AyeshaPS
A Mu'minah Wannabe!
Still not okay with it!It's human nature dude. First we do something wrong, then we don't want to admit it. Simple. Don't feel hurt by everything around you, some things we cannot change =)
Still not okay with it!It's human nature dude. First we do something wrong, then we don't want to admit it. Simple. Don't feel hurt by everything around you, some things we cannot change =)
I still do it, with women though, not with men! Only when it starts to get to me real bad though, I stare back, but I make sure I look away before I burst into a laughter!Then my younger brother gave us his formula of success - stare back at them until they look away.
Assalaamu `alaiki warahmatullaah. No dear, I wasn't panning to delete it. But, I am having a heard time understanding what your aim for the thread was... Are wondering "why" men stare? (No offense intended, just trying to understand)can delete it Ukht Janaan!
Assalaamu `alaiki warahmatullaah.
.A practical advice - I think as Muslimahs, we should be busy lowering our own gaze instead of noticing the creepy stares some men tend to send our ways
A practical advice - I think as Muslimahs, we should be busy lowering our own gaze instead of noticing the creepy stares some men tend to send our ways. They can look all they want, how will that harm our faith? We can do our best to keep them from looking by dressing appropriately before heading outside of the house but really, some men are just, simply put as a brother has said, perverts. It doesn't matter if you're practically wearing a tent and your eyes, feet and hands all covered - they'll still look. What we can do is work on ourselves and learn to look down at our toes when walking. Inshaa'Allaah eventually you won't even notice the stares because that's how insignificant they'll become to you.
Walaikumassalaam wa re barakatuhu.
Have you ever wondered how our mind just notices that somebody is staring at us? Yes. It has happened to me. Let's say for example, I have finished my breakfast in a food court, and I am going to wash my hands, I don't see (aface to face/ with my eyes directly) anyone staring at me, but somehow, my mind tells me that that guy sitting in the corner table is staring at me. And when I turn to look at him, that guy is actually staring! It is creepy. But, I testify in perfect state of mind that it has happened.
Peace
I have "systers" on my job and they are comitting sin because not wearing hijab. Salam from Croatia.Assalam Alaikum Warahmatullah Wabarakatuh!
Before I start, I want y'all to let me know if you don't like what I say or ask. You have EVERY right to criticize me or delete my post if you think it's inappropriate, and I would totally understand it!
I'm a hijabi. I wear really long and lose clothes and no makeup, I don't talk to men and I make sure I get the 'DON'T EVER TALK TO ME OR INTERACT WITH ME' message across and somehow I still end up getting the wrong kind of attraction. I remember this one time when I would get calls from 18 unknown numbers, apparently my contact number got leaked and the brothers in the institute kept passing it on to one another. It got impossible for me to eat or sleep or study because of the calls and messages I kept receiving 24/7. I changed my contact number and luckily I've only received one text from an unknown number so far!
I'm sure every girl has been through it but it gets me really worried at this point because I'll be joining a Med. College soon and while I was going through the college's fb page I came across some really inappropriate posts.
Anyway, my question to you brothers is, do you stare at sisters around? If you do, do you realize what a sin you're commiting? Do you realize what the girl goes through when you X-Ray scan her or pass comments over her?
I don't know if this really even is a question but I'm kind of worried sick so thought I'd pour over my concern here since it's pretty much impossible I'd meet anyone of you IRL so..