Assalamo alikom, dear sister
Dearest and most respected sister,
Your words are true only in a community that chose to forsake Allah's Rule and teachings on Earth and live by their own minds, following their own whims.. Unfortunately, most communities have made their mind to manage without Allah's words except some few TRUE Muslims who still fear Allah SWT. and watch Him in everything they do and say.
Maybe I'm shocked because of the atmosphere I was brought up in. My late dad, may Allah bless his soul and reward him the best reward for what he had done with us, was an honorable model of the best father and husband ever.Also my uncles and my brothers and most people here are of that kind of men who respect and sanctify the family. That kind of men that once they have children they forget about themselves, their needs and even their feelings for the benefits of their children. They always remember the Prophet, peace be upon him, saying:
(3) Narrated Abdullah bin 'Umar: I heard Allah's Apostle saying, "Everyone of you is a guardian, and responsible for what is in his custody. The ruler is a guardian of his subjects and responsible for them; a husband is a guardian of his family and is responsible for it; a lady is a guardian of her husband's house and is responsible for it, and a servant is a guardian of his master's property and is responsible for it." I heard that from Allah's Apostle and I think that the Prophet also said, "A man is a guardian of is father's property and is responsible for it, so all of you are guardians and responsible for your wards and things under your care." (Book #41, Hadith #592)
Dearest and most respected sister,
Your words are true only in a community that chose to forsake Allah's Rule and teachings on Earth and live by their own minds, following their own whims.. Unfortunately, most communities have made their mind to manage without Allah's words except some few TRUE Muslims who still fear Allah SWT. and watch Him in everything they do and say.
Maybe I'm shocked because of the atmosphere I was brought up in. My late dad, may Allah bless his soul and reward him the best reward for what he had done with us, was an honorable model of the best father and husband ever.Also my uncles and my brothers and most people here are of that kind of men who respect and sanctify the family. That kind of men that once they have children they forget about themselves, their needs and even their feelings for the benefits of their children. They always remember the Prophet, peace be upon him, saying:
(3) Narrated Abdullah bin 'Umar: I heard Allah's Apostle saying, "Everyone of you is a guardian, and responsible for what is in his custody. The ruler is a guardian of his subjects and responsible for them; a husband is a guardian of his family and is responsible for it; a lady is a guardian of her husband's house and is responsible for it, and a servant is a guardian of his master's property and is responsible for it." I heard that from Allah's Apostle and I think that the Prophet also said, "A man is a guardian of is father's property and is responsible for it, so all of you are guardians and responsible for your wards and things under your care." (Book #41, Hadith #592)
