:salam2:
my sister is in medical field ans aspiring to become a doctor inshallah, and Mashallah in her studies she is on the top, she got a scholarship that only a few few ppl get, she is by the grace of Allah really hard working and intelligent since her youngest age
she is also a person whi wills to be a good muslimah
these days my lil and unique sis is really going though a depression phase , me my father and mother, don't know what to do
living in a european country she is scared that becoming a doctor is bad, becuase u also check males, at leat during ur internships during studies, then u can move in another country and choose to check onyl females, that's what my sis originially thought she would do
but now she is terrorized at the idea of becoming doctor due to this
when she started in this field she did istikhara, my mom asked to some ppl if there is a problem to become a doctor in a european country and ppl said no and on the contrary they encouraged her , we thought sendibng her back in our country so she can continue her studies, but practically for many reasons, it's not possible, because she won't live without us, she doesn't know well the langage, and deson't know the scientific english, so it would waste some years if she tries to adjust, knowing that medical studies, are already really long
so my sis wants to give up, she doesn't know what to do, and we in the family don't know what to advise her
i know it can appear as a tiny problem to others, but it's really serious , my sis gave everytyhing to pass her years at school, never going out, we all in our family did sacrifices to give her the best family environment and support during her studies, so she can suceed and feel happy in her life
so my question to you is: is it haraam or not good to study medical in the west, because it implies u check men?
i would sincerely be very gratefull if anyone could answer this question based on proofs from scholars or even quran
till today i have always tried to explain her, that curing someone ill, whether it is a man and woman is good, and body is something made by Allah which can become ill, and that's normal that u go and consult a doctor when u don't feel well, but as i don't have any proofs to say it's ok, i don't say anything now
jazak allah all of you
my sister is in medical field ans aspiring to become a doctor inshallah, and Mashallah in her studies she is on the top, she got a scholarship that only a few few ppl get, she is by the grace of Allah really hard working and intelligent since her youngest age
she is also a person whi wills to be a good muslimah
these days my lil and unique sis is really going though a depression phase , me my father and mother, don't know what to do
living in a european country she is scared that becoming a doctor is bad, becuase u also check males, at leat during ur internships during studies, then u can move in another country and choose to check onyl females, that's what my sis originially thought she would do
but now she is terrorized at the idea of becoming doctor due to this
when she started in this field she did istikhara, my mom asked to some ppl if there is a problem to become a doctor in a european country and ppl said no and on the contrary they encouraged her , we thought sendibng her back in our country so she can continue her studies, but practically for many reasons, it's not possible, because she won't live without us, she doesn't know well the langage, and deson't know the scientific english, so it would waste some years if she tries to adjust, knowing that medical studies, are already really long
so my sis wants to give up, she doesn't know what to do, and we in the family don't know what to advise her
i know it can appear as a tiny problem to others, but it's really serious , my sis gave everytyhing to pass her years at school, never going out, we all in our family did sacrifices to give her the best family environment and support during her studies, so she can suceed and feel happy in her life
so my question to you is: is it haraam or not good to study medical in the west, because it implies u check men?
i would sincerely be very gratefull if anyone could answer this question based on proofs from scholars or even quran
till today i have always tried to explain her, that curing someone ill, whether it is a man and woman is good, and body is something made by Allah which can become ill, and that's normal that u go and consult a doctor when u don't feel well, but as i don't have any proofs to say it's ok, i don't say anything now
jazak allah all of you