Help me boost my Imaan please

Muslimah16

ServantOfAllah*
:salam2:
i dont know about you guyz, but sometimes i feel like my emaan has gone really down :girl3: :astag:
So how do you boost it up again?
I feel really lost sometimes, and i feel scared to talk to my family members.
i dont want them to take the wrong end of the stick.
Please help me out.
Your sister.

p.s
is it shaytaan or just me?
 

salahdin

Junior Member
From al-Istiqaamah magazine Shawwal 1418H/ February 1998

Allaah - the Most High - said:

"O you who believe! Remember Allaah and remember Him a lot." [Soorah al-Ahzaab 33:4I].

"Those men and women who remember Allaah a lot." [Soorah al-Ahzaab 33:35].

"So when you have finished the rights of your Pilgrimage, then remember Allaah as you remember your fore-father, or with more intense remembrance." [Soorah al-Baqarah 2:200].

These verses contain a command to remember Allaah intensely and abundantly, since the worshipper is in dire need of [remembering Allaah] and cannot do without it even for a twinkling of an eye. This is because every moment that a person does not spend in the dhikr (remembrance) of Allaah will not be of any benefit to him. Rather, the harm entailed in being neglectful of the dhikr of Allaah is far greater than any benefits that can be gained. One of the 'aarifeen (those who are knowledgeable about Allaah) said:"If a person were to spend such and such number of years engaged [in the dhikr of Allaah], then he turns away from it for just a moment, what he will lose is far greater than whatever he has already gained."

Al-Bayhaqee relates from 'Aaishah radiallaahu 'anhaa that the Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam said: "There is no time in which the son of Aadam does not remember AIIaah in it, except that it will be a source of regret for him on the Day of Judgement" 2

Mu'aadh ibn jabal radiallaahu 'anhu relates that the Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam said: "The people of Paradise will not have any regrets except for those moments in which they were not engaged in the dhikr (remembrance) of Allaah." 3

Mu'aadh ibn Jabal also relates that Allaah's Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam was asked: What action is the most beloved to Allaah? So he replied: "That you continue to keep your tongue moist with the dhikr of Allaah, until you die." 4

POLISHING THE HEART

Abu Dardaa radiallaahu 'anhu said:"For everything there is a polish and the polish for the heart is the dhikr of Allaah".

Al-Bayhaqee relates from Ibn 'Umar radiallaahu 'anhu that AlIaah's Messenger sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam said: "For everything there is a polish, and the polish for the hearts is the dhikr (remembrance) of Allaah. There is nothing more potent in saving a person from the punishment of Allaah than the dhikr of Allaah." It was said: Not even Jihaad in the path of Allaah. So he replied: "Not even if you were to continue striking with your sword until it breaks."5

There is no doubt that hearts becomes rusty just as copper and silver coins become rusty. The polish for [this rust] is the dhikr of AIlaah. This is because [dhikr] is like a polish [which polishes the heart] like a shiny mirror. When dhikr is left, the rust returns. But when dhikr resumes, then the heart is [again] polished. And hearts become rusty due to two things:-

(i) neglecting remembering Allaah, and

(ii) committing sins.

The polish for these two things is:-

(i) seeking Allaah's forgiveness and

(ii) dhikr.

CONFUSING TRUTH WITH FALSEHOOD

Whoever neglects [remembering Allaah] most of the time, then his heart will become rusty in accordance with how neglectful the person is. And when this [filthy] rust accumulates on the heart, then it no longer recognises things as they really are. Thus, it views falsehood as if it is the truth, and truth as if it is falsehood. This is because this rust darkens and confuses the heart's perception, and so it is unable to truly recognise things for what they really are. So as the rust accumulates, the heart gets blackened, and as this happens the heart becomes stained with this filthy rust, and when this occurs it corrupts the heart's perception and recognition of things. The heart [then] does not accept the truth nor does it reject falsehood, and this is the greatest calamity that can strike the heart. Being neglectful [of dhikr] and following of whims and desires is a direct consequence of such a heart, which [further] extinguish the heart's light and blinds its vision. Allaah - the Most High - said:
"And do not obey him whose heart We have made to be neglectful of Our remembrance, one who follows his own whims and desires and whose affairs are furat [have gone beyond bounds and whose deeds have been lost]." [Soorah al-Kahf 18:28].

QUALITIES OF A GUIDE

So when a worshipper desires to follow another person, then let him see: Is this person from the people of dhikr, or from the people who are negligent [about remembering Allaah]? Does this person judge in accordance with his whims and desires, or by the Revelation? So, if he judges by whims and desires then he is actually from those people who are negligent; those whose affairs have gone beyond bounds and whose deeds are lost.

The term furat [which occurs in the above verse] has been explained in many ways. It has been explained to mean:- (i) losing the rewards of that type of action which is essential to do, and in which lies success and happiness; (ii) exceeding the limits of something; (iii) being destroyed; and (iv) opposing the truth. Each of these sayings are very close in meaning to each other.

The point is that Allaah - the One free from all imperfections, the Most High - has prohibited following all those who possess such attributes. So it is absolutely essential that a person considers whether such attributes are found in his shaykh, or the person who's example he follows, or the person that he obeys. If they are, then he should distance himself from such a person. However, if it is found that the person is, in most cases, pre-occupied with the dhikr of Allaah and with following the Sunnah, and his affairs do not exceed the limits, but rather he is judicious and resolute in his affairs, then he should cling to him very firmly.

Indeed, there is no difference between the living and the dead, except with the dhikr of Allaah; since [the Prophet sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam] said: "The example of one who remembers Allaah and someone who does not, is like the example between the living and the dead."6


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FOOTNOTES


1. AI-Waabilus-Sayyib min Kalimit-Tayyib (pp.78-82).

2. Hasan: Related by Abu Nu'aym in al-Hiliyatul-Awliyaa (51361-362). It was authenticated by Shaykh al-Albaanee in Saheehul-Jaami' (no.5720).

3. Saheeh: Related by lbnus-Sunnee in 'Aml al-Yawma wal-Laylah (no.3). Refer to Saheehul-Jaami' (no.5446).

4. Hasan: Related by lbn Hibbaan (no.2318). It was authenticated by Shaykh Saleem al-Hilaalee in Saheeh al-Waabilus-Sayyib (p.80).

