Neondragonfly
New Member
Assalamu alaikum!
I have a question for converts/reverts.
How did you come to terms with the total upheaval of your life between before islam and after saying your sahadah? How did you come to terms with not being able to hang out with your mates who are into clubbing and drinking?
How did you deal with your parents? How did they react?
I'm really sorry if this question(s) has offended anyone but I'm sure i'm not the only one who feels like I'm having to choose between Allah and my family and friends.
How should I make myself feel happier about the decision I've made to convert. I really want to please and worship Allah but does that mean I should be rid of all of my friends as well? How do I ensure that my relationship with my parents is protected as well. I was adopted at 14 and have only been with them for 13 years.
All advice will be appreciated.
Neon :shymuslima1:
I have a question for converts/reverts.
How did you come to terms with the total upheaval of your life between before islam and after saying your sahadah? How did you come to terms with not being able to hang out with your mates who are into clubbing and drinking?
How did you deal with your parents? How did they react?
I'm really sorry if this question(s) has offended anyone but I'm sure i'm not the only one who feels like I'm having to choose between Allah and my family and friends.
How should I make myself feel happier about the decision I've made to convert. I really want to please and worship Allah but does that mean I should be rid of all of my friends as well? How do I ensure that my relationship with my parents is protected as well. I was adopted at 14 and have only been with them for 13 years.
All advice will be appreciated.
Neon :shymuslima1: