, and it will be said to him, This would have been your place if you had disbelieved in Allaah, but now Allaah has granted you refuge from it and you have ended up in Paradise.

As for the kaafir, he will be asked about his Lord and his religion and his Prophet, and he will say, Oh, oh, I don’t know, I heard the people saying something so I said the same. Then he will be beaten with an iron rod and will utter a scream that will be heard by all things apart from al-thaqalayn, i.e. jinn and men; the animals will hear it. Then a gate to Hell will be opened for him, and his grave will constrict until his ribs intermingle, and his grave will be like one of the pits of Hell. A gate to Hell will be opened for him and he will feel its heat and torment. It will be said, This is your place until Allaah resurrects you to it. Then a door to Paradise will be opened for him and he will be shown his place in Paradise, and it will be said to him, This would have been your place if Allaah had guided you.

From this we know that the grave will be either one of the gardens of Paradise or one of the pits of Hell. The torment or blessing will happen to the body as well as the soul in the grave, and also in the Hereafter, in either Paradise or Hell.

Hope it answers your question sister!

 

[hayat84]

well said,I've to trust to Allah,I always trust to Him,I feel light by that side:ma:,but there is a BUT,if I'll die,I'm sure that I'll leave my dears in tears,so that's why I asked if I would meet my dears in Jannah.Sometimes I feel very in love,but some other times I wish to get far from material feelings,cause one day I will suffer.:shymuslima1:

 

[weakslave]

As salamo alaikome

This means if I make it to heaven (inshallah) I wont know anyone there. I will be alone and without anyone on this earth who has ever loved me or whom I have ever loved. How sad is that? I think of this topic often. I worry for my children and my parents (who have already died as non-Muslims). I know I shouldnt think of these things and just be grateful that Allah decided to guide me but my heart is torn and I cant even imagine what I will feel when that dreadful day comes.

You are feeling sadness not because you won't see them then, but because you wish they had died upon faith. Because when all the scores are settled, the successful reside happily ever after in Paradise. With no regrets, nor sadness, nor discomfort, nor any feelings of negativity.

Ayoob 'alyhi assalaam was struck with an illness that lasted him many years, and it caused all of his friends to desert him, except for the most loyal. But even they started to dwindle, and after long years of suffering Allaah healed him and replaced his friends with those who were better, those who made him happy.

Always seek the best of company, and as sad as it maybe to lose old friends or family, that is simply Allaah's test for the patient and the most accepting of Allaah's will.