5. Saheeh: Related by Ahmad (4/352), from Mu'aadh ibn Jabal radiallaahu 'anhu. It was authenticated by al-Albaanee in Saheehul-Jaami' (no.5644).

6. Related by al-Bukhaaree (11/208) and Muslim (1/539).

From al-Istiqaamah magazine Shawwal 1418H/ February 1998
 

shaheeda35

strive4Jannah
:salam2:
I dont know what reply can top that one that the brother gave you, but just stay strong sis. We all experience an increased and decrease in Iman, but we must try to lift ourselves back up. You are not alone. I pray Allah helps you through this.

I am only a pm away inshallah.:hearts:
 

Muslimah16

ServantOfAllah*
jazakAllah khair for both your replies.

Its just that i tend to feel this way a lot.
i pray properly sumtimes then suddenly my power goes to zero :girl3:

i feel like i am such a failure to my religion. :astag: :SMILY23::SMILY23:

please make loads and loads and loads of dua for me. :SMILY176:
 

pcozzy

Junior Member
jazakAllah khair for both your replies.

Its just that i tend to feel this way a lot.
i pray properly sumtimes then suddenly my power goes to zero :girl3:

i feel like i am such a failure to my religion. :astag: :SMILY23::SMILY23:

please make loads and loads and loads of dua for me. :SMILY176:


:salam2:

I don't know what level of understanding of Quran you have, but I have found such great value in learning the meaning of Quran in English to supplement my Arabic.

In otherwords, in prayer, when I recite the fatiha I reflect on the meaning in both languages which kinda melt my heart to Allah so he can grant the blessing continually.

http://www.understandquran.com/home.html

Also, ask Allah swt, in any language to guide you to his way of life.

:wasalam:
 

islamisthesolution

Junior Member
jazakAllah khair for both your replies.

Its just that i tend to feel this way a lot.
i pray properly sumtimes then suddenly my power goes to zero :girl3:

i feel like i am such a failure to my religion. :astag: :SMILY23::SMILY23:

please make loads and loads and loads of dua for me. :SMILY176:

i guess a person like you with a big heart cant ever go zero:hearts:
sister get closer to Allah by reading Quran its the most effective cure for all pains may Allah be with you ameen
 

naaad

mu'minah
salaam sis,
this actually happens to me also many a times. i feel i have very weak iman. but i always find it uplifting when i recite the Holy Qur'an mainly because i can understand it ALHAMDULILLAH. though i understand Arabic i even read the translation and commentary by Yusuf ALi- his commentary is too good.
another that used to give my heart tranquility is listening to the Holy Qur'an. i feel more than reading, listening in such circumstances gives rest....

lets all keep our toungues moving in Dhikr and istighfaar.....and May ALLAH accept all good deeds and keep our imaan as strong as the mountains....
 

Muslimah16

ServantOfAllah*
i guess a person like you with a big heart cant ever go zero:hearts:
sister get closer to Allah by reading Quran its the most effective cure for all pains may Allah be with you ameen


AAww thats so sweet. but trust me i feel it does at times.
InshAllah i will try to do tilaawat of the Quran more often now.
Aameen to your dua.
Please remember me in your pious duaas sister.
 

Muslimah16

ServantOfAllah*
salaam sis,
this actually happens to me also many a times. i feel i have very weak iman. but i always find it uplifting when i recite the Holy Qur'an mainly because i can understand it ALHAMDULILLAH. though i understand Arabic i even read the translation and commentary by Yusuf ALi- his commentary is too good.
another that used to give my heart tranquility is listening to the Holy Qur'an. i feel more than reading, listening in such circumstances gives rest....

lets all keep our toungues moving in Dhikr and istighfaar.....and May ALLAH accept all good deeds and keep our imaan as strong as the mountains....

Ukhti, jazakAllah for your reply. I understand it slightly but i also find that listening to quranic recitations is very peacefull.
Aameen to your duaa sister. :)
 

The_truth

Well-Known Member
:salam2:
i dont know about you guyz, but sometimes i feel like my emaan has gone really down :girl3: :astag:
So how do you boost it up again?
I feel really lost sometimes, and i feel scared to talk to my family members.
i dont want them to take the wrong end of the stick.
Please help me out.
Your sister.

p.s
is it shaytaan or just me?

