consoling those who's loved ones died.

palestine

Servant of Allah
:salam2: well i haven't written in a long time on this website and i've been reading many threads. So many deaths have occurred these last few days. i know that there were always people dying out there but just not around me. I just wanted to console those who's mothers, fathers, and relatives died. Please my dearest brothers and sisters try to be patient for i hope that your loved ones are in paradise. And inshaAllah they will be among those who are neigbhours with Muhammad pbuh inshAllah. May Allah enlighten their graves and may he make them among those who travel on sirad like the lightning. I can never take the pain away from anyone of you but this is the best i can do. i know that losing someone isn't easy but remember that we will all die and that we won't live forever. So remember death often and let's try to be good servants of Allah. let this not deviate us from the true way of life. inshaAllah may we all be united in paradise, in the presence of Allah and neigboring with all of the prophets and messengers of Allah. ameen. May Allah bring ease and tranquility into our hearts whether loved ones died or not. and May Allah help those whose family's have departed whether in divorce or in far away countries. May we all become a better ummah.:salam2: My love goes out to you all of you and may we all be among those who dwell in paradise inshaAllah.
 

Istella

Junior Member
Assalamualaikum...

Palestine,

Thank you for your thread. It has touched me as I just lost my beloved mother.
 

ditta

Alhamdu'Lillaah
Staff member
Asalaamu'Alykum,

Ameen to your Du'a. I have taken this from another reply, i was going to leave some stuff out, but decided to just leave it. It is taken from Riyad-us-Saliheen.


Allah the Exalted says:

"O you who believe! Endure and be more patience..... [3:200]

"And certainly, We shall test you with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to As-Sâbirun (the patient)" [2:155]

"Only those who are patient shall receive their reward in full, without reckoning." [39:10]


"And verily, whosoever shows patience and forgives that would truly be from the things recommended by Allâh." [42:43]

"O you who believe! Seek help in patience and As-Salât (the prayer). Truly! Allâh is with As-Sâbirun (the patient.)" [2:153]


Aby Yahya Suhaib bin Sinan (Radiyallahu Anh) reported that the Messenger of Allah (S.A.W) said:

"How wonderful is the case of a believer; there is good for him in everything and this applies only to a believer. If properity attends him, he expresses gratitude to Allah (S.W.T) and that is good for him; and if adversity befalls him, he endures it patiently and that is better for him". [Muslim]

Commentary: A Muslim is required to behave in porvery and prosperity, affluence and hardship, in the manner stated in this Hadith. It means that to forget Allah in prosperity, rather than being thankful to Him for His Favour is defiance of His Orders. Similarly, it is unbecoming of a Muslim that in troubles and turmoil, rather being patient, he tends to weeping and crying, grousing and grieving against the Will of Allah.


Abu Sa'id and Abu Hurairah (Radiyallahu Anhuma) reported that the Prophet (S.A.W) said, "Never a believer is stricken with a discomfort, an illness, an anxiety, a grief or mental worry or even the pricking of a thorn but Allah will expiate his sins on account of his Patience. [Al-Bukhari & Muslim]

Commentary: This Hadith mentions the special Grace and Mercy of Allah for the Muslims. It relates how Allah turns the hardships and troubles suffered by a Muslim into a means of expiation for his sins. But this is only possible if the believer exercises patience. However, if he starts wailing instead of showing patience then beside suffering hardships, he would be deprived of the reward which lies in bearing them patiently. Thus, he shall have to take the burden of additional sins also.


Abu Hurairah (R.A) reported that the Messenger of Allah (S.A.W) said:

"He whom Allah intends good, He makes him suffer from some affliction." [Al-Bukhari]

Commentary: Troubles of this world like grief, calamity, disease, poverty, loss of life and property, etc, have a benign aspect for a Muslim in the sense that on account of them he turns towards Allah and begs mercy and compassion from Him because of which his sins are forgiven. Thus, in these troubles there is a blessing for him in the Hereafter.


Alhamdulilah

Wasalam
 

TheKnowledgeSeeker

A Believer In Heart
Assalam,

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!!!!AMEEN!!!!!​
 
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