السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته
Akhi if it's something urgent that you can't talk to anybody with wouldn't it be better if your seek the advice of the Imam in the city you live in?
Remeber there is no shyness in sseking knowledge in islam. The Sahaba radhiallahu anhoum weren't shy to ask the Prophet salallahu alihi wassalam any question.
Maybe you should first try if there wasn't someone who had the same problem as you in these interenet sites were the fatawa's of our great scholars are being collected.
www.fatwaislam.com
This site contains the fatawa or advices of the following scholars:
• Shaykh `Abdul-`Azeez Bin Baz
• Shaykh Naasir ud-Deen al-Albaanee
• Shaykh Muhammad bin Saalih al-`Uthaymeen
• Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan
• Shaykh Muqbil bin Haadee
• Shaykh `Abdul-`Azeez Aal ush-Shaykh
• Shaykh ul-Islaam Muhammad bin `Abdul-Wahhaab
• Shaykh `Abdullah bin Ghudayaan
• Shaykh `Abdullaah bin Qu`ood
and f you can't find anything about your problem there you could try this site:
http://www.alifta.net/default.aspx
this site contains the fatawas of the permanent comitte of scholars of Saudi Arabia whose members are and were:
Shaykh `Abdul-`Aziz ibn `Abdullah ibn `Abdul-Rahman ibn Muhammad ibn `Abdullah Al Baz
Shaykh `Abdul-`Aziz ibn `Abdullah ibn Muhammad Al Al-Shaykh
Shaykh `Abdul-Razzaq ibn `Afify ibn `AtiyyahShaykh `Abdullah ibn Qa`ud
Shaykh Ibrahim ibn Muhammad Al Al-Shaykh
Shaykh `Abdullah ibn Ghudayyan
Shaykh Bakr ibn `Abdullah Abu Zayd
Shaykh `Abdullah ibn Mani`
Shaykh Ahmad ibn `Aly ibn Ahmad Sayr Al-Mubaraky
Shaykh `Abdullah ibn Muhammad Al-Mutallaq
Shaykh `Abdullah ibn Muhammad ibn Sa`d Al Khanin
Shaykh Sa`d ibn Nasir ibn `Abdul-Aziz Abu Habib Al-Shatry
Muhammad ibn Hasan Al Al-Shaykh
Shaykh `Abdul-Karim Al-Khudir
warahmatullahi wa baraktu.