Asalaam wr wb, hope your well sister? My Sister this world is an illusion! Theres a beautiful example of a horse that eats green grass! Once the grass was not a healthy colour due to the lack of rain and the owner knows its horse does not like eating the grass that does not look healthy and green! So once the owner put sun glasses on the horses eyes so that it cannot see that the grass is not a healthy colour and the horse gets decieved into thinking that the grass is a healthy green colour! Same way this world is an illusion for our eyes and it is the evil Satan that tries to fool our eyes into seeing and believing what is not there and having love for this world!
This world is just a test ground for us and Allah is examining us in EVERY aspect of our lives to see how we will conduct ourselves in our daily lives!
My Sister Allah is SO great that we can NEVER imagine! He created us and gave us our bodys as a loan for us for they are not truly ours! What did we do to earn our bodys? NOTHING!
He gives us the ability to move our muscles, to think, to speak, to listen, to feel, to touch. I can go on and on explaining how dependant we are on Allah for EVERY SINGLE THING!
We have countless amounts of nerves in our bodys and if ONE was to fail then we would be paralysed for life! We have a VERY minute amount of water in our eyes and if that was to dry up we would go blind! There are trillions of examples like this of how much we are dependant on Allah's mercy and how thankful to him we should be for what he has given us and how compassionate and merciful he is to us and all his creations!Does he not provide for every animal and insect? He nourishes and provides for all of his creations!
He gave us good health which a lot of people do not have at all! Some don't have limbs, some are blind and some are deaf and dumb and some are paralysed from the waist down and even neck down!
We have wealth, go to some poor countries and you will see the state of some people for some live in their own excrement and some do not have homes at all! We have food on our plates everyday and some people have a few crumbs every few days and are dying of starvation and thirst! We have families and some people grow up orphans not having mothers or fathers or any family!
Some people are brought up in war torn countries! Just ponder and contemplate about people who have less than us and only then will we be truly thankful for how much Allah has given us!
Just think and ponder over how much Allah has given us because for ONE eye that Allah has given us we will NEVER be able to repay him for he has done SO much for us that we can NEVER imagine or comprehend! He is SO merciful that EVERYDAY we transgress ourselves and commit sin and yet he still provides for us and feeds and nourishes us and quenches our thirst! He still protects us and waits for us to repent for our sins!
Everyday we forget him and are to hypnotised by this world and its desires and pleasures! We forget the extent to what our most merciful lord has given us and how much he is forgiving us EVERYDAY for the terrible sins we are commiting!He awaits everyday for us to return to him giving us chance after chance! How merciful is Allah the compassionate one!
Once there was an oldman and all his life he never practiced Islam for he was just muslim by name and he was on his death bed and he started saying "oh Allah forgive me". The angels came to him and started cursing him saying "look at you! now that your on your death bed now you turn to Allah and start asking for forgiveness when all your life you wasted on this world"! Allah told the angels "Be quite! Even if my slave was to sin for another 100 years i would forgive him EVERYTIME if he asked me to forgive him!
Allah mercy is SO great that we can NEVER imagine! Hes given us SO much and on top of that he still forgives us EVERYTIME we ask of him with sincerity! He ALWAYS listens to the call of his slave and even if we think that he has not answered our prayer then he has soemthing better for us!
On the day of judgement there will be a man standing in front of Allah and he will see mountains of good deeds around him and he will ask Allah "Oh Allah i don't remember doing this many good deeds in my life", Allah will say "Do you remember all those times you did dua and you thought i never accepted them! Well these are your rewards for all the duas i did not accept in this world"! The man will reply, "Oh Allah i wish you did'nt accept a single dua of mine and gave me ALL the reward in the hereafter"!Subhanallah so let us not be down if we think our duas are not accepted because we will ALWAYS have something better in return!
What is Allah asking of us in return for creating us and giving us more than we can EVER imagine? That his slaves just give him 25 minutes a day! Thats right if we calculate all of the Salah in a day then they add upto around 25 minutes! Thats just 25 minutes in 24 hours for Allah! Is that a lot he is asking for? Our most merciful lord asks SO little from us for the GREAT amount of blessings that he has given us that we can NEVER count or quantify and we still can't even do a little amount for him! That is SO sad of us!
He loves us 70 times more than a mother loves its baby! He just wants us to be the closest to him so he can shower us with his compassion,mercy,forgiveness and blessings! So that he can put peace,happiness and tranquility into our hearts! We will NEVER find happiness,peace and tranquility in ANYTHING but with Allah! Allah says in the Qur'an that by us remembering him and doing his zikr(rememberance) shall we find peace,tranquility,true happiness and contentment in our hearts!
Look at the lives of the rich and famous for example! They are the most unhappiest people alive yet they have every materialistic thing imaginable! That proves without doubt that materialism just brings unhappiness, pain and anguish into ones life for there is NOTHING good in it!
Sister If we walk towards him he will run towards us! He is WAITING to forgive us for all he wants is for us to turn to him and ask of him and cry to him and beg him for forgiveness and he will give us EVERYTHING that is best for us in this world! Allah wants us to be close to him and he wants to help us but we have to help ourselves too Sister by making effort and perservering!
All of us have blackened our hearts due to the transgression and sins that we have committed and the ONLY way to rid our hearts of these transgressions and blackness from the heart is by the Zikr of Allah (rememberance of Allah)! The more we remember him the more we will purify our hearts and rid it of the blackness from the sin!
Once our hearts are purified and we remember Allah all the time then we will start to see improvements in EVERY aspect of our lives! We will recieve peace,tranquility,happiness and contentment in our hearts and become more humble as people and be the best towards others and more patient in every aspect of our lives for Allah is WITH the one who is patient! Subhanallah!
We should do EVERYTHING that will ONLY please Allah and we should try our best to avoid anything that displeases him! We have to follow the Qur'an and the Sunnah as much as we can because EVERYTHING the Prophet(saw) did and said it was from Allah and thats what Allah wanted and we should try to implement the Sunnah as much as possible into every aspect of our lives and become the way the Prophet(saw) was, because he was so humble and patient and the best towards people in his conduct and manners and he was the perfect example for mankind!
Sister lets get the closest to Allah who loves us SO much that we can NEVER imagine and has given us SO much that if we were to spend our whole lives thinking of what he has given us we would NEVER be able to becauase of the extent of how much he has given us!
Lets get the closest to him because he wants the best for us and he is the ONLY one that can give us true happiness,peace and tranquility in our hearts and give us the best of this world and the next! If he tests us then it means he wants to see how patient we will be through the tests,trials and tribulations! Also if he tests us then he wants us to be patient so he can reward us for Allah is with the ones who are patient!He ONLY tests his slaves more the ones that he loves the most!
Sister we all go through a perioud when our imaan goes down! Allah is waiting for you to turn to him and get the closest to him because he LOVES U MORE THAN YOU CAN EVER IMAGINE!
He wants you to be the one that remembers him the most and worships him the most! Me writing this to you is from Allah and from his will because he wants you to be the closest to him and turn to him and he will give your heart what it needs! Because your heart has been deprived of the remembrance of Allah that is why it is filled with hate and negative feelings! That will GO now my Sister because you will become the closest to Allah now inshallah!
We need to learn about the Prophet(saw)life and the way he was and the way he acted in every situation and we should mimic him in EVERYWAY POSSIBLE!
He (SAW) showed so much Mercy and love to mankind that we can NEVER imagine because MANY times in his(saw) life mankind showed hatred towards him like the non believers of taif who stoned the Prophet(saw) until he bled to his knees but still the Prophet(saw) who was a mercy to mankind said to Allah "Oh Allah Forgive them for they do not know what they are doing!"
He did not get revenge or show hatred for them but he cried to Allah not because of the physical pain he was going through but because of the reason that these disbelievers were misguided!
We should learn about the life and teachings of our beloved Rasul (saw) and try to be like him in everyway in EVERY aspect of our lives and in that way we shall be successful in this world and the next! Sister please don't hesitate to get back to us if you need anything else or need any help with anything at all because were here for you inshallah!

May Allah guide us to the straight path and bring us the closest to him! Ameen
 

The_truth

Well-Known Member
:salam2:
i dont know about you guyz, but sometimes i feel like my emaan has gone really down :girl3: :astag:
So how do you boost it up again?
I feel really lost sometimes, and i feel scared to talk to my family members.
i dont want them to take the wrong end of the stick.
Please help me out.
Your sister.

p.s
is it shaytaan or just me?

