Salaam people!!
After reading this and seeing the poll, im a bit upset that so many people voted they are the victims of abuse and still continue to live with the abusers!!
Thats sooooo sad!! I would like to know how many of them are men and how many women?? I cant speak for people individually because i dont know there situations, but either way there is no excuse for abuse and no one deserves or should put up with it!!
Salaam people!!
After reading this and seeing the poll, im a bit upset that so many people voted they are the victims of abuse and still continue to live with the abusers!!
Thats sooooo sad!! I would like to know how many of them are men and how many women?? I cant speak for people individually because i dont know there situations, but either way there is no excuse for abuse and no one deserves or should put up with it!!
You shouldnt generalise. The situation you descirbed, it exists yeh, but you shouldnt assume that every sister who has problems with her husband was because she chose him for Masters/PhD, people turn out bad, maybe some people just weren't suited and they couldnt see it prior to marriage? Also, no marriage is peice of cake, who are you (or any of the rest of us) to judge like that?Now as for the sisters who have problems with their husbands did they ever thought that are some prerequisites before you get married for example. Did they EVER check the brother's level of imaan, knowledge, manners, charachter? family? THE ANSWER IS NO. oh I forgot all they were looking for was if the brother had a P.h.D. Masters etc. THAT is way some sisters are crying out loud about their husbands and future of family. later on they find out their husbands smoke, listen to music, look at other women,put hands on them, or even are sissy pants men with no real manhood acting all like the kuffar. so please there is no real issue here to talk or argue about.
Now as for the sisters who have problems with their husbands did they ever thought that are some prerequisites before you get married for example. Did they EVER check the brother's level of imaan, knowledge, manners, charachter? family? THE ANSWER IS NO. oh I forgot all they were looking for was if the brother had a P.h.D. Masters etc. THAT is way some sisters are crying out loud about their husbands and future of family. later on they find out their husbands smoke, listen to music, look at other women,put hands on them, or even are sissy pants men with no real manhood acting all like the kuffar. so please there is no real issue here to talk or argue about
polls can b misleading especially online cause there could b some1 here who has dozens of usenames n is jz making it look badder that reality!
. Did they EVER check the brother's level of imaan, knowledge, manners, charachter? family? THE ANSWER IS NO. oh I forgot all they were looking for was if the brother had a P.h.D. Masters etc. THAT is way some sisters are crying out loud about their husbands and future of family. later on they find out their husbands smoke, listen to music, look at other women,put hands on them, or even are sissy pants men with no real manhood acting all like the kuffar. so please there is no real issue here to talk or argue about.
Bismilah,
Dear all,
On the authority of Al-Nawwas bin Samaan, that the prophet said:
"Righteousness is good morality, and wrongdoing is that which wavers in your soul and which you dislike people finding out about." ( Authentic, reported by Muslim)
Firstly, I do not argue on-line because is not the place. Argumatation is done one-to-one or in big meetings where someone gives shares the knowledge and makes a point.
Secondly, we in this electronic page don't even know the real names of people, and let alone sharing major issues and problems in the way some one wants to share them. Thus, the purpose of TTI is informative/call to islam. Meanwhile concerns and questions could be expressed in minor level and may be solved pratically by typing on the keyboard. Now as for the sisters who have problems with their husbands did they ever thought that are some prerequisites before you get married for example. Did they EVER check the brother's level of imaan, knowledge, manners, charachter? family? THE ANSWER IS NO. oh I forgot all they were looking for was if the brother had a P.h.D. Masters etc. THAT is way some sisters are crying out loud about their husbands and future of family. later on they find out their husbands smoke, listen to music, look at other women,put hands on them, or even are sissy pants men with no real manhood acting all like the kuffar. so please there is no real issue here to talk or argue about.