Wow. Subhanallah. I really needed this today.. Unfortunately, I got upset with my elderly mother, 89, as she was "interrupting" my day off today to go to her and help her. I was very selfish and feeling "put upon" because I am the one who cares for, not my brother or sister.. My sister cant as she is caring for her 4th stage cancer husband. My mom lives alone in her apt but has caregivers 3 days a week, 2x a day plus myself and my sister in law who comes 1x a week. I am the only muslim in the family so unfortunately, I have had some issues with my mother and family in the past about my "choice" of faith..so to speak..Anyway, I do my best..no I really dont I guess do I? I should watch this EVERY SINGLE DAY!!! Unfortunately, I have been inpatient with my mother as this son was. Astifigullah.. It shames to write this.. inshallah I will get edger for my difficulties in caregiving and trying to be patient.