10 Steps to Increasing our Iman(Faith)

The Prophet Muhammad (S) said: "Faith wears out in the heart of any one of you just as clothes wear out, so ask Allah to renew the faith in your hearts” (Mustadrak al-Haakim).

Our Iman is not always as sound and strong as we want it to be as it often fluctuates according to life circumstances. There are several causes for weakening Iman such as deficiencies in our prayers or the insinuating whispers from the Shaytan. Regardless of the cause, it is crucial for all of us to keep a check on our Iman and if we feel it is faltering in any way then we should take measures to restore it. It is our responsibility to know which things decrease our Iman and how to avoid them and those that increase our Iman and how to embrace them.

What are signs of a weak imaan?

Signs of weak imaan:


• Committing sins and not feeling any guilt.
• Having a hard heart and no desire to read the Quran.
• Feeling too lazy to do good deeds, e.g. being late for salat
• Neglecting the Sunnah.
• Having mood swings, for instance being upset about petty things and bothered and irritated most of the time.
• Not feeling anything when hearing verses from the Quran, for example when Allah warns us of punishments and His promise of glad tidings.
• Finding difficulty in remembering Allah and making dhikr.
• Not feeling bad when things are done against the Shariah.
• Desiring status and wealth.
• Being mean and miserly, i.e. not wanting to part with wealth.
• Ordering others to do good deeds when not practising them ourselves.
• Feeling pleased when things are not progressing for others.
• Being concerned with whether something is haram or halal only; and not avoiding makroo (not recommended) things.
• Making fun of people who do simple good deeds, like cleaning the mosque.
• Not feeling concerned about the situation of Muslims.
• Not feeling the responsibility to do something to promote Islam.
• Being unable to deal with calamities, for instance crying and yelling in funerals.
• Liking to argue just for the sake of arguing without any proof.
• Becoming engrossed and very involved with dunya, worldly things, i.e. feeling bad only when losing something in terms of material wealth.
• Becoming engrossed and obsessive about ourselves.


Here are 10 ways that we can brighten up our Iman starting from today!

1. Recognise and Repent

As humans we all commit sins no matter how hard we try to avoid them because were created to be imperfect. Engaging in evil deeds decreases our Iman. Actions like lying, cheating and stealing, to name only a few, take a toll on the human heart and soul which makes us more susceptible to being lead astray from the Path of Allah. It is important for us to reflect upon our deeds and weed out the ones that are contrary to the teachings of the Holy Qur’an and Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (S). Allah has gifted us with an innate sense of justice and the ability to reason and make sound judgements. Our fitrah (natural disposition) necessitates that we all know when we are committing a sin. And if we don't know, we certainly have a bevy of resources to find out from!

Conditions for the acceptance of repentance

The word tauba which is rendered as repentance in English, is not a simple term as most people believe. It is very rich in meaning and implication, and is not simply a word of mouth after which the sinner continues in his sins. Says Allah, Glorified be He: "Seek forgiveness of your Lord and then turn to Him in repentance." (Hud: 3). Do you notice how turning to the Lord in repentance has been added to the search for His forgiveness?

It is quite in keeping with its importance, therefore, that repentance should have, as the scholars have stated, conditions attached to it for its acceptance.

They are as follows:

First: Giving up of the sin itself.
Second: Remorse over what has been committed.
Third: A resolve not to repeat it, and, Fourth: Compensating those who have been wronged or obtaining their forgiveness.

2. Perform Salah Regularly

Completing the five daily prayers, on time and according to the Sunnah, is an excellent way to increase our Iman. Not only are we performing an obligatory deed when praying, but by doing so we have a standing audience with the Creator of this world where we can ask for help and mercy. The effect of the salah on the human soul is cooling as Muhammad (S) once said that it cooled his eyes. The salah connects us with our Creator and, along with obedience to Allah, helps us to enjoin what is good and forbid what is evil.

Allah Almighty says in the Holy Qur’an:

"The believers are only those who, when Allah is mentioned, feel a fear in their hearts and when His Verses -this Qur’an- are recited unto them, they (i.e. the Verses) increase their Faith; and they put their trust in their Lord (Alone); Who perform salah and spend out of that We have provided them. It is they who are the believers in truth. For them are grades of dignity with their Lord, and Forgiveness and a generous provision (Paradise)” (Al-Anfal: 2-4).

Narrated Jabir ibn Abdullah (RAA) Rasulullah (SAW) said: The similitude of five prayers is like an overflowing river passing by the gate of one of you in which he washes five times daily. Hasan said: No filthiness can remain on him. (Sahih Muslim Book 4, Hadith # 1411)

Narrated Abu Hurairah (RAA) Rasualullah (SAW) said, "Martyrs are those who die because of drowning, plague, an abdominal disease, or of being buried alive by a falling building." And then he added, "If the people knew the Reward for the Zuhr prayer in its early time, they would race for it. If they knew the reward for the 'Isha' and the Fajr prayers in congregation, they would join them even if they had to crawl. If they knew the reward for the first row, they would draw lots for it." (Sahih Al-Bukhari Volume 1, Book 11, Hadith # 688)

For the people who don’t pray:

Informing us about the inhabitants of Hell, Allaah (SWT) says "(The people in Hell will be asked:) What has caused you to enter Hell? They will say: "We were not of those who used to offer their Salât (prayers). Nor did we feed the poor. And we used to talk falsehood (all that which Allaah hated) with vain-talkers. And we used to belie thc Day of Recompense. Until there came to us that which is certain (i.e., death). So no Intercession of intercessors will benefit them. (Sura Al-Muddaththir, ayah 42-48)

Rasulullah (SAW) said "The covenant between us and them is prayer, so if anyone abandons it he has become a disbeliever." (Agreed upon by Ahmad, Tirmidhee and Nasaa'ee to be authentic)

In an other Hadith of Rasulullah (SAW) said "What lies between a man and disbelief is the abandonment of prayer."( Agreed upon by Muslim, Abu Dawood and Nasaa'ee as sahih authentic)

3. Qur’anic Recitations

Medical studies have shown that simply listening to a recitation of the Holy Qur’an has a physiological effect on our bodies. Research has also proven that the Qur’an has healing qualities on the body, mind and spirit. What better way to increase our Iman than to listen to the recitation of the Holy Qur’an on an audio device! Listen to the melodious rhythm of the Qur’an and while doing so try to reflect upon the meanings of what you are listening to.We should always strive to read as much of the Qur’an as possible as reading the word of allah especially with the meanings will significantly increase our imaan and elevate us in this world and the next!

