i need an open ear. im a 2year revert and still not quite familiar with the quran as i should be. many problems burden me such as my mom dislikes and misunderstands me embracing islam. im trying to begin school with no finances and no job. not to mention a family of slaker who live hand to mouth and are ready to degrade you and beg for your last. my friends dont understand my plight. and to top it off a palistinian has fallen in love with me.:shymuslima1:
his name is ammar and he is 22. he saw me at my uncle abuallis house and for six months tried to find out who i was in secret fearing that abualli would be furious of his intrest in me.:arabi1:
i had never dated out of my country or race not that i had a problem, but the combonation was overwhelming. i gave it a shot and now he wants to get married. it's only been two months and i fear its way to early. so i say wait and he says now.:fighta:
his dad wants him to marry soon so he can die knowing he is in good hands. so before i could speak ammar begins making plans and told his entire family of me. his mom is expecting a wedding but he has no consent from either of my parents. my bag of burdens is full enough. my mom would have a fit if she even knew i was dating him let alone speaking of marriage. my dad is fine with it and has given him the green light solong as i can finish college and marry afterwards.
i maid a mistake and said inshaallah that we could marry a month from now if all is well.
im 18 and my life is yet to begin. he promises that i am free to hang with my friends and live on campus solong as i devote myself to him only. my restriction are not many which make me want to marry but still i have fear that i might not be right for him considering our differences. but he does not care.
he is financialy stable and has good intent behind his every move, but i am just finding my self and i need time to feel the world on my own and gain worth for my self. i must learn to love myself before i can love anyone else but maybe this is allahs way of helping me by sending a person who can show me and guide me.
i need to seriously look in my self and find the answer by listening to wat allah is telling me. but my mind and heart our in two different places and i cant bring them together. :shake:
somone please give your opinion it would be greatly appreciated!!!:tti_sister:
his name is ammar and he is 22. he saw me at my uncle abuallis house and for six months tried to find out who i was in secret fearing that abualli would be furious of his intrest in me.:arabi1:
i had never dated out of my country or race not that i had a problem, but the combonation was overwhelming. i gave it a shot and now he wants to get married. it's only been two months and i fear its way to early. so i say wait and he says now.:fighta:
his dad wants him to marry soon so he can die knowing he is in good hands. so before i could speak ammar begins making plans and told his entire family of me. his mom is expecting a wedding but he has no consent from either of my parents. my bag of burdens is full enough. my mom would have a fit if she even knew i was dating him let alone speaking of marriage. my dad is fine with it and has given him the green light solong as i can finish college and marry afterwards.
i maid a mistake and said inshaallah that we could marry a month from now if all is well.
im 18 and my life is yet to begin. he promises that i am free to hang with my friends and live on campus solong as i devote myself to him only. my restriction are not many which make me want to marry but still i have fear that i might not be right for him considering our differences. but he does not care.
he is financialy stable and has good intent behind his every move, but i am just finding my self and i need time to feel the world on my own and gain worth for my self. i must learn to love myself before i can love anyone else but maybe this is allahs way of helping me by sending a person who can show me and guide me.
i need to seriously look in my self and find the answer by listening to wat allah is telling me. but my mind and heart our in two different places and i cant bring them together. :shake:
somone please give your opinion it would be greatly appreciated!!!:tti_sister: