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Asslamo Allaikum Brother,
I meant compromise in the sense of you are looking for a practising Muslimah but you compromise for someone who is NOT as practising as you would like; hoping that she would change and so on...Sometimes its hard for people to change you know
Off course marraige is about compromise and we Should!
Hope it clears it up for you.
I meant compromise in the sense of you are looking for a practising Muslimah but you compromise for someone who is NOT as practising as you would like; hoping that she would change and so on...Sometimes its hard for people to change you know
Off course marraige is about compromise and we Should!
Hope it clears it up for you.
Though I have not experienced such relations of marriage and I can understand how painful it is to get throught such a process you mentioned in the post. But my thoughts are a bit pulled by you above statement. I had been thinking that successful marraige under the command of Allah is to compromise with the ups and downs of marital life. This compromise is the way to bow your head in front of the fate chosen for you by Allah. Ofcourse there is a limit of tolerance for everything, and I understand that you must have tolerated the sad situation till you reached your limit and broke away.
But above statement given by you simply advising the Muslims to remain 'idealistic'.
I expect that you being from such a culture where most of marriages are arranged marraiges, know that arranged marraiges were more successful because the people who bow their ego in front of their parents they infact have more ability of tolerating the cons of their mariatal life too.
Wassalaam,
VirtualEye.