Hazrat Abdullah bin Masud radhiyallahu anhu narrates that The Messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi wasallam said: "Whoever reads one letter of the Quran receives the reward of one good deed. And one good deed is multiplied ten times.

Hazrat Abu Huraira radhiyallahu anhu reports that Rasoolullah sallallahu alaihi wasallam said: "Whoever listens to one verse of the Book of Allah, a good deed that multiplies continuously is recorded. And one who reads a verse of the Quran, that verse will be a Noor for him on the Day of Judgement."

Hazrat Anas radhiyallahu anhu reports that Rasoolullah sallallahu alaihi wasallam said:"Whoever reads the Quran, Allah grants that person ten good deeds for every letter. And for one who hears the Quran being recited, Allah grants a good deed for every letter, and such a person will be resurrected among those who will recite and ascend the stages of Jannat."Hazrat Ibni Abbas radhiyallahu anhu narrates that Rasoolullah sallallahu alaihi wasallam said: "He who listens to one letter of the Quran, ten good deeds are recorded for him, ten sins are forgiven, and his status is elevated by ten stages."

4. Engage in Dhikr

"…Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest." (13:28)

Remembrance of Allah indeed is the greatest virtue.(29:46).

O ye who believe let not your wealth and your children divert you from the remembrance of Allah . (63:10)

O ye who believe, remember Allah much. And glorify Him morning and evening (33:42-43)

When the signs of the Gracious Allah are recited unto them, they fall down, prostrating themselves before Allah weeping.(19:59)

According to these verses the attitude of those who truly remember Allah is the following:

1. Their hearts are filled with the fear of Allah because they are reminded of the status and the Glory of their God.
2. Their skins creep, i.e., the hair on their bodies rise due to their state of fear.
3. Their bodies are softened, their hearts become tender.
4. They prostrate, i.e., they start worshiping Allah .
5. They cry or weep.


Remembering Allah much through acts of dhikr brings much peace and tranquility to the heart. It also gives us a sense of taqwa(fear of allah), a consciousness that makes us realise that Allah Almighty is ever near and that we should always strive to please Him.

Some beneficial dhikr include:

Subhan'Allah- 'Praise be to Allah'
Al-Hamdullilah- 'Thanks be to Allah'
Allahu Akbar – 'Allah is the Greatest.'
La ila ha illallah- There is no worthy of worship except allah

Abu haraira(ra) Narrates: Prophet(saw) said: whoever says: Subhanallahi Wa Bihamdihi – (I deem Allah free of any resemblances to anything whatever in any repeat, and I glorify his praises) one hundred times a day will have his sins forgiven even though they may be as much as the foam of the sea – (Bukhari,b73:c19)

Read much of this zikr:

Subhaan-Allahi walhamdu-lillaahi, wa laa ilaa-ha illa-la ill-lal-lahu wallahu Akbar, walaa haula wala quoow-wata illa billa hil-Aliyyil-azeem.

"Glory is for Allaah and all Praise is due to Allah. There is none worthy of worship except Allaah. Allaah is the greatest. There is no power and no strength except with Allaah the Most High, the Great."

5.Voluntary Fasting

Fasting can be thought of as a prescription for us, which cures the maladies of the human soul. There are innumerable benefits to fasting nawafil fasts. Fasting helps us be thankful to Allah for His Bounty, control unlawful desires, have compassion for the less fortunate and it weakens the effects of waswas, the insinuating whispers from the Shaytan.

Here is an explanation of the spiritual meaning of the Islamic Fasting:

1. It teaches man the principle of sincere Love: because when he observes Fasting he does it out of deep love for God. And the man who loves God truly is a man who really knows what love is.

2. It equips man with a creative sense of hope and an optimistic outlook on life; because when he fasts he is hoping to please God and is seeking His Grace.

3. It imbues in man the genuine virtue of effective devotion, honest dedication and closeness to God; because when he fasts he does so for God and for His sake alone.

4. It cultivates in man a vigilant and sound conscience; because the fasting person keeps his fast in secret as well as in public. In fasting, especially, there is no mundane authority to check man's behavior or compel him to observe fasting. He keeps it to please God and satisfy his own conscience by being faithful in secret and in public. There is no better way to cultivate a sound conscience in man.

5. It indoctrinates man in patience and selflessness, as through fasting, he feels the pains of deprivation but he endures them patiently.

6. It is an effective lesson in applied moderation and willpower.

7. Fasting also provides man with a transparent soul, a clear mind and a light body.

8. It shows man a new way of wise savings and sound budgeting.

9. It enables man to master the art of Mature Adaptability. We can easily understand the point once we realize that fasting makes man change the entire course of his daily life.

10. It grounds man in discipline and healthy survival.

11. It originates in man the real spirit of social belonging, unity and brotherhood, of equality before God as well as before the law.

12. It is a Godly prescription for self-reassurance and self-control.


6.Carrying out Good Deeds

Doing good deeds for others can be like switching on a light bulb in a darkened room. No matter how awful we are feeling there is just something about offering a helping hand to someone in need that lifts our spirits and brightens our Iman. We should get to the stage where we crave to do good deeds! Because our good deeds are our eternal investment which will benefit us for the rest of eternity rather than investment into this life which is very temporary indeed! So what investment sounds better? Eternal investment which will give us eternal bliss or temporary investment which has a chance of failing even though we spend our whole lives investing in it! You choose!

Allah Almighty says in the Holy Qur’an: "For those who believe and work righteous deeds is a reward that will never fail(Fussilat: 8).

Time in Islam is more than gold or any precious material thing in this world. Of all religions, only Islam guides mankind not only to the importance of time but also how to value it. Allah I the Almighty and His Messenger, the Prophet Muhammad r, very clearly tell us the value of time, why we must not waste it and how we can make use of our time wisely to increase our iman (faith) and thus attain success, especially eternal success in the life Hereafter.

