bad to have soft-corner for women?

[ahmed_indian]

:salam2:,

if there is a male and a female in need, i generally prefer to help the needy woman.

if a boy and girl falls off frm the bicycle, i think i'll have more sympathy towards the girl.

is it natural?

wht if someone says that its due to some evilness in the heart or some ill-intentions? could it be possible?

 

[dilek]

I dont see any evil in that intention.. because it is natural to feel more sympathy towards girls.. as everybody knows females need protection. While our Prophet giving advices he always said protect your wives, daughters, moms etc.., on the other hand he advised to females to be obedient.

 

[allah is with me]

i guess its natural...

 

[BinKhadija]

It's fine. It's natural, akhi. The Prophet (saw) asked to Respect women and Protect them (from those who are evil). Vulnerable people need more help than non-vulnerable. And, Allah’u Aalim.

I'd say please don't worry bro; this doubt in your or anyone's mind comes from none other than our old friend Shataan. By helping the sister in need, you will make Allah SWT happier. Try not to fret much about what people think of you. (Insha'Allah Ta'la.)

 

[Lookingforlight]

Its male nature- we were made that way by Allah SWT.

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

hey calm down girls do have a fagile out look.......................not ur fault to feel helpful for them over men.unless u do it to get soomthing that a sin .............but u already said u just wannaa help.so no tention.

 

[Mahzala]

Assalamualaikum

I hate to say this, but I think it depends on the type of woman also. Think about that, I'd rather not go into detail so as to not offend people.

May Allah save us from all evil InshaAllah.