Yousef83
Junior Member
Salam Aleykum to everyone
I have a big problem about my country where i live and women of that.My feels now completely hatred on them.I dont know what to do.May be i will lose my work because of that.Because i cant withstand to breath at same place together with them.Even in the city,country...
My problem that ; You know the non muslim females and their life style,dressing etc.After being muslim i cant accept their treats i feel they bargain against Allah (c.c) and i just watch them.I started to keep away from there no matter where is.When i see such woman on bank while waiting my turn i suddenly give up to wait and just quit there.If they ask me anything at work i dont answer.just 5 days ago my boss asked me about whats my problem.
You know there are only less than 1% Muslims where i live,i cant rid of that.Where i go where i look at i see them around of me.After these days now i started to hate from all females no matter muslim or non muslim.I cant withstand to see non muslim girls now i see especially North african Muslim females in the city while they shopping.They just envy catholic girls and work to look like them.They wear headscarf but also jeans,which impossible fit on Muslim girl wearing.You understand what i mean.I'm in deep dilemma.I want to have family like our Prophet (pbuh) suggested and Allah (c.c) commanded.But in that feel i cant stay at same place with a woman forget make a family.
I thought to go a psychologist (bwt i dont believe they can help) but i scared if he would share my feels with my boss because i converted Islam.I worked to rid of these feels myself and it worked for some days.I do forget that after my prayers but then again starting.
I have been member here for 10 days or so and read too much here about everything and i know you are very friendly and great Muslims.I know our religion consider duas for any subject.I need you to suggest me a dua if you know for such feels to escape or any idea.
Thanks in advance.
May Allah protect you all
I have a big problem about my country where i live and women of that.My feels now completely hatred on them.I dont know what to do.May be i will lose my work because of that.Because i cant withstand to breath at same place together with them.Even in the city,country...
My problem that ; You know the non muslim females and their life style,dressing etc.After being muslim i cant accept their treats i feel they bargain against Allah (c.c) and i just watch them.I started to keep away from there no matter where is.When i see such woman on bank while waiting my turn i suddenly give up to wait and just quit there.If they ask me anything at work i dont answer.just 5 days ago my boss asked me about whats my problem.
You know there are only less than 1% Muslims where i live,i cant rid of that.Where i go where i look at i see them around of me.After these days now i started to hate from all females no matter muslim or non muslim.I cant withstand to see non muslim girls now i see especially North african Muslim females in the city while they shopping.They just envy catholic girls and work to look like them.They wear headscarf but also jeans,which impossible fit on Muslim girl wearing.You understand what i mean.I'm in deep dilemma.I want to have family like our Prophet (pbuh) suggested and Allah (c.c) commanded.But in that feel i cant stay at same place with a woman forget make a family.
I thought to go a psychologist (bwt i dont believe they can help) but i scared if he would share my feels with my boss because i converted Islam.I worked to rid of these feels myself and it worked for some days.I do forget that after my prayers but then again starting.
I have been member here for 10 days or so and read too much here about everything and i know you are very friendly and great Muslims.I know our religion consider duas for any subject.I need you to suggest me a dua if you know for such feels to escape or any idea.
Thanks in advance.
May Allah protect you all