Bin ‘Abbas narrated t that Allâh’s Messenger r said,“There are two blessings which many people lose: (They are) health and free time for doing good.” (Bukhari 8/421)

Abdullah Bin Mas’ud t narrated: “I asked the Prophet, ‘Which deed is the dearest to Allah?’ He replied, “To offer salaat (the prayers) at their early fixed times.” I asked, “What is the next (in goodness)?” He replied, “To be good and dutiful to your parents.” I' again asked, “What is the next (in goodness)? “He replied, “To participate in jihad (religious fighting) in Allah’s Cause.” (Bukhari 1/ 505)

Abu Qatada, Bin Rab’i t narrated that the Prophet , said, "Allâh the Exalted said: ‘I made five times (daily) prayers obligatory on your people. And I took a guarantee that if anyone observes them regularly at their times, I shall admit him to Paradise. If anyone does not offer them regularly, there is no such guarantee of Mine for him." (Abu Dawood 430)

If we fear Allah for His wrath and hope for His rewards in the eternal world to come, time has come for us to give due value to the importance of time. We should try not to waste most of our time seeking worldly pleasures. It is for our guidance that we must take admonition from the following authentic hadîth:

Abu Hurairah t narrated that Allâh’s Messenger r said, Be prompt in doing good deeds (before you are overtaken) by turbulence which would be like a part of the dark night. During (that stormy period) a man would be a Muslim in the morning and an unbeliever in the evening or he would be a believer in the evening and an unbeliever in the morning, and would sell his faith for worldly goods.” (Muslim 213)

Abu Hurairah t narrated that Allâh’s Messenger r said,“Hasten to do good deeds before six things happen: the rising of the sun from the west, the smoke, the Dajjal, the beast and (the death) of one you or the general turmoil.” (Muslim 7039)

“Call then upon Allâh with sincere devotion to Him even though the Unbelievers may detest it.” Qur'an 40:14

Verily, time is very important for our success both in this temporary world and the eternal world to come. If we waste time, if we abuse it, then we waste and abuse our lives. In the Life Hereafter we will be among the losers, who will suffer the torments in the Hell-Fire, if Allah I the Almighty will not forgive us. Therefore, if we really give value to our lives then, we must give due value to the importance of time.

7.Remembering Death

Every soul shall taste death

Allah has said in the Qur’aan:"Every soul will taste death.”

From this verse we know that death is such a thing that you can’t escape from even if you are in a house, which is built with metal walls, and has a massive padlock. Death will not only come when hair and the beard turn white, but it can come at any time, even when you are a baby, or an old person or a teenager or of middle age. Even if you are a king, a Prime Minister or a leader of one of the tribes.

Merits of the Remembrance of Death

Know that the person, who is engrossed in the world and cheated by its charming coquetries, is unmindful of the remembrance of death. They do not remember death and when they are reminded of it, they do not like it. Allah has said regarding such a man:“The deaths from which you flee away will meet you. Thereafter you will be led to the Knower of the world seen and unseen. You will then be informed of what you did.”

Hazrat Bilal bin Masood and Umar bin Abdul Aziz Radiallaho Anho said, “O People! You are not created for being destroyed”. You will travel from one home to another home. For a believer, death is a gift.

Rasulullah Sallallahu Alayhi Wassallam has said, “The gift for a believer is death".

Due to the hardship which the believer goes through in this world, death becomes easy for him and all of his anxieties disappear. Therefore, it is described as a gift in the Hadith.

Hazrat Mahmood bin Labeed says that the Prophet Sallallahu Alayhi Wassallam said, “Mankind likes two things very much. One of these things is life, though death is much better for him, and the second is wealth though poverty makes accounting easy.

Hazrat ibn Umar Radiallaho Anho says, “This world is paradise for the non-believers (they are engaged in their worldly desires and aspirations). This world is a jail or prison for the faithful (momins). They are bound by the laws of Shari at in every matter. Therefore, when the soul of a momin leaves his body (at the time of death), it is as if a captive has been freed from the cell. He cleans himself by turning in the dust.

8.Gaining knowledge

To seek knowledge is a sacred duty, it is obligatory on every Muslim, male and female. The first word revealed of the Qur’an was "Iqra" READ! Seek knowledge! Educate yourselves! Be educated.

Surah Al-Zumr, ayah 9 reveals: "Are those equal, those who know and those who do not know?"

Surah Al-Baqarah, ayah 269 reveals: "Allah grants wisdom to whom He pleases and to whom wisdom is granted indeed he receives an overflowing benefit."

Ibn Mas’ud (Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Messenger of Allah (S) said: The position of only two persons is enviable; the person whom Allah bestowed wealth empowering him to spend it in the way of righteousness, and the person whom Allah gave wisdom with which he adjudges and which he teaches to others

According to Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah, Ibn Abbas (Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Messenger of Allah (S) said: A single scholar of religion is more formidable against shaytaan than a thousand devout persons.

Islam is our greatest gift. We have to be thankful for this gift. We have to render to Allah His due. Allah has given us so much by making us a part of the Ummah of the Prophet Muhammad (S) so we must totally commit ourselves as followers of the Prophet (S). We must become true Muslims.

A person without knowledge is like someone walking along a track in complete darkness. Most likely his steps will wander aside and he easily can be deceived by shaytaan. This shows that our greatest danger lies in our ignorance of Islamic teachings and in our unawareness of what the Qur’an teaches and what guidance has been given by the Prophet (S). But if we are blessed with the light of knowledge we will be able to see plainly the clear path of Islam at every step of our lives. We shall also be able to identify and avoid the dangerous paths of Kufr, Shirk and immorality, which may cross it. And, whenever a false guide meets us on the way, a few words with him will quickly establish that he is not a guide who should be followed.

Every one of us, young or old, man or woman, should at least acquire sufficient knowledge to enable ourselves to understand the essence of the teachings of the Qur’an and the purpose for which it has been sent down. We should also be able to understand clearly the mission, which our beloved Prophet (S) came into this world to fulfil. We should also recognize the corrupt order and system, which he came to destroy. We should acquaint ourselves, too, with the way of life which Allah has ordained for us.

No great amount of time is required to acquire this simple knowledge. If we truly value Iman, it cannot be too difficult to find one hour every day to devote for our Iman.


Hadith states:

"He who acquires knowledge acquires a vast portion." AND "If anyone going on his way in search of knowledge, God will, thereby make easy for him the way to Paradise."

