confusion !!!!!

saima abdullah

my life iz 4 Allah
confusion !!!!!
asalam o alykum wr wb
dear sisters n brother, someone said to me that asking for duwa from others is consider to be begging, (according to some scholars) and to asking for little favors, i.e, if i ask my nephew to bring me water is like i beg from him,, i hope i made it clear:girl3: is it right ,,, ????????????
wsalam
 

Asja

Pearl of Islaam

Allaicomu saalam wa raahamtullah wa baakarakatuhu dear sister.

That is not truth dear sister.It is not begging Alahdmulillah,it is only shower of kindness towerd each others.

For example,if you mum asks you that you bring her water.Ofcourse that you will bring her water in this case which is good deed and shower of kindness and respect and love too,Alahdmulillah.Verily,Allah does not love those who overreact in anything.

I hope Inshallah I could answer good.:tti_sister:

:wasalam:
 

IHearIslam

make dua 4 ma finals
Asslamu Alaikum:D:D:D
HUG! dont be soo confused ya ukhti:):):):)

Naa, asking for dua is NOT begging...infact when a Muslim makes dua for HIS brother/sister that Dua is likely to be accepted by our Mercifull RAB!!!! it's a blessing and kindess between us MUSLIMS like my sweet sister said alrighty:D:D:D
and to asking for little favors
I am not sure about this one, but as the example provided by sister Asja...I dont think it's considered begging! but this is just my own opinion and Allah Azawajal knows best:D
Allah hafiz now and always:D:D:D:D:D
 

saima abdullah

my life iz 4 Allah
yes you made a point i read a hadith that one of most accepted duwa is one tha a Muslim do for his brother ,,,,subhab Allah
 

ahmed_indian

to Allah we belong

Allaicomu saalam wa raahamtullah wa baakarakatuhu dear sister.

That is not truth dear sister.It is not begging Alahdmulillah,it is only shower of kindness towerd each others.

For example,if you mum asks you that you bring her water.Ofcourse that you will bring her water in this case which is good deed and shower of kindness and respect and love too,Alahdmulillah.Verily,Allah does not love those who overreact in anything.

I hope Inshallah I could answer good.:tti_sister:

:wasalam:

yes, i too think same
 

fada_all

Junior Member
yes you made a point i read a hadith that one of most accepted duwa is one tha a Muslim do for his brother ,,,,subhab Allah



more excatly ukhti and the one who is making dou's is rewarded too ukhti because there an angel who is besides him when he ask somthing for his brother or sister that angel says the same for you too what ever thing he will be rewarded the same , you see allah's mercy even when we ask somthing for our bro/sis we get the same masha allah:ma:
 

massi

Junior Member
:salam2:
:astag::astag::astag::astag:
don't answer without proofs !!!
the scholars are not agree if you can ask someone for help or not like du'ua !!!each one has his view and his proofs!!
so don't answer without knowledge!!
Ruling on asking others to make du’aa’​
What is the ruling on a Muslim asking a brother in Islam who he thinks is a good person to make du’aa’ for him when he is going for Hajj or on some other journey, and asking him to make du’aa’ for him in his absence? Because the Messenger
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(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) praised Uways and urged his Sahaabah (may Allaah be pleased with him) to ask him to make du’aa’ for them (the hadeeth of Uways al-Qurani was reported by Muslim, no. 2542). Did Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah regard it as makrooh to do this and say that the hadeeth applied only to Uways?
Please explain to us.


Praise be to Allaah.
Asking a person to make du’aa’ for you who you think will have his du’aa’s answered, either because of his righteousness or because he is going to a place where one hopes his du’aa’s will be answered, such as travelling or going for Hajj or ‘Umrah, etc., is OK in principle. But if there is the fear that something that is not right may result from it, such as the person who makes the request relying on the person whom he has asked, or always relying on other people with regard to matters in which he should call on his Lord, or there is the fear that the person of whom the request is made may become arrogant and think that he has reached such a level that people ask him to make du’aa’ for them, then this is sufficient reason not to do this, because in this case it leads to something that is not right. If it does not lead to something that is not right, then in principle it is permissible, but still we say that it should not be done, because it was not the custom of the Sahaabah (may Allaah be pleased with them) to ask one another to make du’aa’ for one another. The hadeeth in which the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) is reported to have said to ‘Umar, “Do not forget us in your du’aa’, O my brother” (reported by Abu Dawood, no. 1498, and al-Tirmidhi, no. 3557) is a weak hadeeth and there is no proof that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said this.
With regard to the fact that the Sahaabah (may Allaah be pleased with them) asked the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) to make du’aa’ for them, it is well-known that no one else can reach the level of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), so when ‘Ukaashah ibn Muhsan asked him to pray that he would be one of those who would enter Paradise without being called to account or being punished, he said, “You will be one of them” (reported by al-Bukhaari, no. 6541; Muslim, no. 216, 218, 220), and when another man came and asked the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) to ask Allaah to send them rain, he did so (reported by al-Bukhaari, no. 1013; Muslim, 897).
With regard to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) advising his companions to ask Uways al-Qurani to make du’aa’ for them, this undoubtedly applied only in his case, and it is known that Uways was not on the same level as Abu Bakr or ‘Umar or ‘Uthmaan or ‘Ali, or other Sahaabah. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did not tell anyone among his Sahaabah to ask anyone to make du’aa’ for them.
To sum up, we can say: there is no sin in asking someone to make du’aa’ for you that you hope will have his du’aa’ answered, on the condition that this does not involve anything that is wrong, but it is better and more appropriate not to do this.


Liqa’ al-Baab al-Maftooh by Ibn ‘Uthaymeen, 212
 

saima abdullah

my life iz 4 Allah
jasak Allah sister ... its mean that it is encouraged to do duwa for other Muslims by your own self as it is refer ed in this thread previously from some hadith,,? m still confused:(
 

ahmed_indian

to Allah we belong
jasak Allah sister ... its mean that it is encouraged to do duwa for other Muslims by your own self as it is refer ed in this thread previously from some hadith,,? m still confused:(

u need not be confused.To sum up:

1. it is permitted to ask others to make dua for you

2. but its better that u make dua by urself (to avoid over-dependence, arrogance, etc)
 

saima abdullah

my life iz 4 Allah
asalam o alykum wr wb
jasak Allah brother for removing my confusion,,, may Allah remove your problems of both worlds...
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wsalam wr wb
 
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