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[Salam2You]

Salam alaikum to you all!
Hope you're all doing well InshaAllah ta 'ala

I have a problem. I've posted another thread and to sum it up: a friend says she's a sayyid and said "whoever breaks my heart it hurts nabi s.a.w, if it hurts nabi s.a.w it angers Allah"... I had replies saying she committed a grave sin...

Then I realise she isn't such a good influence to stay with since she makes up hadiths and doesn't back up her sayings with evidence; and we've had our ups and downs. Is it true if I break up with a friend (or don't speak to them for 3 days) I'm a kaffir ? (N'authu billah)

Question 2: Important-
Is it right for her to say: "If you were to go Mecca and give your salam to nabi s.a.w it would be unlikely he'd give me his salam back?"
This really hurt my feelings
I feel dead, literally.

 

[Abu Talib]

Wa`alaykumassalam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu

Ask her that your from Prophet Adam (Peace be upon him) so if she hurts you then she would be hurting Prophet Adam (Peace be upon him) ?

For the 2nd question how does she know that? I hope she doesn't say I saw in my dream or the Prophet ( Peace and Blessings of Allah be Upon Him) informed her

To break off relations with a Muslim is a sin but not an act that drives the person out of Islam. Please refer to the link has good explanation on it

http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/21878

Don't fall to her dubious talks Allaah is the one who is going to Judge you not her be happy ask Allaah to guide her to the straight path

 

[Salam2You]

Abu Talib jazakAllah so much for the clarification

 

[ShahnazZ]

What the....?!

Um.

I'd probably get banned if I continue this thought.

Ukhti, RUN! If you want to give her dawah and tell her she's dead WRONG, feel free. But if that doesn't work I do NOT recommend that you spend any more time with this girl.

This is nothing short of shirk and I wouldn't be surprised if two seconds later, she starts spouting that she's God instead...

 

[Salam2You]

Shahnaz you made me laugh and smile alhmadulillah! <3

And you are so right. I've took your idea of avoiding her. Now I don't have to feel dead anymore or feel as if I'm the worst Muslim on this earth!

JazakAllah to you both for your interest of commenting. May Allah grant you all Jannat-Al-Firdaus!! Ameeeen ya rab!

 

[IHearIslam]

Assalaamu alaikum dear sister,

You do not have to be friends with her anymore. You are obliged to say the salaam, but thats it if she is harming your imaan. May Allaah help you !

 

[xAllahKnowsBestx]

That's scary... I would stay away from her, sis. :/ Be nice to her and everything, but don't get too close or anything because it could affect your imaan.

 

[samiha]

wa 'alaykum salaam wa rahmatullaah

Ditto to all of the above ukhti! Stay faaar away from such a person, she's sort of living in her own world of delusion, a quite stuck up world at that! Astagfirullaah, hurting her angers Allaah?

Read this inshaAllaah and be content sah?

This action is not prescribed in Islam, and there is no one who did that during the three best generations, or among the wise Muslims, because anyone can send salaams upon the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) wherever he is. Allaah has guaranteed that this salaam will be conveyed by the angels whom He has appointed for this task. Based on this, whoever sends salaams upon the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), in any place, his salaam will reach him for sure. What comparison can there be between this and asking one who is going to visit Madeenah to convey salaams to the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), when you do not know whether he will convey it or not, or whether the person will remember or forget?

It was narrated that ‘Abd-Allaah ibn Mas’ood (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allaah has angels who go around on earth, conveying to me the salaam of my ummah.” Narrated by al-Nasaa’i, 1282; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Targheeb, 1664.

It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Do not take your houses as graves and do not take my grave as a place of festivity (which you visit repeatedly). Send blessings upon me for your greeting will reach me no matter where you are.” Narrated by Abu Dawood, 2042; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 7226.

Full Fatwa < Do read it! =)

And while the right of the Muslim is to give them salaam and not prolong silence for more than three days, it doesnt mean that you should go out of your way to be friends with a person who lowers your Imaan, and speaks from her desires, and it definitely does not take you out of Islaam.

Al-Bukhaari (6237) and Muslim (2561) narrated from Abu Ayyoob (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “It is not permissible for a Muslim to forsake his brother for more than three days, each of them turning away from the other when they meet. The better of them is the first to greet the other with salaam.”

Full Fatwa

Allaah knows best!

 

[Salam2You]

Wow I thought my thread would have reached 2nd page by now, subhanAllah!

JazakAllah khairan to you allllllllll. I am really going to stick to the advice you all gave me, it's a great and right thing to do from all of the above!

You are all in my duas! I love you all for the sake of Allah.

Again JazakAllah for your replies, it's reaaaally really comforted me.

Thank you!!