May Allah (SWT) give us strength to behave and act just as He likes us to do and be pleased with us, and that should be the purpose of our lives. Rabbi zidnee ilma (O Lord, increase us in knowledge). Aameen.

9.Making much dua(supplication)

Dua is defined as any invocation or prayer addressed to Allah (SWT). In our times, we find many reasons why people do not make Dua; we forget, don't know how, or just do not think it will be answered. Fundamental to this is the loss of dependence and trust upon Allah. As Muslims there is something very wrong when we believe our Duas won't be answered.We do not turn to Allah in our times of need and instead put our trust, dependence and hopes on worldly things that we think willhelp us. Although these temporal things are the means through which our Duas can be answered, the root of our being should be trained automatically to turn to Allah and not anything or anyone else. Through Dua, we strengthen our Imaan and our relationship with Allah, as well as heighten our awareness of cause and effect that can help inspire and motivate us to be closer to Islam in our lives.

We find many reassurances throughout the Quran for those who make Dua. Allah the Exalted, has said: "And your Lord says: Pray unto me: and I will hear your prayer" (Quran 40:60), "Call upon your Lord Humbly and in secret" (Quran 7:55),
"When My servants question thee concerning Me, I am indeed close (to them): I listen to the prayer of every suppliant when he calleth on Me" (Quran 2:186), "Is not He (best) who listens to the (soul) distressed when it calls on Him, and who relieves its suffering." (Quran 27:62)

Aisha radhiallaahu anha said, "No believer makes Dua and it is wasted. Either it is granted here in this world or deposited for him in the Hereafter as long as he does not get frustrated."

In fact, it is even wrong to never make Dua, "Whosoever does not supplicate to Allah, He will be angry with Him."[Saheeh Jaami`as-Sagheer #2414]

We can and should make Dua in every condition, i.e. in hardship and in prosperity.

There are also some special times to make Dua where it is more likely to be accepted:

1. When one is oppressed
2. Between the time of Athan and Iqama
3. At the time of the call for prayer
4. At the time of fighting when warriors are engaged with each other
5. When it is raining
6. When one is sick
7. The last third of the night
8. Ramadan (especially Lailatul Qadr)
9. After the Fard part of prayer
10. When traveling
11. When breaking fast
12. In Sujood
13. Fridays, some say on Friday after Asr prayer
14. While drinking the water from the well of Zamzam
15. At the start of prayer (Dua of Istiftah)
16. When one begins the prayer, i.e. with "all praise be to
Allah, the Pure and the Blessed one"
17. While one recites al-Fatiha (which is a Dua)
18. When Ameen is said in the prayer (also relating to Fatiha)
19. At the time of raising the head after the Rukoo
20. In the last part of the prayer after conveying blessings unto the Prophet (SAW)
21. Before finishing the prayer (before Tasleem (saying the Salaam to the angels))
22. At the end of Wudu
23. On the day of Arafah
24. On waking up from sleep
25. At times of adversity
26. Prayer after the death of a person
27. Dua when someone's heart is filled with sincerity and when it is focused on Allah
28. Dua of the parent against or for his children
29. When the sun moves from its meridian but before the Dhuhr prayer
30. The Dua of a Muslim for his brother without the latter's knowledge
31. At the time the army advances to fight in the way of Allah.


Dua can be beautified and perfected by certain actions:

1. Have Wudu, face Qibla, be neat and clean
2. Raise both hands up to the shoulder with palms open facing up
3. Use words of Allah and Muhammad (SAW)-i.e. Duas found in Quran and Hadith
4. Ask by Asma alHusna- Allah's Beautiful Names
5. Ask Allah by your good deeds
6. Be insistent-repeat (i.e. 3x's)
7. Glorify Allah and recite Durud for the Prophet (SAW) at both the beginning and end
8. Show humility, entreaty, desire and fear while making Dua
9. Repent and try to make amends where one has wronged
10. Confess mistakes, shortcomings, and sins
11. Keep voice between a whisper and speaking aloud
12. Show the need for Allah's help and implore Him for release from weakness, hardship and tribulation.
13. Seize the opportunity of time, situation and circumstance in which prayers are answered
14. Avoid rhymed prose to keep concentration
15. Crying when making Dua
16. The Dua of Dhun-Nun (Yunus) by which he invoked Allah from within the belly of the whale was:
"LAa ilaha illa Anta, Subhanaka innee kuntu min aDH-DHaalimeen."

No Muslim ever makes Dua with it but Allah answers it." [at tirmidhi in his sunan, ahmad and hakim reported it and hakim declared it authentic and adh dhahabee agreed]

17. End with "Alhamdulillah rabbil alameen"

Allah Almighty says in the Qur'an:

"When my servants ask you concerning me, (tell them) I am indeed close (to them). I listen to the prayer of every suppliant when he calls on me." [2:186] The place of duaa is so high to Allah, that the Prophet had said: "Nothing is more honourable to Allah the Most High than du`a."
[Sahih al-Jami` no.5268].

He also said: "The most excellent worship is du`a."
[Sahih Al-Jami` no. 1133];

In order to warn those who are arogant, or careless in making duaa, the Prophet said: "The most incapable person is the one who does not make du`a, and the most miserly person is the one who does not give salaam."
[Sahih Al-Jami` no. 1055],

And let not there be anyone who says: "... my Lord won't answer my prayer, because of this and that.. or because of so and so..". No! Indeed Allah is the Most Generous King. Is there anyone who met a king, and praised and glorified him, and then asked, yet the request was not granted? So what about Allah, the King of the Heavens and the Earth - who has total control over your life, your wealth and your future. Why would He not grant you your request? I

Indeed, our beloved Prophet had said: "Verily your Lord is the One modest and Generous, and when His servant raises his hands to Him in supplication, He is diffident (in some wordings, shy or hesitant) from returning them empty."
[Ahmad, Abu Dawud and at-Tirmidhi - Hasan]

10.Having Trust in Allah

The best way for us to increase our Iman is to completely submit our will to Allah and have full trust in him and we can do this by doing out utmost to follow every command in the Qur’an and Sunnah. We should live our life according to them and we will find success around every corner of our lives inshallah. If we turn to Allah in happy times then he will help us in times of distress and anguish. We should have patience in Allah's Decree and accept it that it is for the best and is meant to happen because he is the knower of all things and the almighty and always remember that no matter what trials or tribulations we do face in this World, one day we will be called to account for our deeds which were hopefully sent forth with much goodness and patience.I pray that inshallah on qiyamah we be given our good deeds in our right hands and allah has mercy on us and gives us Jannatul Firdaus.[B] Ameen[/B]

In Surah At-Tauba: 51, Allah (SWT) says "Say: 'Nothing will happen to us except what Allah has decreed for us: He is our protector': And on Allah let the Believers put their trust."

