Assalamualaikum,
............. He said that is his right as a husband/man where he is allowed to do anything he wants.
I am a bit confused and I would like to know if this is his right as husband.
Wa aleikum salam
A husband is to be obeyed when he leads a clean life and has good intentions. To be a man does not give him the right to do whatever he wants, just like that.
I guess some small innocent secrets we all have right to have, privacy right, but main thing is to be a good muslim and honest in his actions and to you, that is what gives him the right to be ruler of the family.
~~Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 628
The Prophet (saws) said: ‘Among the Muslims the most perfect, as regards his faith, is the one whose character is excellent, and the best among you are those who treat their wives well.’
Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3252Narrated by Aisha
Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "The best of you is he who is best to his family, and I am the best among you to my family.”
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith
We were sitting with 'Abdullah bin 'Amr who was narrating to us (Hadith). He said that the Messenger of Allah (saws) said: 'The best among you are the best in character (having good manners).' "~~