HELP

[Maryam25]

:salam2: to all my sisters and brothers

I would like to know some prayer or surrah to read for my brother who needs
guidance. A dua which i can recite that will help him to go towards and closer to Allah swt.

The problem is that he is very much influenced by his friends and their way of living which is unhealthy he doesn't listen to his parents, does not pray, is not helping himself is going against his family his age is only 17 years but because we live in a western society he is adamant that he is not wrong. A lot of tension is at home and is causing a lot of friction in the family. He constantly says i don't care what happens to me the sad thing is he is very clever and intelligent and his life will be wasted if he continues to travel down that route.

Please help.

 

[Summer03]

Asalamu alikum sister,

I am saddened by your situation. may Allah guide your brother to the right path! May Allah swt show him the right way soon inshallah.

I know that tHe best thing to say is "may Allah guide him and show him the right path"
remember to always make duaa. Be patient, Allah will guide him if He swt Wills.

May Allah guide him and Us Muslims alike!

Salam

 

[ahmed_indian]

yes, pray to Allah to guide him. also give him some Islamic books, lectures about Allah, paradise, hell, death, grave ,etc.

eg. when you see someone died young in car accident, advice him gently that this is life. its very uncertain.

you can have a talk of maybe 3-5 min daily in the family about Islam.

inshallah, his heart will melt and the mind will awake.

 

[Maryam25]

:salam2:

Thank you for your kind words we will continue to make dua for all.

It is quiet sad the youth over here is loosing their sight to see the right path,

May Allah swt guide us all ameen x

 

[mahussain3]

Assalamualykum Dear sister,

I advice you to read Hadiths on SALAH,QURAN,FASTING,ISLAMIC WAY OF LIVING and Surahs of Quran daily atleast just for 5 mins,Insha-Allah if ALLAH wills you will notice the change in his behaviour within 40 days.
May Allah show your brother and to all of us the RIGHT PATH...Ameen

 

[a_stranger]

:salam2:sister

My advice to you : continue to be his sister , try to be close to him ......i think (and Allah knows best ) that he has a bad company ...if you can offer him a better friendship then may be he will listen to you more......you need some plan to change your brother ...first step win his trust and try to bring him back to the love of the family.

 

[mahussain3]

:salam2:sister

My advice to you : continue to be his sister , try to be close to him ......i think (and Allah knows best ) that he has a bad company ...if you can offer him a better friendship then may be he will listen to you more......you need some plan to change your brother ...first step win his trust and try to bring him back to the love of the family.

REALLY A PERFECT ADVICE

 

[Seeking Allah's Mercy]

:salam2:
my sister.i'm so sorry to hear about your problems.it's hard to have a family member going against the family customs.sis i suggest if you are kind of in good terms with your brother.get to him using his ways.i mean share some of his interests,have a discussion that he likes.talk to him in his language(meaning in a way that he'll get it rather then getting angry and all.) when things are going on great and he's in a good mood then try talking sense to him.i know you asked about dua but i duuno any such.

this kinda thing works well with me.could work for you too inshallah..
may ALLAH give us all guidance.ameen

 

[krackpot]

i have seen some friends in this dilemma but alhamdulilla they change in no time sister keep patience and pray to allah.... try to reason with him and give him books of aqeeda'h