In Surah Ash-Shu'araa:217 Allah (SWT) says "And put thy trust on the exalted in Might, The Merciful."

In Surah Al-Imran:159, Allah (SWT) says "...Then, when thou hast taken a decision, put thy trust in Allah. For Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."

If Allah helps you, none can overcome you: If He forsakes you, who is there, after that, that can help you? In Allah, then, Let believers put their trust. 3:160

It does not matter what you do, obey or disobey, the result will be that you will receive what Allah has ordained for you. You can not add to it or subtract from it. What you do is either benefit yourself with the blessings of obedience or harm yourself with the fruits of your disobedience. We have been told that what is for us can't miss us and what is not for us can't hit us.

We have to learn to trust that Allah will take care of us when we obey Him and that He wills withdrawal His Great Mercy when we disobey. Every morning the bird goes out to seek the provision Allah has given him, and every night he comes home with it. Allah has promised us our provision.

Umar Ibin Al Khattab narrated that he heard Allah's Messenger say, "If you were to trust in Allah genuinely, He would give you provision as He does for the birds which go out hungry in the morning and come back full in the evening. Tirmidhi and Ibin Majah (sahih).

Trusting in Allah means that when we hear a command, we obey it. We recognize that we are limited and that Allah has no limits. He knows what we do not know. We do not try to explain away the commands of Allah by saying that it is for another time or another people. We don not say that what Allah has commanded for us is oppressive. We accept and obey. This is faith and trust.

There is much reward in trusting Allah, paradise. There is sin in distrusting Him. We need to stop relying on our desires our minds our version of logic and realize that Allah is the one who knows while we know not. Allah is the Wise, and His judgements are wise by default. Allah is the Just and His verdicts are Just by default. We can not see everything in every issue as Allah can, so why do we insist on believing that our minds can be trusted before or instead of Allah?

I pray to You, O Allah, to make us trust you and only you. May you make us of the Trusting and keep us from trusting or worshipping our minds before you. Ameen.

Finally let’s have full hope in Allah, for verily Allah the All Mighty says:
“Be not deceived by the [uninhibited] movement of the disbelievers throughout the land. [It is but] a small enjoyment; then their [final] refuge is Hell, and wretched is the resting place.” [Aal-Imraan 196-197]
 

Muslimah16

ServantOfAllah*
:salam2: brother,
What an amazing answer, May Allah reward you.
Aameen.
Please continue makiing dua
Wasalaam
 

The_truth

Well-Known Member
:salam2: brother,
What an amazing answer, May Allah reward you.
Aameen.
Please continue makiing dua
Wasalaam

Asalaam wr wb sister hope you found that benificial! Everything happens for a reason sister and this is a way of Allah guiding you because he wants you to be the closest and the most devoted to him!
We all experience a lack of imaan now and again but my previous posts tell you how to keep your imaan levels topped up so that they don't go down and if they do then you know what to do now in order to keep your imaan levels up!
I will remember you in my dua's sister and please remember me in yours! If theres anything else you need or any help with anything at all then please don't hesitate to ask! Allah Hafiz
 

Muslim18

Blessed Muslimah
:salam2:

Sister as mashallah everyone has put it so beautifully dhikr, quran and reading about hadiths and righteous generations i find also boost imaan as well i find when i feel down i have to pick myself up because Allah blessed me so much by giving me islam and love for islam but when i feel down i think what if i am one of those whom become like its says in the Quran.

'And if ye turn away He will exchange you for some other folk, and they will not be the likes of you' (38)

Its scares me when i feel its sunnah to recite a dua 'oh Allah the flipper of the hearts keep my heart consolidated in you deen and rememberance.' ameen i hope it helps but i cant type it in arabic i hope someone can help by giving you this beautifully dua inshallah :hijabi:

:wasalam:
 

Asiya-sparkles

Junior Member
Revival of the Religious Sciences - Ghazali
My Dear Beloved Son - Ghazali
Deliverance from Error - Ghazali
The Alchemy of Happiness - Ghazali
The Lives of Man - Haddad
The Book of Assistance - Haddad
Revelations of the Unseen - Jeelani
The Sublime Revelation - Jeelani

Riyadh Al Saliheen - Nawawi
Al Adab al Mufrad - Bukhari
Mishkaat al Masaabeeh - Tibrizi


InshAllah, these books could really help to soften your heart & increase your iman.

Also, has been mentioned many times constant remembrance of Allah & His messenger(saw) & connecting that with the world around you inshAllah.

I love this quote:
"I stand for prayer, face the Ka'ba with a bridge under my feet, Paradise by my right side, Hell by my left side, Angel of Death behind me, and think that this is my last prayer. Then I stand between fear and hope, recite Takbir, make Ruk'u with humility, prostrate with fear..."
-Asem

The Prophet (may the peace and blessings and beatitude of God be upon him and his family and his companions and those that follow them in the best way until the Day of Judgment) said:

The Muslim nation is a unique nation among the whole of mankind: Their Land is one, their War is one, their Peace is one, their Honour is one, and their Trust is one. (Musnad Ahmad)

Subhan allah, what a tremendous blessing fo rus all, not language, nor distance nor culture can divide us from our extended peace and help for each other. Ma'shallah what a tremendous sign.

It is also worth mentioning Rizq & how that applies to all things in life as well as money, our knowledge, iman, tests - everything.

We need to increase our reliance and trust in Ar Razzaaq and let go of the false notions we might have about how we have attained the things we have. Tawakkal on Allah should be something we all strive to gain and establish firmly in our hearts.

"And upon Allah rely if you are believers." [al-Maa`idah:23]

"The believers are only those who, when Allah is mentioned, their hearts become fearful, and when His verses are recited to them, it increases them in faith; and upon their Lord they rely." [al-Anfaal:2]
 
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